Carrie Underwood Prefers Male Friends Over Female
Jun 23, 2008 AT 09:09 am
Carrie Underwood finds males "less threatening" over females. This is why she opts to befriend men instead.
"I like the things they (men) like. I’m girlie in the sense that I like makeup, but I also love sports and man food. With guys, there’s no competition. Being around them just isn’t as threatening."
I understand what she is saying because I have had aquaintances where I fell into that trap... but never with a friend. I've had my friends for decades and there is no competition whatsoever. It might be harder for Carrie at this point to find someone who is truly genuine because of her celebrity status. That's one downfall to being a celebrity. You never know the true intentions of the people you meet.Â
Someone's a little insecure. I hope she learns to deal with this, cause having girlfriends is very rewarding as is having male friends!
Preferring the company of men has nothing to do with insecurity. She is right in some way, some women tend to be catty bitches. I work with a lot of women, and let me tell you, drama, drama, drama. I think older women are better, they have grown into maturity, and don't need to compete with anyone. Girls, especially those in their 20s and early 30s some of these girls are impossible to deal with. It depends I guess on the maturity of the individual person. I love to be around men, they are better. Anything you need done, they do. They are funny, jokers, sometimes they get dirty with the jokes, but I like it.
Haha, I agree completely.
I agree with you. I had so much drama with two girls at work last year. They were my age and let me tell you, I didn't start any of it. They were just causing drama for everyone. And the older women at work were a lot easier to talk to. Well, there was one who acted like she was still in high school. But I bonded with another one and she gave me so much advice and it was just so nice to have someone there for me who wasn't trying to sabotage me or anything like the others. But like you said not all girls are catty. I have really good friends who are never mean to anyone else. It just depends on the person. But many young women out there are just so much trouble and guys hate that kind of drama, so they're easier to hang out with. No backhanded compliments from guys.
Guy friendships less dramatic but girl friendships are deeper. I say, you need both.
Man food?? I thought this b was a vegan??? fing liar.
Why does she have to be a "b"? You prove Carrie's point, C*nt.
To each his own!???
I think some women prefer the company of men because some females tend to be very competitive, catty, and jealous of other females. Is great for the spirit when you can build a long lasting friendship with another female. I didn't have such luck; some of the women I've made friends with have turn out to be back stabbing bitches. I did have one female friend who I thought was a good friend; but whenever she found a new man, I was forgotten. She did this more than once to me, I told her about how I felt, but she went and did it again. I left it alone and moved on. I wish her the best. I truly would like to have built a long lasting friendship with another female, but it has not happened for me.
I just read a great book about this subject, Tripping the Prom Queen. It was about women's catty nature, and that given the opportunity, most women would "trip the prom queen" just to take her down a notch. It talked about why they do it, and how to stop if you do it, and how to make it stop if you are the one getting tripped. Excellent book, and a quick read. It talked about how it works to keep women down, we are so busy infighting and competing with each other it keeps up from really accomplishing things that we should, ie, we earn $.76 for every dollar a man does doing the same job.
Last time I checked she was a vegetarian...what "man food"?!?
I totally agree. I have 90% friends that are male. They're so much easier, and it's nice to be the only girl... most of the time. Sometimes I DO have to remind them that I don't want to hear about some things, but most of the time, I just love them.
I didn't know 'man food' was vegetarian. She also said in recent interviews that she burps like a man, and she is a tee shirt and jeans type of girl. I always thought Carrie was a pampered princess, wearing glamourous designer duds, (puts finger in mouth!)She is sooo jealous of that ditz Jessica dating her ex! She shouldn't have dumped him, because he wasn't ready for marriage.
All my friends are and have been male,i have much more to talk to them about and more hobbys to share than with girls,i like cars,i like good and raw humor,i like computer games,mointain hiking and etc.Prefer man for friendship,maybe cause i have my sisters and they r my girlfriends so i never had the need for more.
Why does she view other women as threatening? That says something about her, I think.
I dont think you get it. Some (most) woman simply are simply PITAs and that is threatening to the peace.....surroundings. . .not necessarily threatening to her. That catty **** has no place in a place of business work, etc.....but you women bring it anyway......thats why .76 to the dollar.
I don't think she sees other women as threatening, might be a personality preference. I prefer the friendship of men, than women, myself. "I don't want views shoved down my throat, unless they're covered in a candy-coated shell." - Stephen Colbert
Maybe we have found out why men cheat on her. Why men dump her. She is such a jealous little twit of other women. She drives the guys away. Carrie is a pretty package. You open the package up and it is full of crap.
Men cheating has nothing to do with the wife or GF, get a clue. Men cheat because they choose to cheat. You just proved why Carrie prefers the company of men. Some of you women are so quick to call each other names and fight. I prefer men too, I guess that makes me insecure, jealous twit too..
Carrie comes across to me as one of the creepy stalker gals. She continues to call and text the guy after they break up. She is totally desperate and pathetic. No wonder guys dump her azz so quick.
I prefer men too, I guess that makes me insecure, jealous twit too.. Jun 23, 2008 @ 11:27 am >> possibly
LOL...you just proved her point, catty....
passerby @ 1130am grow up.
Anytime a woman says she prefers male friends to female friends she is telling you something about herself: SHE is the competetive bitch, not the 'other catty women' she likes to complain about. She is one of those catty women and she enjoys the attention of being the only girl in a group of guys and secretly likes that some of them want to sleep with her even though she doesn't want to sleep with them. Ego boost for her insecurity.
Studies show otherwise.
I would disagree with you on that one. The reason I generally don't have women friends is i've been screwed over so many times by catty girls, that at the first sign of a backstabbing and I back waaaaay off. The last girl I got to know a little was cheating on her boyfriend and talking behind her "best friends" back. Not something I really wanted to deal with. But, yes, you must be right because I've never cheated on my boyfriend or talked badly about any of my friends or turned on any of them and that's the definition of being insecure and catty, right? Guys are much much easier to understand and a lot less frusterating. Plus they have interests that tend to align with mine better. The best girls I have met are the ones that only really hang out with guys. They tend to be more honest and if they have a problem, they bring it to your attention and work it out with you instead of telling your group of friends behind your back and trying to get them to turn on you. Girls are much more judgemental and I'm more at ease not having to worry about what I look like. Guys just typically don't care about that stuff.
Hey ladies, can we agree to disagree and not insult each other. Geez...
Great dress! Perfect for fashion finds!!!
I always had female friends until I came to live in the US. It is VERY hard to make friends with girls in this country. They do seem to be catty, competitive and jealous. Now I prefer to hang out with guys. It's a lot easier and less hassle. I'm known as the "hot foreign chick" but at least I have someone fun to hang with. I've tried to be pals with American girls, but just look at these type of blogs- girls are waaay too bitchy and jealous of other women. Sad but true.
gosh same thing happened to me when i lived in US itwasn`t fun at all for that reason but the guys were great (at least!)
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