Heidi Klum Wants At Least One More Child With Seal
I remember seeing an episode of Oprah where women were admitting that they loved their husbands more than their children. It was a big controversial episode. Women in the audience were livid that another human could feel this way.
However, Heidi Klum had no qualms about confessing the order in which she divvies up her love... and Seal comes first.
"My big secret is that I always put my family first. My love, Seal, is
number one and then our children are right behind him. I don’t think
that anything is more important than them.
The mother-of-three shares two children with the singer - Henry, three, and Johan, one - in addition to her first child, four-year-old Leni, fathered by Formula 1 tycoon Flavio Briatore.
But she doubts the size of her family will match that of Hollywood super-parents Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie, who have six kids.
We might have another one or
two kids. I’m not sure we’ll keep up with Brad and Angelina though."
Photos by WENN
1935 points
I am LOVING her earrings!!! And I do see a point to loving your husband first to your children... you have to keep your marriage happy to keep the whole family happy.
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My children always came first, especially while they were young. I love my husband and have been married a very long time(over 25 yrs), but ............ Your kids will always be your kids. The odds are against your husband always being your husband. Plus men can be jerks and it is hard to love them more than your kids anyway(as usual hubby is on my sh*t list today). I love the earrings as well.
the love for your spouse and the love for your children is just different...not one is better than the other. I don't love my children and less than my husband. I have a hard time saying I love my husband more than my children.
My child comes before my husband, no question.
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I always respected my grandfather and always said he is a very very wise man. Once he told me that my husband should always come first before my children. I was outragged. I said no way.... I would DIE for my kids and if anything wld happen I don't know what I would do. He then went to explain that it is fine to feel like that BUT BUT (the BIG but) remember your kids eventually will leave you and go on with their life BUT your husband will always be there and it is with him that you will live the rest of your life with. Your children once they start their own family you will be WAY back in their mind, they will always love you but you will no longer be priority to them. I kind of agree with him now. My husband is my world.
Your grandfather was a very wise man!
300 points
I'm with you and your grandfather on this one.
True words.
I wish I loved my husband more than my kids, but my kids are the most important thing in my life.I'm sure my husband loves kids more than me, no doubt.
I can replace my husband (I don't want to, but hypothetically speaking). I can't replace my child. She comes first.
They have really ugly kids together. If I were her I would think about adoption. YEAH I KNOW!!!!! It's mean but it's the truth.
love love love her earrings. i love my husband and our son exactly the same but in different ways of course...both of them mean the absolute world to me & i wouldn't want it any other way.
I agree with Elva.
Memmers I get your point, but would if your husband dies next week....the saying 'your husband will always be there' is not always true. Even when children are adults and have their own lives - they will always need their mommy!!
your kids could die 2, then your husband will b there. kids won't always need their mother, if they did, then y do they get married 4??? the spose should come b4 the children bcause, b4 the children even got there, the spose was there. the husband and wife r the structure 2 the family, the stability of the family. so if eachother is happy, then the family will b happy and prosper.
Don't confuse your opinion with truth (ie, the kids are ugly). In my opinion, they aren't, I think they're very cute.
CHILDREN SHOULD COME FIRST!!!!!!! Unfortunately if you have the mind set that men come first , thats when you have poor excuses of mothers letting their boyfriends/husbands abuse their kids(mentally, physically, and sexually) Not that thats always the case, But I think a real mom would put their kids first and always be a true advocate for them.
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My kids young or old will always come first. I gave birth to them not to my husband. He could replace me if the going got tough. My kids could never be replaced. Now if someone asked me if I would give up my life for my husband? Hell YES!
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Without your husband you would have no children.
You should ALWAYS love your husband first and foremost...geez, I cant believe the comments on here about loving your kids more! No wonder there are so many divorces! When you get married you two become one, so guess what, just like you cant divorce a mom or a sister or a child, you also shouldnt divorce a husband ( of course there are exceptions!) But when you get married those thoughts shouldnt even enter your mind as far as him not being around because of divorce. When you have a child, do you think," gee this child might not be around because I could cut him off if he does something wrong to me, or he might decide to cut me off" Anyway that a husband can leave you a child can do the same...death, estrangement...ect. Once you are married you should see that spouse as you see your "Blood" family member.
You can't believe the comments about loving your children more? Your comparing someone you married to your blood relative (your child)? Wow.
Yes. And who your children share a mutual bloodline with. Once you have children with someone that is a lifelong connection. Blood or not.
I cannot even fathom that anyone would say their husband comes before their own children.
I look at it as if making sure their needs are met first. Of course their has to be balance.
Heidi Klum wants another child with Seal? You've gotta be kidding! I haven't even had my turn yet to have a child with Heidi Klum! And he gets to go again?!? Not fair.
If we were in a sinking boat and there's a small boat below and you can only save either your husband or your children (you can't pick both).....I'd pick my children first. I love my husband to death but unfortunately he will have to drown. I expect my husband to do the same for me.
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I wish people didnt judge so much. I chose my husband and together as a pair we brought a child into this world. I dont love my kid more than him, we love our kid together. Kids are born, grow up, and move out, he will always be with me. If i dont put him first our relationship suffers. That doesnt mean I dont love my daughter, but she is OUR creation. I have to cherish what we have to make rasing her a team effort. My Dad who i love dearly placed us first and he and my mothers marriage ended. he is now single and alone because he chose being a parent over husband and now we are grown. I dont think he and my mom would have worked out anyways, but if he realized that a relationship was #1 he might not be so lonely.
"Everybody wants to go to heaven but nobody wants to die"
11:28, LOL!
Wow?......Wow?...... You are surprised that I'm comparing my husband to my blood relative? Are you kidding me?.....please dont ever get married and if you are I feel for you guys.
Calm down, 11:31, geez. You're not the expert on everything. If that thinking works for you, great.
I DO put my child first, and my marriage is very happy, thank you very much. I feel sorry for your kids, if you have any. (I don't really mean that, but that sounds ridiculous, doesn't it? To say we shouldn't get married if we want to put our kids first?)
I'd like to poll some husbands on this, too! It would be interesting. I hope my husband would say he'd put our daughter first, before me. :-)
Don't tell me to calm down!! Who do you think YOU are? Please!
No wonder the divorce rate is so high. Just because you put your husband first does not mean you are a bad mom or you cant give your child what they need. I just can't understand your way of thinking? I think a husband and a child get a different kind of love from a mother but to say its crazy to put your husband first is just ridiculous! Spouses should always come first. If that's not possible for you, than don't get married. IMO.......11:32.
well if you put your husband first than don't have children!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
By putting my husband first my children will be happier!
The world is littered with the abused and/or sad souls of the children whose deluded, stupid mothers put some penis before the interests of their children. Selfish, stupid women are only out for themselves, not for looking after the interests of their children.
or hurt because you don't love them.
How does putting your husbands needs before your child's need translate to not loving your child.
We need to come back to the middle. There has to be balance, balance, balance, balance and compromise.
For example, if your husband wants to spend quality time with you today but you say, "honey I've have to take little Robbie to get new shoes." Would you consider his request first and put your shopping expedition aside for the moment. Or would you say, "not now I really gotta go."
I think most of the women here who are saying that they are placing their husbands needs first say it with a few exceptions behind it.
For example, if you have a new born and it's time for their feeding but you husband says, "honey I want to make love." Do you think that women/wives who are saying that they are putting their husbands needs first will postpone feeding. Nope I doubt it.
It's a bit extreme I know but the point is that there has to be balance, compromise and a bit of common sense.
whatever, I'm done. Have a nice day.
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If your husband wants you to make love instead of feeding his child that he made with you, he's got issues.
Agreed. It was an extreme statement I know. But that just illustrates my point. Putting your husbands needs before you childs will ultimately be situational and met with balance, reason, and compromise.
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In the end, your relationships are different. I think sometimes the level and type of love you feel is different. I have such love, lust, passion, respect and admiration for my spouse. My feelings for my kids are as strong, but in a different way. I am responsible for their every need, and that momma bear instinct is never stronger than when someone messes with my kids..lol
The responder who talked about a sinking ship.....my answer is I would tell my hubby to save the child. I would rather die than lose either one of them.
Any Woman who puts her husband before her children, does not deserve to have children.
I think you are taking this too literally! When a woman devotes all of her time to her children and neglects her husband, that is not a good marriage. When the children leave home, you are married to someone you no longer know.
800 points
My husband comes first. By putting him first I am putting my kids first. By making my husband a priority I am building a strong happy marriage and place of safety and security for the kids, who will grow up to prioritize their marriage partner, and build a place of security for their children.
As far as physical needs, yes the childrens needs come first to take care of, love and nurture. I love my children with all of my heart, but my husband is my other half.
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Very well said.
Anon 373, do you have anger issues? You're really getting upset just because others may have different views.
Im not married nor do I have children, but for all the people using these doomsday scenarios "if we were on a sinking boat who would you save" that is not a practical way to determine who you love more or even if you love one party more than the other. What if you could only save one of your two children? These scenarios are ridiculous.
Im not married nor do I have children, but for all the people using these doomsday scenarios "if we were on a sinking boat who would you save" that is not a practical way to determine who you love more or even if you love one party more than the other. What if you could only save one of your two children? These scenarios are ridiculous.
flavio is not leni´s father. rumor is that the girls father is a german talk host and sports presenter named rheinold beckmann (horrible man1)
I Hate my husband! he is replaceable. not my child.
I'm sure your husband feels the same way about you. He must be a lucky man.
This woman, Heidi klum is a very wise woman,It's obvious that she knows the secret of keeping her home happy,Any woman who fail to understand her priorities is a totaly stupid woman,Any way, you just forget a bit about your husband or neglect him claiming love to your kids and you will find your self losing him to another woman that cares about him and may be you will lose a home,Heidi klum in oprah said that her husband always says a happy wife is for a happy life,so she is #1 for him and he is #1 for her and thus children will get the proper love and attention from both, this is absolutely wise and right,but if a stupid woman failed to understand her priorities,well! she can't blame but her self.
The moron who talks about Leni,Heidi's daughter. first we are not about who is Leni's father now you dummy, and about this rumor we know that flavio him self talk about it and about the man you mentioned, and he was shutting up so you better shut up, you moron unless you can prove it, Any way she is having kids with her beloved husband now,so you have to go and commit suicide.
Again about that stupid who wants to talk about Heidi klum's daughter ,I tell you this, Seal him self confirm that Flavio who was having a temporary relation ship with heidi before she knew and fall in love with seal, is the bioligical father of the girl and he"seal" thanked him for letting it go smooth about seal fathering the kid,and Flavio did not comment, it's very easy to prove and settle things among those high profile people who are concern and know each other very well , so since seal talk no dirty bastard talk again about rumors in the subject,and it's obvious that a woman who loves her husband will for sure tell him the truth about a very serious matter concerning a kid he will be her true father, so you better commit that suicide we talk about previously.
I'm shock to read that some people here actually love their husband more than their children??? WOW. I love my husband and children equally!!
My husband comes first. And I feel about him not like about blood relatives, but much much stronger. I would rather die than see something happen to him. The same with children, but my other half, my soulmate, my world and my life is my husband. I can't have another one, because I believe in one true love. Romantic as hell, but this is my opinion.
My husband comes first, as he should. I agree with Memmers and her grandfather 100%. Just because he comes first, does not mean I love my children any less. They are loved adored, and very well taken care of. To the person who said that women put men first, blah, blah, well, I do not put MEN first, I put my HUSBAND, the father of my children first. And he only wants what is best for our children also. There is a difference. My children are very happy, healthy, well behaved bunch of boys. On second thought, I put the Lord Jesus Christ first, then my husband, and last, but certainly not least, my beautiful wonderful children:) I'm going to go kiss the whole bunch right now...
Wise women know better, they know how to make happiness,stupid women gain nothing but misry for their kids by their stupidity, so let them do.
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I'm more in shock about the bad English being used here.
first off all, everyone has different situations. if u have a life boat and you have 2 save you kids, or your husband, of course u gon pick your kids. that's a given. that was a stupid stament. but we should b talkin about over all. now let's b real people. u can't share a life with your kids. now by that i mean 4 xample one of the most mportant things n a marrige, your SEX LIFE!!!!!!!!! u can't have that with your children, but with your spose. so say 4 xample, when it's time 4 bed, your kids always want u 2 sleep n their room, cause their scared of the dark. this happens 4 two months, so u nevva "sleep" with your husband. that's putting your kids 1st b4, your husband which is WRONG!!!!!! say your kids want 2 play all day, so u made no time 2 cook dinner, so when your husband got off work, he came home 2 no dinner. that's puttin your kids b4 your husband which is WRONG!!!!!!!! it's not about who u love more, it's about your priorities. u have people who r good fathers and mothers, but not good husbands and wifes, so what happens, they end up gettin a divorce, so what does that do??? that make the foundation of the family gone, the family is split, children visit dad on week-ends, and vice versa. when the children c mom and dad happy, then they r happy. and seal's and heidi's kids r not ugly!!!!!!!!! who gave u the right 2 call somebody's kids ugly?!?!?!?!?! yo kids probably is ugly!!!!!!!!!!!
Heidi Klum is bit of a screwed up, unfit thing anyways. I mean, her first and only priority when pregnant with her poor little girl was getting Seal's prick up her snatch.
Hey, Heidi girl, children before catering to a jealous, insecure, poor excuse for a man. If you had a brain, a heart, and some character, you would know that, girly.
It's really what i want. thank you!
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