Sarah McLachlan Separates From Husband

How very sad. After 11 years of marriage Sarah McLachlan and her husband Ashwin Sood are calling it quits in a split that she says is "pretty gross." The couple has two children together. There's only one good thing that has come of this and that's her new music.
"I'm separating from my husband, so these are the songs about that,"
she told Billboard.com, referring to her two new tunes, "U Want Me 2"
and "Don't Give Up on Us."
She wanted to just get the news out in the open,
"I wasn't planning on saying anything," McLachlan said of the split,
"but it's gonna come out at some point. I haven't said anything about
it because I've been terrified to, but I figure ... there's no good
time to say it, so I just said it."
And Sarah talks about what the songs mean,
She said "U Want Me 2" is "about that really uncertain, confusing place
at the end of a relationship when there's no communication or closure,
everything's still up in the air and there's a lot of anger and
sadness. It's sort of that working through 'How do we move forward ...
with some dignity and grace.'"
He's the drummer in her band, so I wonder if they will continue to move forward professionally or if she's already found a replacement.
I hope she has some good friends and family that she can lean on in this hard time.
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How sad :( I love her and her music.
The thing is, she started messing with him when he was married to a good friend of hers.
I don't think Ashwin was married to Sarah's good friend when he and Sarah got together. From what I've heard, Ashwin and the good friend were dating fairly seriously at one point, but their relationship was over by the time he and Sarah started seeing each other. Nevertheless, there's that unwritten code of never sleeping with your best friend's ex-boyfriend, and I think there were a lot of hurt feelings. That's what Sarah's song "Adia" is about.
Hmm, wonder what "gross" means (in that context)?
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I am also curious about the "gross" statement.
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I am wondering about the gross part too. You don't make a comment like that and then not elaborate on it. It's just cruel.
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They split last December. Wow, she has taken 9 months to announce it. I thought everyone knew already.
This makes me feel sad inside for them. I've been happy for them for years because they're so low key and tend to stay a bit off the radar. I've hoped for them to continue to maintain what seemed to be a very good solid relationship.
Guess you never know what others are truly going through.
They're in my thoughts and I hope that they are staying strong for the girls...but also in good company of those who will support them through this.
I love you, Sarah! Your fans are thinking of you and sending you positive energy!
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