John Mayer At Nobu

John Mayer At Nobu

John Mayer was spotted out leaving Nobu Next Door in New York after dinner with friends. I want to ask a little reader question here...and be honest! Has your opinion of John changed after the breakup with Jennifer Aniston?

I have my own thoughts on the subject, but I want to hear what you think before I say anything.

Photo by INF.



COMMENTS...

<a href="/user/1282" title="View user profile.">Booyah</a>
9415 points
Booyah said:

Like, no class ? That is where I filed him after that little remark session.

blizack blizack said:

I love John! Obviously Jennifer has something wrong with her since she can not keep a man!

Anonymous78 Anonymous78 said:

...I'm pretty sure John has gone through at least 3 girls this summer...at least Jennifer doesn't blab to the paps every chance she gets.

<a href="/user/1598" title="View user profile.">Polly</a>
3960 points
Polly said:

Why is Jennifer Aniston a pathetic old maid for being single but George Clooney is a distinguished bachelor? I wish people would stop perpetuating this double standard of women needing men but men being perfect on there own. Poor Jennifer dates handsome men, makes millions of dollars and lies on the beach all day, poor thing.

<a href="/user/5" title="View user profile.">Kyle</a>
473396 points
Kyle said:

Well said Polly.  I couldn't agree more.  The double standard is sick.

 

Don't sweat the petty stuff and don't pet the sweaty stuff :)

<a href="/user/4260" title="View user profile.">prasadablue</a>
1100 points
prasadablue said:

I lost a little respect for him...I just think he should keep his mouth shut. I'm not saying the breakup was his fault...who whould know that, but I do think he should shut up!

<a href="/user/83" title="View user profile.">Kat</a>
300 points
Kat said:

My opinion has changed of him, yes! He seems very self-centered now and I believe more of what has been said by Jen's reps about him being a glutton for being in the Public Eye and tipping off paps.

Pixiepower Pixiepower said:

John's head is enormous, he's blech, Jen is classy and I'm hella relieved they're over. She can do better. Even his music is zzzzzzzzzzzzz

Rachel Rachel said:

My thoughts have totally changed towards John Mayer. There was no reason to say anything at all about the break up. He obviously was just using her to get into the press. All this is going to catch up to him. He will be a very lonely person. Who is going to trust him now????

wow! wow! said:

he's a dick!

<a href="/user/114" title="View user profile.">vozbelle</a>
300 points
vozbelle said:

I never liked him but I think it shows character and class the way he aired his dirty laundry. For someone who blogs about being annoyed by paps they seem to be his only friends.

<a href="/user/186" title="View user profile.">Jan</a>
18455 points
Jan said:

Well he was never high on my radar anyway but hes definitely moved down after the whole thing. Tell me why its ok for George Clooney to be single but Jennifer Anniston not to be? Where in the universe does it make her a loser but him a catch or Jonny boy here is just playing around and its good hes with so many women but the women are tarts for going out with him. I dont get it.

Doris Doris said:

I didn't really think anything of him before this, either good or bad. But he's definitely left a bad taste in my mouth. Any guy who'd go out of his way to say HE did the breaking up is just classless. And this photo of him leaving Nobu is just too telling. He says he doesn't want to be followed everywhere, but then he eats at one of the hottest papparazzi spots in town! Hilarious.

Heidi Ho Heidi Ho said:

I feel sorry for Jen. She has been so unlucky in love since the first DICKHEAD BRAD dumped her for Jolie.....

Anonymousness Anonymousness said:

Isnt he BI?

beeg beeg said:

He seems like an egomaniac. I never liked him--his looks and voice aren't good enough to cover up for the fact that he's an arrogant, self-loving tool.
When I first heard he was dating Jennifer Aniston, I thought she could do better. Then, because of her, my opinion of him went up a little. Now he's back in my "eh, whatever" file. It wouldn't suprise me a bit if he only went out with her for publicity.

<a href="/user/967" title="View user profile.">VazquezGal</a>
300 points
VazquezGal said:

STOP!!!! HAMMER TIME!!!!!
Dont those look like hammer pants?

<a href="/user/419" title="View user profile.">xmas caulfield</a>
300 points
xmas caulfield said:

tots! don't know how i missed those the first time around!

Heatherz Heatherz said:

That's all I can think about! woot hammer pants...please go back in the closet!

mayerhater mayerhater said:

He has gone through several high profile women (obviously all for sex and publicity). He is a total douche. Can't believe Jen fell for his con job. Really his music is only "OK" and his REAL media coverage all centers around the women he dates. Wish someone would date him for a week and DUMP HIM HARD in a very public way. He has it coming to him.

<a href="/user/3916" title="View user profile.">Dober20</a>
300 points
Dober20 said:

Wow. Lots of Jen fans here. Is it just coincidence that she gets dumped? Or is there something about her personality? Mayer is just Mayer

<a href="/user/1598" title="View user profile.">Polly</a>
3960 points
Polly said:

I'm not a huge Aniston fan, nor am I anti-Jolie. But how do you know she always gets dumped? Have you been reading her diary? I know I dated lots of guys before I met my husband and some of them I broke up with and some broke up with me. There was nothing wrong with them... or me, we just weren't the right fit. Perhaps Aniston is a sociopath but just because she hasn't found "the one" doesn't mean there's something wrong with her.

<a href="/user/419" title="View user profile.">xmas caulfield</a>
300 points
xmas caulfield said:

like family guy said, "that's enough, john mayer" (http://morningpaper.typepad.com/morning_paper/images/2007/05/13/thats_enough_john_mayer.jpg) i've NEVER liked him. his heart-to-heart with the paparazzi only reinforced my belief that he's a total asshat. the only person i lost respect for in this relationship is aniston. i always had her back - i was straight up 'team aniston' when brangelina emerged. her decision to date vince vaughn was bad but i gave homie some wiggle room for making poor decisions post-divorce. i know rome wasn't built in a day but it's been three years - the grace period for picking questionable sexual partners (read: mayer) is OVER.

Anne. Anne. said:

A gentleman would respect her privacy, and her, by not saying a word.

mikola mikola said:

Yes, my opinion of him has gone downhill since the post-breakup blabbering. If he is so bothered by the papparazzi, isn't there a more low-key place he can go to dinner, rather than Nobu?

<a href="/user/432" title="View user profile.">Deemarie</a>
330 points
Deemarie said:

I have to start by saying i am a fan of John's music and before this dating Jennifer Aniston bit i had this impression of him not letting "celebrity status" go to his head. He seemed like a guy who simply loved playing music. Unfortunately, i guess some people have a hard time staying grounded. I think this will blow over, at least i hope, if it doesnt, he just finished saying he has nothing more to write about.... welllll i hope this mess inspires some great music out of him.

If i could talk to him right now i would tell him to go home. Instead of eating dinner at fancy restaurants, sit at the dinner table with your family, let them remind you of where you came from and who you used to be...bring John back to earth.

<a href="/user/310" title="View user profile.">Mr. T</a>
330 points
Mr. T said:

There's a story going around that this break-up and romance has a direct tie in to Angie's and Brad's baby cycle. I think it is fishy. These people aren't down to earth people like you and I. I don't know, but 2 times is a bit of a coincidence isn't it?

<a href="/user/3226" title="View user profile.">darbi4packers</a>
2240 points
darbi4packers said:

John should have kept his mouth shut. Go Team Aniston!!!

Kaytee
300 points
Kaytee said:

I heard a long time ago that John scoured the internet for things written about himself. Then he seemed to thrive on getting more attention by dating Jennifer and even wanted to be on TMZ by saying he wanted to do one of their shows; which they let him do. He craves attention. So after the big "break-up" John wanted to again be the center of attention and tell his side of the story because it was leaked that SHE dumped him.

I have never been a big Jennifer Aniston fan but OMG can I see how she did the right thing by getting out of dodge fast from John.

Moreaces Moreaces said:

Well, I'm far, far from a Jen Aniston fan, I just don't like her and think she is fake, and very self obsorbed, but I do believe John used her for publicity, I think he preys on weak, lonly, looking for love insecure women,, Jessica Simpson, for example was desparate for a man when Johnny boy came along. I think he was dead wrong for using her like that,, but my opinion has not changed, I still like his music, and he can be somewhat amuseing, though very immature.

NancitaChiquita NancitaChiquita said:

It definitely has changed! He is a commitment phobe. He avidly pursues women only to toss them away when things get serious. In this past year he has been with over 5 different women (publicly) and they all seem to end at around the same "time-frame" (after a couple months).

Jennifer Aniston is gorgeous, sincere and down-to-earth. So what if she may "seem" dull to us in the public eye? I bet she is fun-loving and light-hearted. You don't find that much in Hollywood AT ALL.

AS far as everyone assuming there is "something wrong with Jennifer Aniston" I HIGHLY disagree. How many boyfriends have women had go WRONG before finally finding the one? We are just witnessing a normal course of nature. SO WHAT if she hasn't been married again? It can't possibly be easy once you thought you had the love of your life....(aka Brad Pitt)....

Love,
N

hfn hfn said:

i haven't liked him since the pics a while back from mexico. he left jessica simpson alone crying on a wall and took HER DOG with him....just plain cruel if you ask me WTF!!!! so the aniston thing just re-confirms

ARG ARG said:

Yes, my opinion has changed about him. He is completely a comittment phobe. I agree with NancitaChiquita. He really does act quite childish. Not mature at all. I hope that the next girl he dates sweeps him off of his feet to where he falls head over heels in love and then she dumps him like he does to everyone else. It is almost like he is trying to get into all these famous girls pants just to put a notch in his belt. PIG

<a href="/user/84" title="View user profile.">tbtrfli</a>
3230 points
tbtrfli said:

I think he is still a playgirl... and Jenn is hard to deal with. So its hard to put the blame on one or the other.

Anonymous123 Anonymous123 said:

never like him then don't like him now...so no my opinion of him never changed. i was actually disappointed to see Jen dating him in the first place...I mean c'mon Jen you can do much better than that.

Anonymous1 Anonymous1 said:

He is an ass. But he's always talked too much and has always been a player everyone knows that. My opinion of Jennifer Aniston is even lower. She is the self obsurbed idiot. She says she has always wanted to have kids but never had any with Brad then she goes out with Vince Vaugn like he was the settling down family guy and then to go out with John Mayer who is know for being a player and not no where near settling down. Don't feel sorry for her she is miserable woman who can't keep a man as ugly as Vince Vaughn and can't get along with her own mother. I can't stand her as anctress and she is not even that pretty to look at I'm glad John dumped her.

breeslee
300 points
breeslee said:

I don't know what Jennifer was thinking ever dating him in the first place. I'm so not impressed by him and like him even less now.

danamali danamali said:

It did a bit. He's a great musician and I think he loved/loves Jennifer and maybe his intentions weren't so bad but he did a HUGE mistake with that video. If he really wanted to clear "their" image a rep statement would have been enough. He needs to grow up asap, because eh acts like a teenager. And I think this paparazzi love was the main problem between them. JA is known for not being a pap lover.
Now with pics of her in NY too I hope they don't get back together.

loloula loloula said:

Why is he looking so depressed since the break-up? Me thinks he was the one dumped.

danamali danamali said:

Vera, we shared our thoughts so please don't forget to tell us what's your take on this.

FF FF said:

Oh, I see what you did there: HOW TO LOOK SAD - FOR DUMMIES by John Mayer.

Anonymous789 Anonymous789 said:

All I have to say is that I lost so much respect for him. He needs to get over himself and stop kissing and telling to the press. I'm sure he wrote "your body is a wonderland" and dedicated it to himself.

MICA MICA said:

IF HE IS THE ONE THAT DID THE DUMPING, WHY DOES HE GLUMMY
IT SEEMS TO ME THAT IT DOES NOT PHASE ANISTON AT ALL.

<a href="/user/1723" title="View user profile.">Aluleebox</a>
780 points
Aluleebox said:

I've always loved Jenn, and I was pretty fond of John for a while, when I found out they were going out my opinion of him became a bit more positive. But now, after he's spoken out about the breakup and such, he seems so full of himself.

<a href="/user/1217" title="View user profile.">ml44</a>
320 points
ml44 said:

Did he really say anything bad? I think it's refreshing that he was honest. He said nice things about her and that was it. He wasn't into her or maybe she wasn't into him, but whatever it's over and done with. It's not like he went into details about their sex life. He just gave a reason why they broke up.

VP VP said:

Not at all!!!! It was obvious he was a player! I never really got what he saw in Jennifer nor Jessica anyway - other than the obvious.

Barbara Barbara said:

Wasn't overly impressed with JM before, but really unimpressed now.

Bernadetteoc
410 points
Bernadetteoc said:

I didn't really like them together anyway. I want her to find someone out of the public eye that will really just love her for who she is, not what she's done in her career. I wish her the best and I think he's just lost. I don't know him so I can't judge what's real and what's not, but he sure does seem to go through a lot of women who seem to be at vulnerable stages in their life.

Penny Penny said:

He had to say something since the Aniston brigade began the "she dumped him" story. Can't stand either of them but do like John's music so at least he's talented.

<a href="/user/3873" title="View user profile.">Jessie D.</a>
1000 points
Jessie D. said:

I really started to not like him when he started dating Jessica Simpson. And I know I should get over it but OHHH I miss Brad & Jen :(

Tyra Tyra said:

Yes, my thoughts about him have changed. He seems really childish to me now.

Brittany Brittany said:

I hold Jen pretty high up and some of the things I have read about him are fairly nasty. It is always hard to tell the truth with celebs, but I will admit this has me liking him less.

90210 90210 said:

I NEVER LIKED HIM IN THE FIRST PLACE. HE IS WHAT MY GRANDMOTHER WOULD CALL A CAD.

Sunshine28612 Sunshine28612 said:

He seems to be a bit of a publicity whore and it's unfortunate that he didn't have the class to just let people speculate about who called it off.
His interview was something a junior high school kid would do and reinforced my opinion that he is just really sort of pathetic.

! ! said:

Gentlemen don't kiss and tell. How immature of him.

Cindy Lou Cindy Lou said:

I really, really, really think he's gay or bisexual. *gaydar*

tc tc said:

agree. Jen started it but no one is calling her out for it but are dumping on John for doing exactly what she did. the difference is that he gave his comments honestly- not thru his "people" like Maniston does.

tina tina said:

Her fans surprise me , Are the damn? why you blame jhon why not her?
As she did it in the past,she is the one who talked about her breakup first blaming him cheating. But this time she found her match Jhon Mayor.If you blame Jhon blame her too.

<a href="/user/439" title="View user profile.">Anastasia Beave...</a>
300 points
Anastasia Beave... said:

He is a total douche. His comments made me lose all respect for him. And it is not about Jennifer Aniston - just him. Could have been any girl. He's a loser.

Haris Pilton Haris Pilton said:

I think she realized, early on in the relationship, that she is too conservative for him. Hell...he's a young musician!!!!

She probably tried to reel him in and tame him and he rebelled. She seems like the type who would have ultimatums and push for too much too soon. But, I think he really does like her a lot. They both seem sad now.

We'll see, cuz I don't think they are done.

Stannie Stannie said:

Oh come on people ... (tc - agree with you completely!). Maniston's pity machine has a life of its own. John had an affair with her, not a life commitment. So, in the space of 2 months or so (all apparently put out by *our Jen!* Maniston's *friends* and/or *sources* close to anyone and everyone)

- FABULOUS press!! for both!! ... and it's JEN! our JEN! FINALLY getting over that other guy with this new guy!!!
- she's smitten!, he's the one!
- apparently bought him an $80,000 piano; it's in her house
- everyone on the tour loves her; world's greatest groupie
- John is totally smitten; don't be suprised at a fall wedding
- back in LA, oh, look at the press I'm getting because I have a may-unnn. (Funny, Vince Vaughn didn't get Maniston press; guess nobody cared. Same with Paul whatever; except for shots of him leaving her house in the morning)
- let's see; not one but two magazine covers detailing *our Jen!* Maniston's fall wedding, imminent baby and Johns apparent *reduced touring schedule* to accomodate all this.
- magazine focus on *our Jen!* It's my turn!! WTF?
- the infamous *three strikes*? WTF? You didn't leave after 1? or 2? after #3, you decided to dump John. Okey Doke.
- post-split: *our Jen!* decides, calmly and maturely, with evidence of infidelity, to move on. (aw: you just had your lips botoxed too)
So, given the above, the may-unn (John) pretty much headed for the hills, post haste!. So he goes all yappy and talks, says he ended the relationship because *something wasn't right!?* OK, he was angry/hurt/upset about something, but states *our Jen!* is the greatest person he's ever met!
- post-end: *our Jen!* says she got tired of paying for everything! You invited him to come and *see* you at the Mandarin; he didn't pay for the room after bangin' your ass!! the CAD. You picked him up in a private jet; he didn't pay for the jet!! the DOUCHE!.
My note: I like John Mayer; I like his music, love his guitar prowess, love his take on life and celebrity and general happiness with himself. He's probably learned a hard lesson; between these gossip sites and the paps. Good job all; let's all get back to the Kate Cruise meltdown.
ps: Have never noticed *our Jen!* Aniston, have never seen her in a movie, know her only as Brad's ex. All of the above was a 10 min search on *Jen*.

<a href="/user/260" title="View user profile.">xy mom</a>
5895 points
xy mom said:

Wow! "Stannie" That was officially THE weirdest post I have ever seen.

Anon Anon said:

Seek help.

Anon Anon said:

I was referring to Stannie

blahblah blahblah said:

He's a douche.

T Bialeck T Bialeck said:

My opinion of JM has plummeted. Before I would get a kick out of his sarcasm and rants with the paps but he seems to have lost perspective regarding when to interact with the paps and when to remain private and SILENT. He is becoming too outspoken, and that is turning me off. JM is no idiot, hopefully he comes down from his high horse sometime soon and regains perspective. Cause that "informal press-conference" that he held was beyond tacky and classless.

<a href="/user/1113" title="View user profile.">Kaitx</a>
430 points
Kaitx said:

Nope my opinion hasn't changed, I always thought he was an idiot. Everything he does only confirms it!!

notimportant notimportant said:

Never liked him (or his music for that matter) and I never will. This opininon though has nothing to do with Aniston. They shouldn't have gotten together in the first place. Big misjudgement from her part.

<a href="/user/598" title="View user profile.">sherry</a>
1115 points
sherry said:

I really liked him...until the break-up comments. I did lose respect for him in a big way.

Lisa Alexander Lisa Alexander said:

Personally, I think he's gay. For now, he's using his relationships with women to cover it up. He doesn't stay with them long because he's not happy with a woman. I mean - who leaves Jennifer Aniston for no good reason?!?!?

Deby Deby said:

Yes!!! he's no longer pap friendly...seems moody all the time to me....
so this makes me think that jen broke up with him and not the other way round.... i guess he deserves it....karma is a bitch!!

D D said:

My opinion changed when he started dating Aniston..I thought it was not a good fit at all and I just seemed so cheesy...

How could anyone seriously think that they work in the in the long run..Give me a break..it's not age thing it is an obvious thing.

So I think he is a sleeze ball for even going there, just to say he has been there and done that! And she is an idiot to have let it ever get as far as she did.

Stupid Stupid Stupid!

MJB MJB said:

All of you are missing the point on how really great all of this speaking out is when it comes to Hollywood in general these days...I came across a posting that is very, VERY interesting about the whole Mayer/Aniston thing. Check it out here.....
http://mypsychicadvisor.com/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=36&Itemid=43. It's good!!!

Anonymous101 Anonymous101 said:

I used to think highly of the pampered princess (mayer) until the break-up, not only is he a serial dater but a shithead as well not to mention egotistic, immature and a liar! as Moreaces said he preys on weak lonley women looking 4 love, uses them, then dumps them in the space of a nano second. In the case of Jennifer (Who I no longer respect because she even thought to hook-up with that douche) He didnt even have the consideration to keep his stupid mouth shut about the split. Which to me shows exactly what kind of guy he is

Megs Megs said:

He has DEFINITELY gone down in my opinion now. He used to be a bit of a clown. Now he's just an ass-clown.

Zero time for him and his egotistical rantings in the press. Good on Jen for recognising his immaturity before things got too far.

mCa mCa said:

i felt terrible for jennifer after losing brad. they seemed really happy. i think since then she's been on the hunt for someone to replace, or even wash over the emptiness she's felt since that. she picks the wrong men, and i'm sure- obv. i can't reeeally know- holds them in a brad-esque regard. she seems like the controlling type, and i can totally see men wanting out of a relationship with her. she's too eager for commitment. i mean really? she dated mayer for a few months and followed him EVERYWHERE while he toured... give them space and maybe they won't always leave you. even that britney spears "toxic" video guy was quick to say the two weren't dating... i mean, if even a like, Z-Lister wants nothing to do with you, then you've got serious problems. i wish her the best, but lighten up, sweetie.

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