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Mar 5, 2007 AT 02:41 pm
Click on the continue reading link below to read an update on my pregnancy drama.
I just got back from the hospital and once again, I got bad news. Last week was great. So I expected (hoped) that this week would follow in the trend. Instead, my cervix has shrunk back down to 2 cm. The strangest part about it was as the doctor was explaining the issues, my cervix slowly began to gain length. She then said that I have what's called a dynamic cervix - which means it fluctuates continuously throughout the day. It's not so great because there is no real way to measure progress. I was sent home with strict orders to not move and with a prescription to stop contractions. Apparently I might be having contractions without being aware of them. This could be a reason why my cervix is moving around so much. If she doesn't see progress by this Friday, then I have to have an operation where my cervix gets stitched closed.
I'm shocked! I was expecting rave reviews. But I guess it might be my fault a bit. I have been getting up more than I should. But what can I do when my daughter comes over to me with a book? I have to sit up and read it to her. Unfortunately, not after today. I have to remind myself that I am not being a bad mommy. I am doing what is best for my growing family. I will just have to read it to her while I am sideways.
And I just feel terrible about my poor husband. He is running around like a chicken without a head. It's getting to him for sure. But he keeps on telling me to lean on him. So I should just shut up and take the help.
18 weeks, 5 days
In other news, I find out the gender of the baby this Friday. So I guess that is something to look forward to.
I just got back from the hospital and once again, I got bad news. Last week was great. So I expected (hoped) that this week would follow in the trend. Instead, my cervix has shrunk back down to 2 cm. The strangest part about it was as the doctor was explaining the issues, my cervix slowly began to gain length. She then said that I have what's called a dynamic cervix - which means it fluctuates continuously throughout the day. It's not so great because there is no real way to measure progress. I was sent home with strict orders to not move and with a prescription to stop contractions. Apparently I might be having contractions without being aware of them. This could be a reason why my cervix is moving around so much. If she doesn't see progress by this Friday, then I have to have an operation where my cervix gets stitched closed.
I'm shocked! I was expecting rave reviews. But I guess it might be my fault a bit. I have been getting up more than I should. But what can I do when my daughter comes over to me with a book? I have to sit up and read it to her. Unfortunately, not after today. I have to remind myself that I am not being a bad mommy. I am doing what is best for my growing family. I will just have to read it to her while I am sideways.
And I just feel terrible about my poor husband. He is running around like a chicken without a head. It's getting to him for sure. But he keeps on telling me to lean on him. So I should just shut up and take the help.
18 weeks, 5 days
In other news, I find out the gender of the baby this Friday. So I guess that is something to look forward to.
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23.5 hours on your side again? Or just more bedrest than before?
Poor Vera. *hug*
Oh, hugs to your hubby too, for being a good man.
sorry to hear this. I was sure that after last week, everything would be smoother sailing. Just rest up, take care, and know that this too will eventually be over and well worth it.
I hope everything works out !
Thinking of you and wishing you the best!
I hope things work out, Im sure they will :-)xx
You are soo in my prayers. :)
hope everything goes well
Hoping all goes well.
God Bless you momma. Dont you worry about a thing its in gods hands and whatever shall be will be. Keep god first and no you are absolutly NOT being a bad mommy, although I feel your pain by not being able to do with your first baby right now but its ok its temporary and you are NOT superwoman so take it easy for a bit enjoy it, but not too much:)
We are here to support you and I am praying for you.
Hang in there, Vera. Think positively. Say "I have a wide cervix" and "I have a happy, health baby." Put it out there and it will be yours.
xoxoxox
Vera,
Thanks for keeping us posted. Stay positive.
OMG, this is so scary. Look, just do what the docs tell you. Your hubby is there for you, and your daughter will understand, if not now, then in time. Take care of yourself, and DO NOT MOVE!
Vera,
Thinking of you & praying for you & your family. Take care!
Hang in there vera! good thoughts and prayers are coming your way from all of us, I know everything will be alright for you and your family. What a great husband you have :) take care and keep us up to date.
This happened to my friend and she did the procedure and now has a healthy four year old. It was hard but she did it!! You can too!!
dear vera, a brand new batch of positive thoughts and goooooood vibrations is on its way, special delivery!!
keep your chin up, and everything else at rest!!
hugs,
laura
I am pregnant too and know how hard it is to take care of a child that is inutero and one that is out of the womb! Take it easy and let your husband dote on you! You deserve it!!!
Hugs & MANY PRAYERS your way -
Hand in there sweetie! It takes a strong woman to go thru what you are. Best of luck!!! ~Another preggers fan
Still praying for you and your family ..take care of U and everyone else will be fine ..
sorry to hear the bad news this week
:(
keep care of yourself! things will work out
Positive Thoughts! You have The Secret! I will send you Positive Thoughts! You are soo sweet!! You will get through this one way or the other! Think of it like that. Either way, it will work out!
Sending positives vibes to you and to your husband.
Take care, Vera! Your family will be in my prayers :)
I know how you feel honey. I was on bedrest for 21 weeks. It really sucked but it paid off with a very healthy baby boy. You are in my prayers. Lots of love!!
take care of yourself ! i know being pregnant ;i never really liked that part either!
but just you wait till the birth!
when are you due?
take care
me
Vera, sorry to hear, especially after you got your hopes up. I hope things start to look up for you. Everyone here is deffinately pulling for you!
lotsa love!
So sorry sweetheart (((((((((big hug)))))))) I know you worry about your daughter, but she will be ok. It gives her a chance to be mommys helper. You will all 4 get through this, and someday you will be able to use this experience to encourage someone else going through it.
Good luck, Vera, we are all sending good vibes your way and hope for the best!
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