Singer Mya recently admitted she went a little ballistic once she found out an old boyfriend was cheating on her. Somehow, she found the girl’s address and phone number and began to stalk her obsessively. But in the end, she STOOD WITH HIM.
“I found the chick’s address; I went riding by. I was calling her cell phone to see if he would be in the background. I had her work number, all of that. I heard things about an engagement, wedding invitations… I just wanted the truth. I didn’t want to be with anyone else. I didn’t want anyone else to know my body. So I stayed and dealt.”
In order to deal with her aggression, she took up boxing and shooting.
“It kept me sane. I became a damn member of the shooting range. It was that serious… I was a mess mentally… (but) the sex was good… That’s what kept me there.”
I eat donuts when I am upset. Other gals go to shooting ranges… I guess that is what makes the world go round. When I was much younger (and when I say younger I mean 14), I stood with a cheating boyfriend for about 4 years. But to compensate for his straying, I cheated too. Terrible I know. In the end, it was the worst relationship I was EVER part of. Once I finally let him go, I didn’t date for about 2 years! My college roommate was going to have me committed. But then I found my husband. So, everything happens for a reason. As a woman, I would never tolerate that kind of behavior. Thankfully, I don’t have to. 
What about you? Be honest! Have you ever stood with a cheating mate?
I was cheated on by a guy I was on and off with for 7 years. ONe of teh final straws was a vacation he took to Hawaii with some woman. Weirdly I had a dream about him with some woman and a phone numebr. Then we were riding in his car and I found a birthday invitation for a chikd with a phone number that was really close. I told him about my dream and he laughed it off Somehow I finally put it together. She and I got together to confront him and i felt sorry for her because she seemed more pathetic than me. I had to tell her to get it together and look after her daughter . I finally broke up with him 7 years ago when I realized it was never going to change. I just went comepletely cold and never looked back. I am much happier now and would never put up with that again.
This article is from the magazine Vibe Vixen.
A strong woman does NOT put up with a cheater… YOU can do betterrrrrr
Yes actually… The guy I was "madly in love with" cheated on me with a girl we went to school with. EVERYONE knew but me! We broke up for about a week but got back together. I was young and stupid! WORST relationship ever! Once we broke up I met me soon-to-be husband and couldnt be happier!
"The sex was good." Good lord, she is shallow.
I met a guy and we started dating, nothing serious, and after a few weeks, he told me that before he met me, he had met (and liked) a girl from another city, and that he had bought his ticket to go see her (also, before he met me), and I didn´t want to sound like a mad person or a stalker, so I didn´t say anything… (after all, he had those plans for weeks before the first time I even saw him, so I coudn´t be mad at that)
But my god! when I saw her picture, I couldn´t believe it, she was really really beautiful, and I´m not proud (and I don´t even know why) I became obsessed with her too! I think I was insecure that he would like her better…
At the end, we found out we had much more in common, and she was a bit of a slut, since she was dating a few guys at the same time so he just told her I was his girlfriend, and that was it, I still don´t like her though (she likes to flirt too much) :S
"the sex was good"
AHAHAHA!!
what does that say about the quality of men around nowadays? hehehe
and I might stay with the cheater depending on circumstances, I believe in seconds chances, usually anyway
But re-offending cheaters? Pack your bags loser!
Yes, I was cheated on while I was pregnant, and well.. we tried to work it out but its not that easy.
Its been 2 years and we are literally now separating.
Yep, went through the cheating experience and cannot imagine staying with the guy. For some (like me) it is a physical reaction when you find out your significant other is cheating, no way could I have stayed.
Yes…but same as you Vera-I was in highschool!
Nope! Nope! Nope! I have been cheated on in two of my serious relationships which ended up putting me into therapy… why would you want to be with someone with poor character and has no sense of self-control and loyalty? I strongly suggest you run away ASAP when you find out.