Jordin Sparks On Her Purity Ring
Aug 28, 2007 AT 09:27 am
--Jordin Sparks
"My parents gave me a purity ring and talked to me about waiting until I'm married to have sex. It wasn't forced; it just made perfect sense. "It's going to be awesome to say to my husband that I waited my whole life for him."
--Jordin Sparks
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She should just STFU.
Maybe YOUUU should STFU ... Unlike her, you got no class ... She's doing the right thing, she's smart to not end up like jamie whore-lynn spears.
uhmm you need to stfu. shes smart and she is pure. your stupidd and a whore.
t m i.....i wish celebs would never talk..ever...and we already know the waiting till your a virgin thing dont work..how..2 words..JESSICA SIMPSON...
I heard a gross rumour that Jessica Simpson got around the whole virginity issue by doing anal before she was married instead.
i support her but......she will probably turn into another spears if it all fails
there is a huge difference between "society" teaching one about sex..and parents teaching their kids about sex..my parents taught me how to be sexually responsible at a very young age..and i never abused that..i had sex before i was married, but I always used protection, never had an unplanned pregnancy..never had a std..and now have been married for 13 years..you said you were in your twenties..well.. i dont want to harp on you..but as you get older, you may start to wish you have played the field a bit..
"...but as you get older, you may start to wish you have played the field a bit.." What bullshit! You'll never regret doing the right thing.
"...you may start to wish you have played the field a bit..." --- why? so you can tell your husband youre used? so that you can tell him that someone else had at your body? how would you feel if your husband said on your marriage night that he'd slept with every other whore from here to new york? i think jordin sparks made a great descision...and her husband will love her that much more because she waited for HIM
My friend from HS was a virgin right up to her wedding day--at age 36!
Good for her. She's a true lady.
Whatever.
I said the same thing she did when I was her age.
Then I got Horny.
whore
Ok so girls are expected to be virgins and men are expected to have been around the block a few times. I never could understand that logic ! Who exactly are these men getting their experience from? teehee
there are purity rings for men too...=/
Savage, this is a great post, I could have said that too. (Not so well spoken but anyway all my thoughts are in your post)
Thanks.
i am happy she feels this way NOW, but what happens when you lose your virginity to rape?
Or you never meet that great guy, who will want to sleep with a 40 year old virgin?
They'll be lined up at the door!
I am not a big fan of abstinence; I recognize that it has its upsides, just as homosexuality has its upsides.
"...I recognize that it has its upsides, just as homosexuality has its upsides." Let's see, abstinence allows you to stay disease free, pregnancy free. Homosexuality gives you a sore ass. Hmmm...yeah I guess they both have their upsides.
Shes so right!
I look up to her!
And the Jonas Brothers!
all of them have purity rings!And so do I!!!
That so amazing how celebs are like that!!
I LOVE THE JONAS BROTHERS BTW!!!
♥
Also If you wait get married and get divorced they have another pledge for you to take if you are willing to to "re-virginize" ( i know how it sounds but it is what some people choose to do another belief)
and yes they wait until marriage again. I tend to do research on topic before making comments or forming opinions about them. One less ignorant person on a topic.
Love and sex are not the same thing. One is a choice NOT a feeling (love) and the other is an activity (sex). You cannot sustain a long healthy marriage or relationship that is based solely on the compatibility of its participant’s physical activity. That’s one reason why so many marriages fail- they do not know what to do for the other 23 hours in the day. Those who are wise enough to understand a relationship is based on communication not sex often choose to abstain from sexually activity and work on the thing that will last, communication… Choosing to be pure is a lot more than just waiting to have sex.
Fantastic! You're very wise.
i think thatshe is very smart for doing the right thing. I got one because it makes purfect sence. Whoever doesnt agree, u have ur opinon and i have mine, so leave her alone!!!!!!!!!!
Great Job Jordin u keep being pure and wait till u r married cuz it will be a whole lot specilier for u i love that ure such a great excample to us keep on shinnin
See this is the type of thing that realy fascinates me. I feel that it's bigger than what we all know, and it's hard just to think of it as black and white. The thing that sticks out in my mind is that what if her husband had not waited? Or, lord forbid, she had gotten raped, or never even find anyone at all? People want to say that virginity is a gift. Why are we basing worth on an act? Why, if you're not a virgin, you're supposely cheated out your spouse? Why can't be YOU as yourself, your love your promise of commitment ,etc be the gift? No, instead its whether or not a man put a penis in your vagina--just because you've had sex before doesn't mean that you don't have morals, your a whore, or you didn't love your spouse just enough to "hold out". love in itself is hard to find---why make it harder by telling people their sex lives will not be as great if they had not waited. that's why alot of themfeel guilty--people others are telling them that.
Shame and guilt can be powerful tools for good. People today need to feel more shame for what they do.
You've addressed many important topics that I agree with: what if her husband does not wait - does that make it less special for her to wait to be married to have sex? if you say yes, definitively, your response reveals a lack of mental and emotional depth. If you say that we are not bodies, we have bodies (by the definition of those who believe in souls), then, if sex allows connection on an emotional or soul-uniting level, whether someone has been physical with another person is much less of a factor than from a completely physical standpoint. 2. Rape is one of the worst and most unfortunate crimes ever committed. The complete transformation it can have on the life of an innocent man or woman through transmission of STDs, pregnancy or child support dues, and a redefinition of self, is one that is hard to overcome years after the incident. Allegedly, if you are raped you get your purity back (through what means I'm uncertain), but I can imagine the experience would drastically change the conscious and subconscious views of sex a person would hold, especially if they have no other sexual experience. And the third is my favorite. I completely agree. There is absolutely no reason that anyone's worth should be based on whether they've had a sexual encounter. Especially their self-worth. We all have beauty to give to the world and no child is born onto this earth uttering damnations and hurling judgments at each other; that appears to be the work of "more mature" and "civilized" individuals. By the way, if you are a Christian, you have no right to pass judgments on people. According to your own holy book, God and Jesus, are sole owner to those rights. Many people's morals may be different than your own, but just because their choices fit their morals and not yours doesn't make them immoral. Finally, to each person who has had their share of sexual encounters within or without marriage: you are not a ****. you are a beautiful, whole person, shaped by your experiences,your biology, and your knowledge, you are uniquely individual and special, you deserve romance and love and genuine care and respect from your fellow men. You are a true gift. And I am sorry if you have ever been judged harshly for unfathomable circumstances or the ideas in which you believe. May you be confident, conquer everything you undertake, and make the world a better place: a place where we are people, not parts.
In my opinion, absitinence is the stupidest thing on the planet. I did research (God bless Google/Wikipedia, amen :P) on it, and found out that 59% of marriages where the woman was abstinent and the man was not fell apart. 40% of marriages where both were abstinent fell apart. And a shocking 78% of marriages where the man was abstinent fell apart. So stick that up your virgin asses, Jonas Brothers. Have fun being divorced because you suck.
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