Boo to HIM! Check out Karina Smirnoff talking about when she found out Mario Lopez was cheating on her. It's obviously still a fresh wound.
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300 points
i didn't know he cheated on her. that's awful!
Once a cheater, always a cheater. Why on earth did she think he wouldn't cheat on her? He is a snake and Ali found that out after marrying him! Anyone who dates this loser is headed for a heart break! Sad. Girls need to have more self respect and don't date dogs!
300 points
Wow, he definitely fits the "once a cheater, always a cheater" type. What a jerk
2705 points
ouch, that is almost as bad as (way back when) Minnie Driver found out she and Matt Damon were no longer a couple when he was on Oprah and said he was single.
It is well known that Mario Lopez cannot stay faithful. He COMPLETELY screwed over Ali AFTER they were married! I hope that KARMA bites him in the BUTT!!! I am surprised if he doesn't have STDs by now.
Men cheat, why is anyone surprised? I think she is hurt and people are surprised because no one expected Mario to cheat on her. She has a great body and is pretty, some men get tired of the same old puss*. They want variety, some men stay with the same woman, but choose to roam. Others leave for new p*ssy. Is the same game since the beginning of time, get use to it. For any woman who thinks her man has never cheated on her...wake up honey, just because you havent' found out, don't mean he's never done it. What you don't know, wont hurt you.
OMG, you're so full of sh!t.
LOL....don't be mad because I hit a nerve..
hahaha,and you got to know all 3 billion men in this World so you can make your statement???!!In some cultures infidelity is even punished with death..but i'll take your word that all men..:))))
read my comments again I did say some, maybe the blood is not rushing down to your c*nt.
I don't need blood in my c*nt to read and understant,i needed in my brain,which is in my head,but how would you know if your c*nt or d*ck,as* and head share the same place.And no,you didn't say "some".
Read my comments again you stupid cvnt. My first comment; I did say some. You have your head up that smelly, bloody cvnt of yours, you don't see anything or hear anyone's opinion but your own.
sounds like someone's been cheated on one too many times..don't take it out on other women because no man wants you.
2705 points
Wow! dang. I hate the anonymous posts, but BOTH sexes cheat. You may say a guy gets sick of the same pussy, well girls get sick of the same dick all the time too. People cheat, but that does NOT mean everyone does. If everyone thought the way you did no one would get married
477615 points
Woah passerby, I guess you have had some issues with men in your life and I'm sorry you feel that way, but I promise you, there are lots of trusty worthy guys out there...just obviously not Mario, hahaha!
Don't sweat the petty stuff and don't pet the sweaty stuff :)
Actually, a person doesn't need to have issues with the opposite sex to have an opinion. This is what some women resort to when they don't want to face the truth about relationships between men and women. The first thing they resort to is saying "oh my you have issues" no, just the facts madam. I'm not saying there are not nice guys out there. But even nice guys, trip once in awhile and make mistakes. You can't hold a man up to such high standards as to never commit a mistake. Men are human, they make mistakes. It doesn't mean they are bad and evil just human. Is a fact lady, women cheat too. we are human, we can't stay faithful forever to one person. Is not possible, it doesn't mean we don't love the other person.
I understand where you are coming from, you see women have a hard time separating love/sex, men don't. But when you state ALL men instead of SOME it makes it seem like every man in the world cheats. Hey maybe they all do, but for arguments sake let's just say SOME. I think some women like to believe in love/glass slippers/prince charming and all that good stuff.
One think is to have a strong opinion about YOUR life,another thing is have a strong opinion about OTHER people lives,you get the difference?The fact that your trying to convince us believing in your opinions makes you a person with issues.
I'm not trying to convince anyone "karla" I don't have such powers...LOL Is just an opinion based on things I have seen, and relationships I have studied. Please, show me a person without "issues" and I'll show you a liar. Everyone has issues, some more than others. Please come out of your bubble "karla" It can get very scary and lonely in there...LOL
So,you did made a statement based on studying the 3 billion men in the World!Amazing!u r hillarious and really dumb.
Kala you are a stupid cvnt..seriously, that's my line of work I study the mind, I'm done talking to you.
the is time you change work,cause you clearly s*ck at what you do.For someone who studies mind you are very narrow minded person.
35580 points
Haha, thank you! That was probably the best thing I've read concerning this passerby idiot. "O, well I study the mind so therefore I know everything." If she studied the mind as deeply as she says she would realize that there is a lot wrong with hers.
And I'm going to be biased and assume that that's a woman.
You seriously have issues. I hope you get help. Maybe one day you can type a post without hiding behind the "passerby" name. Don't post things if you're afraid of putting your name on it.
4065 points
Sorry - you must have had a bad experience. Not all men do cheat. I think there are many many women and men here that can prove that case otherwise. I feel bad you are so bitter about this and hope you find someone you can trust!
300 points
"We can't stay faithful forever to one person. Is not possible," You are entitled to your opinion, but I'll tell you why I don't share it. I don't disagree that some people, both male and female, have monogamy issues and therefore stray. But I know better than to lump every single person into one category, especially when it comes to morality, love and relationships. Just as there are people who cheat, there are people who remain totally devoted and faithful (in all aspects) to their spouse/partner.
Sounds like somebody is trying to justify their own cheating ways.
"Hey, everybody does it. No big deal - their not evil, they're human. Nice guys cheat too."
Feel better now?
Passerby --- Billy Graham said in an interview that after he met (and later married) his wife he never allowed himself to be alone with another woman again.
There are some upstanding men in this world who do have good character and integrity -- and don't cheat on their wives.
It is very sad that you believe everyone - men and women - are unfaithful in their marriages. Very sad.
1340 points
Mario cheated on Ali Landry at his Bachelor party, and she found out about it 2 weeks after they got married - she filled for an annulment after she found out. The sad thing is this probably wasn't his first time cheating on her - but who knows.
Then he comes back in to the public eye and starts dating Karina and we learn he's been with another woman for a year while dating her. The sad thing is the side girl obviously knew he was dating someone else but continued to have an affair with him, and then on top of that he's been a proven cheater.... AGAIN. He is a man that should just remain a player it's obvious he can't stay faithful. And I commend Karina for handling the questioning gracefully it couldn't have been easy.
1340 points
Passerby - just curious are you male or female?
would it make a difference if I were male or female? would my opinion matter less or more if I were a woman or a man? why does it matter what sex I am?
Yes, it would obviously make a difference whether you are male or female, seeing as, if you are indeed a male then you would be an obviously more credible authority on males than a woman. But, if you (incredibly) actually a woman, then you really have no authority at all on why men do things. In addition, unless you are the culmination of every single cheating man (since I guess only men cheat, wow you are so smart) in the world, how in hells name could you possibly explain why anyone, besides yourself, acts the way they do. Also, your opinion's validity is not really hinged on your sex. Rather, it is being judged because it is unfounded and completely generalizing, as well as undeniably ridiculous and probably comes in at about a 3rd grade reading level. This, my obviously male passerby unfriend, is why people are hating on you. Get over it or go cry to Mommy. Everyone else's opinion matters just as much as yours, remember.
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if you are indeed a male then you would be an obviously more credible authority on males than a woman. But, if you (incredibly) actually a woman, then you really have no authority at all on why men do things
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what is the difference what sex a person is? so female psychologist don't know anything about males because they are women? you don't make sense sorry. You don't have to be a man to understand why men do things, in this case cheat. Sometimes we women are so busy arguing and talking, we don't take time to know what our men want. I'm not blaming women for men's cheating, I'm just saying we women sometimes don't listen to our men, we are too busy talking about what we want, and not paying attention.
1340 points
I'm going to guess if your a guy - your a cheater and you use the every man cheats as an excuse to do it yourself. If your a woman I'm going to guess you've been cheated on and have been deeply hurt. Women are just as guilty as men but not every man or woman is a cheater. That's a generalization I'm guessing based on your own personal experiences.
Passerby at 4:05...your philosophy of why men cheat sucks!!!
you are right it does suck, and I hate it but I guess I can detach myself emotionally from it and study the reasons why men cheat, women too. It goes both ways, but the study is geared more towards men, than women.
1340 points
It matters because your incognito - and I'm curious. If it doesn't matter why wouldn't you just say I'm a man or I'm a woman. Either way - you've been scorned or you're the scorner - both tough positions to be in. I get it...
you don't have to be scorned, I study relationships I stated that in my previous post. I guess since I see things and meet so many walks of life, I see things different. Some people get very offended when you say humans cheat, and one person can't stay faithful forever. I wonder why some people, especially women, why they get so angry at me whenever I post this? It never fails, everytime Vera has a story on cheating, women get so angry at me for saying what I've said before. I find it amusing actually. they get so emotionally charge..LOL
Most part of the readers in this page are women and they don't get angry about cheating stories,they get angry that some "Messiah" tries to "open" their eyes.But how would you know if your blood never circulates up to your head.
no, women like YOU get mad because you are probably in a relationship with some guy and you want to believe in your mind that he will always remain faithful and true forever to you, until death do you part. When anyone tries to kill your fantasy, and state an opinion different than your fantasy, you get hysterical, crazy and insulting. I bet you've been hoping and waiting to get married, if he hasn't done you the favor already. awwwww poor baby.....
YOU were the one insulting people, calling Karla a "cvnt" and acting like you know everything. If you were a doctor that has studied this subject for years and is distinguished within the scientific community, then I'd respect your opinion more than I do (or anyone does) now. But you are more than likely someone who is not qualified to be handing out (good)advice. I feel sorry for the people that listen to you. To over generalize things and insult people for not understanding you, is not something I'd have anyone strive to do.
one person can't stay faithful forever.
That is an untrue statement. As I said above --- use Billy Graham as an example of marital fidelity.
There are people who remain faithful in their marriages --- even until they die. gasp. You have a very cynical attitude towards marriage for some reason.
BTW-- ohmy, I think you are the first woman who I could talk to in here, who doesn't get emotional, or angry. Just talks....what a difference compare to some of the women here.
ohmy...great insight! Right on the money!
I am very dissapointed in Mario, but we all know he cheats. I read where George Clooney did the exact same thing lately when he dumped his girlfriend.
300 points
Wow...it's obviously still a fresh wound here on the boards too. My two cents, you can't say every guy cheats. Just like you can’t say every guy won't call. Every guy just wants to sleep with you on first date. I will say that I would bet most guys have been presented with opportunities to cheat, but like another poster mentioned, about Billy Graham, there are men who make commitments not to cheat. Not saying it is easy or some of them don't wind up cheating, I just think generalizations are kinda scary.
300 points
i think it's irrelevant if its a man or woman. they both have been known for cheating! it's more about the kind of person you are. are you a bad person if you cheat, no, but you intentionally hurt someone that you supposedly care about, so it speaks to your character. Usually if you are willing to cheat, you are most likely going to make other selfish decisions that benefit you, regardless of who you are hurting. I think it has a lot to do with your family model, etc.
300 points
and people with so many options ie. famous people, tend to cheat more. its hard to say what decision you would make when its thrown at you constantly. he has cheated before, which was public knowledge. but she probably thought "he'll change" etc etc the same logic that never works.
1935 points
I never really liked them as a couple. She's so much better off without him!!! It took me 5 YEARS to realize that he's really not going to change...
1340 points
There are so many Passerbys I'm confused! ha! So to the Passerby I was talking to - I'm definately not saying men don't cheat - but I don't believe ALL men cheat. I also believe women cheat - but not ALL women cheat. See the difference? To exclusively say ALL men cheat I think is an unfair statement. Do humans make mistakes yes - but giving men the catergory exclusivity of "ALL MEN CHEAT" only justifies when they do it. People cheat for all sorts of reasons. I don't get emotional about discussions like this - I'm a curious person I like to hear peoples reasonings. We are entitled to our own opinions. And this is coming from a woman who is getting married in October. HAHA So I hope your theory is indeed incorrect.
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ohmy -- Congrats on getting married! My 2 year anniversary is this November -- I highly recommend it!
I think people who cheat are BAD people.
passerby-so you must think ALL men are bad? That black/white thinking will only hurt you my friend.
1340 points
Thanks Susan :) I am looking forward to it. I have a good man!
Gongrats from me too!I am getting married in august,we've already live together for 6 years:)
wow..he had to be with you for 6 years before he finally committed to you and decided to marry your ass...LOL. Your marriage will not last, trust me on that. Some women are asked to get married, but your sorry ass had to wait around for 6 years before he married you...I guess he wanted to make sure who he gave his name to. No wonder you were so emotional when the previous poster said men cheat,, I bet you are hoping yours doesn't cheat. He will cheat, and you will divorce. He probably has cheated on you already, but you don't even know...LOL you f*cking fool!! LOL
300 points
hahaha,ok!You know me so well,me,my life and my men,that i take your word for true!And this with giving his name to- just knock me down!:))You are really idiotic person:).I doubt u have even had sex with something other than your doll or left your small forgotten village,and please change work or call your the mental hospital,hope they can help you:)) The sad part is that the would is full of crazy people like you,who study the human mind and know it all,the new "Mesiah":))) and now with the freedom of internet they can spray their craziness,dam!
300 points
p.s. I have been single for 10 years and living my life before i decide to get serious with someone,i know men very well and taking to account that all my friends since childhood have been men,believe me i know that gender better than you do know your silicone doll at home.:)
LOL...you are pathetic...lets see single for 10 years...translate to "could not get a man". Decided to get serious, translate to "met someone on the internet, and he is doing my fat ass a favor by marrying me" I know men very well, translate to "always the fat friend, never the girlfriend" Yeah Fat karla keep telling yourself that...LOL you are so hilarous. I really had you going fatty, you have to justify your life on a blog message board to a total stranger...loser..
once again this girl comes out of nowhere to insult karla. Seems like there's more than one emotional gal in this room.
Susan...you are the one thinking in black and white,i.e. "All men cheat." I don't think all men cheat, but the one's who do are bad. Just my opinion.
You're the one who said "all men cheat" and people who cheat are "bad people". Hence my saying you must think all MEN are bad then. Dillweed. Geez....forget it.
For anybody who thinks that men have to cheat, I pity you. If you are satisfied with that and wanna settle with that thought then I pity you. There are men who don't cheat and there are women who do.
all you women are a bunch of bitches, this is why men cheat. They get bored and tired of your yapping mouths. After a man marries you your legs are closed forever. WOMEN ARE GOOD FOR SUCKING D*ICK, COOKING, AND GETTING ON THEIR KNEES. STUPID BITCHES, SHUT THE F*CK UP,,,,BUNCH OF WHORES, NO GOOD FOR NOTHING.
HOW DO YOU GET A WOMAN TO STOP HAVING SEX WITH YOU? ....YOU MARRY HER!! LOL...
You sound just a tad bit bitter. Having a bad day?
Well, all in all, I have to say that Passerby sounds like an absolutely lovely person to be around. I'd imagine that this is the reason why they are so wordly in the ways of relationships, seeing as they have probably been in a lot more than the normal person. This is why they can make sweeping generalizations. I also would like to point out that whomever they are, they are obviously very open-minded and respectful of other's opinions. What a catch! (Barf)
300 points
The bottom line is that men and women both cheat. But, it's not always about sex. Most of the time it is because he or she has insecurities about themselves and need their egos stroked. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure that out though. Rarely is it about sex. Karina should have known better than to get involved with Mario though because he is well-known for being unfaithful. Once someone cheats, odds are they will do it again and again and therefore cannot be trusted.
all you women need to calm down, those of you who get so upset because one person made a generalization about men cheating are probably in a relationship yourselves. You feel threaten because one person said "all men cheat" It doesn't matter what anyone says, if you feel secure with your man fine, Men cheat and women cheat...move on, so what. It has nothing to do with you, if your patner cheats. If men cheat, so be it. Men have been cheating from the biginning of time. Women always get so hysterical when it happens, calling the man a dog and so forth. Yes, like we women are so saintly. I know lots and lots of women who cheat and lie and are truly low class. get over it ladies!!
Well aren't you a genius. MENSA member, huh? Thank you for your input. I'm sure "all us women" appreciate it.
you just proved my point, if you don't like what anyone says, insult their intelligence...wow. Very mature, having your period?
I think sunshine needs to calm down; I guess cheating touches a nerve especially in women. All of us, men and women expect our patners to be faithful; I guess it's an unsaid rule. When you get into a relationship, you expect to trust your patner. Is a trust issue; we build relationships and is based on trust, sometimes that trust is broken.
You insulted your own intelligence by beginning your post with "all you women." Have you ever heard of oxymoron? If not, look it up because that's what you are. Example: Very mature, having your period? Is having your period a statement that is mature? This will be my last post to you because obviously there is no point. Goodnight.
300 points
wow, i never knew he would do that to her, i have definitely lost respect for him. But now she can move on, and be with the other singer Mario, they made a hot couple in dancing with the stars.
1340 points
Night all - I have to go watch the Celtics take the series! :)
you women get so emotional, Karina is handling this better than some of you...LOL
300 points
few people in this series of posts insulted your intelligence. in my opinion, you brought yourself down all on your own. by calling people "c*nts" and referring to their "p*s$y", you just discredited yourself immensely. who's going to believe you're a psychologist, and a good one at that, if you disrespect anyone who has a different opinion?
you are just shining light on your philosophy that every man cheats, which is fine - you're entitled to your own opinions. but if you in fact research people, you will know that the mere fact that psychology is thought of as a science sets it apart from philosophy. by this, i mean that you can hold your philosophy about cheaters, and continue to believe that all men cheat. but no theory will be proven scientifically true or false until the opposite has been proven. since there is proof that some people don't cheat, and they can admit to that, your theory has been proven to be wrong.
if your thoughts reflect your own experiences, then it may be something you continue to choose to believe. but in regards to disrespectfully pushing your opinion on to the other readers of this blog - i think your time is done.
No one should respond to these absurd comments about all men cheating. This "passerby" is just someone who posts flaming comments and gets a kick out of pissing other people off. If no one responds, passerby will quietly slip back into her/his little world of bitterness and cynicism.
I knew he cheated. Once a cheater, always a cheater!
wow..i hope he accidentally drops one of his weights on his balls..
Chelsea Handler is hysterical...FUCK mario lopez he thinks he's hot shit and he's not
I see everyone is against Passerby's comments. However, I have to agree with him/her on this one. We are all human and we all make mistakes.
Unless, you stay out of the public and out of any sitiations where you find yourself in proxmity to other attractive people, there is a chance that you could cheat on your significant other. However, I THINK that men have a greater chance of cheating. Like someone said earlier... men can clearly distingush "sex" from "love" while women have a hard time doing so.
We all have to just hope that our men be good little boys and remain faithful.
I thought the purpose of a bachelor party was 2 have sex with who u wanted 2 4 the last time untill u marry and b tied down 4 the rest of your life. Well anyway its best 2 b loyal in marrage and in relashionships that r monogomous. People arnt dogs or evil or bad when they make mistakes.we can all rationalize and justify or own actions and the actions of others. the only senseble action that leaves a counterbalance to anything in life is forgiveness.love asks 4 nothing but its self and in longsuffering and it endures it doesn't hold grudges or keeptrack of wrong doings.
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