Oprah Gives Rihanna Advice About Chris Brown And Domestic Abuse

He will hit you again!

That is what Oprah is saying and is directing her message right to Rihanna. The queen of television is also planning an impromptu show about domestic violence next week all thanks to the Chris Brown media coverage.

Oprah begs Rihanna to seek counseling and remember that "Love doesn’t hurt".

Wonder what Rihanna thinks about the coverage?

Comments

  1. sister from another mother says

    WHO EVER THE H3LL YOU ARE………..GIRL I GOT YOUR BACK. IF YOU SAW ME YOU WOULDN’T BELIEVE ME MAKING THAT TYPE OF COMMENT, BUT I DON’T PLAY THAT SH1T. GOD BLESS YOU GIRL. I’M(this may sound sappy ) I’M PROUD OF YOU.YOU HAVE MY DEEPEST RESPECT FOR TELLING YOUR STORY…….I’m sorry, I know not all men are APES, but most of those Mother fukers are given the idea their sh1t really is golden nuggets. PLS, STOP AND THINK ABOUT WHAT YOU TELL YOUR BROTHERS AND SONS AND THE MEN IN YOUR LIVES. THE WORLD WANTS THE MALE POPULATION TO THINK THE WORLD IS THEIR PLAY- GROUND AND WE ARE MERELY TOYS IN IT. ENOUGH OF YOU BUBBLE HEADED BLOGGERS THINKING THIS IS WHAT BLACK PEOPLE DO TO EACH OTHER; CRIME ISN’T SELECTIVE , IT IS UNFORTUNATE IN THOSE THAT ARE WEAK; MINDED , SPIRITED, AND SOUL. PEOPLE GROW UP WATCHING OTHERS AND THEMSELVES GO THROUGH ABUSE. NOT EVER ONE BECOMES AN ABUSER, PEOPLE THAT DO JUST USE THAT AS AN EXCUSE TO ENGAGE. SO EXPLAIN WHY SOME THAT ALSO HAVE BEEN ABUSED LEARN TO LIVE PAST IT, SO THEY DON’T SPEAD THAT DISEASE TO OTHERS. I’m ashamed of Chris Brown and P. Dookie doesn’t surprise me; HE IS COMMON – FILTH (and that has nothing to do with him being black, just the fact that he was raised like filth) DUMD AS MOTHER. I MET THE SCANK. YES, at an After Party. Some black people are raised poor and some middle class or financially stable and others Rich, like the rest of the world.( Don’t believe there is really a difference when it comes to race. If you do the government has you fooled.) but that mixture of different class doesn’t truly determine who will abuse or not. It’s the structure of the family and the values they bring you up in. How strong is the love to really love. and how weak they may be to let that sh1t of abuse breed within their clan. the WEAK BE-GET THE WEAK. period!

  2. Anonymous says

    Well she KNOWS she will be hit again; that isnt the point and that doesnt make her want to leave. She knows shes beenhit before and knew it would occur again (the latest event being the “next time”)
    She is there for other reasons…. when your mind is vulnerabe to that kind of thinking, environment, treatment etc its a lot more complicated than hit or not hit.
    Plus it IS posible for an abusive person to no longer be an abusive person; in fact no one “is an abudive person’! They only believe false beliefs about themselves and others whih lead to such abusive behavior. and beliefs an be altered.
    The abusive mindframe is intricate and supported by its own topsy turvy logic which is shared by both individuals. Remember that abusers ARE victims, eg victms are abusers (become) them, even if not physically manifested. (eg they are toward themselves in thought or choice etc etc)
    I could go on forever about it LOL

  3. Lose That Girl says

    Rihanna is young and impressionable so perhaps it’s difficult for her to be rational. Personally, I don’t understand *at all*. if someone hit me, I’d be out of there! I doubt she’ll listen to Oprah.losethatgirl blog

  4. Anonymous says

    I’m sick of hearing how young and impressionable Rihanna is. She’s a 21 year old woman not a teenager. She went back to Chris Brown because she’s S T U P I D.

  5. Anonymous says

    “The reason why is because of the cultural barriers, some woman of color do not believe in standing by their man, or happens in the family stays in the family.” Are you suggesting that a woman should “stand by her man” even if that man is abusive and controlling? Woman, or men for that matter, any victim of domestic violence of any race, religion or gender, should seek help. No one should feel obligated to stay in that situation – NO ONE. Cultural barriers that keep victims with their abusers need to be lifted so that every victim can be heard, seen and helped. Please, if you are reading this, do not think it is your cultural, religious, marital responsibility to stay with a spouse/parent/person that is abusive.

  6. Anonymous says

    Well your comments are even more reason for her to stay away. Does she need to experience what you went through to learn. No one is condemning her by saying these things only trying to show their support. Obviously something you didn’t get

  7. Anonymous says

    Think about it! O, may have been a domestic violence herself. There are sooo many women that have their own stories to tell. I know that I have mine. People have decided what those woman look like and who they are. Rihanna is no dumber than the other million women who wanted to believe that he would change. RiRi, O is right. You didn’t make him mad enought to hit you, he is mad. There is nothing that you could have done differently that would have changed that evening. He probably has hit you before and will hit you again. They always do!

  8. Anonymous says

    Yes, Oprah is in this story for ratings and money, she probably also wants to help, but if there weren’t money in it she would do it off camera.
    Domestic Violence needs harsher consequences, not that it will stop the problem, jerks who beat up other people to obtain control will always beat other people to obtain control, but they should be put away for a long long time so the victims have time to rebuild their strength and lives.
    Someone who’s never been in a similar situation should not spout off that Rhianna is dumb {or other explitive filled adjective here}. Rhianna doesn’t know she’s being ridiculous because he has convinced her she’s nothing without him. She NEEDS court ordered time away from him, it’s crazy that courts will allow a vicitim to mandate weather or not there should be RO’s, they don’t do that for children, they take the kids away and force the kids and the parents to get counselling before they are allowed to have supervised visits. It’s insane that a court can identify and acknowledge that victims of domestic violence have been abused and controlled beyond the point of rational thought, but will then allow the victim to decide, at least in part, the consequences of the abuser.

  9. Anonymous says

    He will hit her again. It is a fact. Have patience with Rihana, she is just going through the cycle of DV-Abuse-makeup-Abuse. Until she reaches her breaking point she will not leave, if she is truly back with him. She thinks she loves him. If Chris does not change, he will hit her again. But don’t judge her, pray for her that she will leave before it is too late for her.
    I grew up seeing my mom getting beat and I vowed never to be hit and I have walked away from relationship that hinted at violence. I love my body too much to be hit by any man. I pray for Rihana, because I have two daughters myself, 18 and 28 and hope that they will leave a man before he becomes violent.

  10. Anonymous says

    Rihanna is not the only woman in the world that gets abuse, and she is not the last. I feel because she has money, and Chris Brown is in the spotlight, that people make a bigger deal! Man should never put his hands on a woman, and a grown ass 21 year old should never put her hands on a immature child. However, the situation went down, how dare the media and the public judge anyone. The whole situation is taking out of content, and the real woman who get abused, never get this much support. Especially, a woman of color! If, Rihanna was not a singer and Chris Brown was not in the spotlight, and he whipped the hell out of her, no one not even Oprah would give a damn. The sad part about is statics show that 75% of African-American, Latino, Native-American, and Asian woman report being abused or raped. In addition, 95% of White woman always be reported as abused or raped victims. Why? The reason why is because of the cultural barriers, some woman of color do not believe in standing by their man, or happens in the family stays in the family. Overall, Rihanna is a hot topic because she is in the spotlight, and the picture were posted on the internet, no one would really give a damn if Rihanna was just some average colored woman!

  11. anniedawg25 says

    I’m really glad Oprah said something. This makes up for my annoyance of her for gushing over the Obama’s 24/7 ( I did vote for him too…Im not a hater)…….Im glad she spoke up about this. I have noticed alot of black entertainers seem to be sticking up for Chris Brown, and kept using the “Well, we DONT KNOW what REALLY happened” line of defense…even after that horrible picture came out!!! Sherri Shepphard from The View was one of them…as a woman, I would think she would feel differently. Well, now the police report is out, and we do know what happened…where are all of his supporters now? I can’t wait to see the domestic violence show on Oprah. ***annie***

  12. Anonymous says

    Dee Cee, you are an idiot. It’s NEVER okay for any man to hit a woman for any reason–only cowards beat women and children. Period. Did you read the police report? He slammed her head against the window a few times, punched her, held her in a headlock, tried to shove her out the car while driving, and BIT her. That’s not “containing” her, that’s assault. All because he was cheating on her and she found out. And this is not the first time he’s done this (just the first time caught), and it won’t be the last. Any woman who would have anything to do with a violent, disgusting pig is stupid, and should get counseling.

  13. Anonymousjulia says

    Look folks stop being jealous of oprah she is send by god. This country has been run by satan until god got tired.A white man just walked in a church yesterday and killed a pastor.

  14. ivory j. williams says

    miss.O,i have been beaten by mother,grantmother,aunts,school kids. an a man that said he love me. i had one kid , he beat her too. my domestic violence i was not to live, to this day. there is no love for me , not by the ones that saids they love me . i can right a book . look to make you happy!! no one will, but you IVORYj.williams

  15. Anonymous says

    It is true that there are a lot of women out there who stay in a violent relationship because they love the abuser too,too much to leave them just like that. They think & hope that one day this person will change and quit abusing them. They don’t know that it can only get worse to the point where the abuser will hurt them so much physically, verbally and emotionally that you can’t even think for yourself without him then it will be impossible for you to get out then, by then he owned you forever. I was in an abusive relationship for 12 years. I got out of it by sheer luck, a lot of prayers and with help of family and friends.Rihanna, if you are reading this, get out now while you can,before you get too,too deep into it and then you will not have the will to get out of it.Believe me girl, it gets worse.

  16. says

    Oprah is a good person, but she sees black and white only. I can’t understand why she’s so convinced that Chris Brown will hit Rihanna again. He’s only 19, and from what I understand, he’s seeking counseling and anger management. He has plenty of time to be rehabilitated. I don’t mean to take domestic violence lightly at all, but I think she’s out of line to suggest that someone who made a grave mistake such as physical abuse will continue to do so. That would be like people saying that Oprah never grew out of her teenage promiscuity. PEOPLE CAN CHANGE! I know of several couples whose abusive relationships have made a turn around, due to joint effort with counseling. They obviously felt it could be salvaged. Maybe Rihanna feels compelled to believe they can have a healthy relationship, which is not impossible, if that’s what they’re willing to work for. Again, it’s a joint effort. They’re in the public’s eye, so it’s hard to work on a relationship without people analyzing their every move. Rihanna (a beautiful, confident woman) doesn’t strike me as timid or self-conscious. And, Chris Brown basically appears to be a good guy whose past came back to haunt him, after having witnessed the abuse of his own mother. I think a more suitable theme for Oprah’s show this week would be the topic of YOUTH SELF ESTEEM, because that pretty much sums up alot of issues involving our youth; such as dating, HIV and STDs, teen pregnancy, gangs, bullying, etc. I pray that the media and other celebrities will cease their preoccupation with these 2 so they can get back to some normalcy soon.

  17. Anonymous says

    God forbid he would’ve wrecked his precious car!! and I didn’t see any bruises on chris. Look at the size of chris then look at the size of Rhiana!! Yeah he was trying to protect himself alright. And I believe that too. Yeah and you are right he won’t be able to find a woman who will be able to say he hasn’t hit them because he WILL hit them – that’s what abusers do.(unless he undergoes intensive counseling). and there is not even any guarentee that that will help him to learn to control his anger. YOU need to wake up!! Rhiana needs counseling too….to understand that she is worthwhile and deserves a healthy relationship that doesn’t hurt physically. I can’t believe you are making excuses for his behavior!!! Get a life

  18. Anonymous says

    Oprah is not on her soap box , she is merely stating a fact and is the largest and quickest way to get to the masses about this issue !

    Women listen willya !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  19. TRUE says

    EVERYBODY KEEP DEFENDING RIHANNA BUT KNOWBODY REALLY KNOWS IF SHE IS THE ONE WE SHOULD BE FEELING SORRY 4. THE ONLY PPL THAT KNOW WHAT HAPPENED WAS THEM 2. AND I KNOW 4 A FACT THAT SOMETIMES THINGS AINT WAT IT SEEM 2 BE.SO 4 DOES THAT ARE QUICK 2 JUMP ON HIS CASE SHOULD THINK B4 THEY TALK.

  20. Anonymous says

    It’s pretty hard to feel sorry for someone who goes against what a billion people are telling her by going back to an abuser. There’s no cure for stupidity.

  21. Anonymous says

    I think you are crazy. No law states that a man should be beat either. The car they were riding in is not that big inside. She was hitting on him and he was driving, waving his hand and hitting back to keep her off him while taking her home. Yes she could get hurt. But why hit someone who is driving. I think it’s a darn shame for our own black people to go against each other and take sides before a trial. He can’t win for losing. But later when this happens again to her, what will people say and what will Ms. O say. Ms O we are the same age and you need to back up and leave children stuff alone until after they have a fair trial. If things were so bad then why did she go back to him? He is not her first boyfriend. Ms O should reach out to both of them. I hope you don’t think that after this Rihanna will have a lot of boyfriends. Men will fear that the same will happen to them. Why ?, because she knows that she can hit a man as much as she wants and get away with it. Just to know that when she was in school she was in the military and could not protect herself. A man driving did a lot of damage not to wreck the car. This also leaves an open door about Chris. He will never find a girl that won’t say he hit them after this. If we all think for a minute, the luncheon they were at earlier the actors and actresses stated that they were fighting then and she was hitting him about a phone call, but they made up and nobody thought anything was wrong. They big question is how much hitting can a man take. I think they both need to go to counseling. They are young and have a long road ahead. This mess will follow BOTH of them for the rest of their lives. Big question, what is the difference between a man supplying a women with drugs and hitting her. Both are harmful. Both can kill. Black men and women need to wake up. Times are hard and we are hurting ourselves, instead of trying to get ahead. We always harm ourselves

  22. Anonymous says

    Chirs Brown will hit her again and I have ZERO sympathy. She knows what he is capible of doing and she still went back, she is stupid. No one who loves you will hit you, he is not sorry…FURTHERMORE AND MORE IMPORTANTLY, Riri is setting a horrid example to young girls that is is cool to let your man beat on you. Im done with her…

  23. cali green says

    Cudos to you Oprah! I love you no matter what the haters say! Now if only Rih Rih can learn to love herself!

  24. TwinMom says

    I went out with a guy when I was about 16/17 and he was really immature and emotionally volatile. He’d had a rough life, yes, but he’d just start bawling and sobbing uncontrollably over stuff….. really odd behaviour IMO, but at the time I just accepted it. Anyway, one day we had an argument, it wasn’t even that big, and he just went off on me. We were in his bedroom and he started pounding my head against the floor, over and over, and then he put all his weight on my skull, pushing my head, ear side down, into the floor. I was stunned and I just got up and left. I never did go to the hospital, but I probably should have. Every male in my life (dad, brothers, friends) wanted to kill him, but were advised not to. He showed up at my door a few days later with a bouquet of flowers and a Pepsi (wtf?), begging for my forgiveness. I forgave him, but that was the end of our relationship and I told him as much. Any guy who will beat down a woman, doesn’t change overnight. Rhianna needs to step back and have a little self respect. No woman (or man) deserves to be beaten by a loved one.

  25. Anonymous says

    Oh great, Oprah back on that soap box, preaching like the second coming of Christ. Just what the world needs – another wanna be martyr.

  26. TX Girl says

    This is not going to make her NOT want to be with Chris. The more people attack him, the closer she will want to be with him…

    right now, she probably feels that NO one in the world understands her, that HE is all she has…

    the media coverage is not helping her.

    and how DARE Oprah use this tragic situation for her advantage.

    When will people learn to mind their own damn business.

    Yes, talk about domestic violence and the dangers of staying…but don’t single out this young lady on your show…the audacity is sickening!

  27. Anonymous says

    Rihanna is a dumb a s s for going back with someone that beat the living s H I t out of her

  28. Dee Cee says

    I say Oprah has some nerve!! Rhi-rhi suspicions that Big O is after her man and Michelle’s Hubby TOO! She is damn mad and ready to give her a beat down! Honestly read the facts. Rhianna admitting she was mad.. she started beating Chris in a jealous rage as they were riding down the road, he tried to contain her.. who knows who did what to whom and how much you have to do to keep a crazy lady from grabbing the wheel and wreaking the car?!!

  29. Char says

    Your words echo on what I was telling my coworkers this morning. Being a victim of domestic violence myself, I hated it when my family and friends would say “YOUR STUPID IF YOU GO BACK” and “IF HE LOVED YOU…” blah blah blah. That only made me go back to prove that he wasn’t that evil or that I didn’t make a bad decision in picking men. Unfortunately, the reality was that the beatings would only get worse and his controlling behaivor went through the roof! However, I remember how embarassed and humiliated I was when I would get a beating and everyone around me would talk about it or I had to show my face at work, that in itself is more than any woman can handle. The mere fact that Oprah, and many others, keep putting the story in the limelight and rubbing it into Rihanna’s face, is abuse in itself. Most say that they are role models, etc., but they are also normal people with normal feelings. I feel for the both of them, because just like Rihanna needs help, counseling, guidance…Chris does too in order to prevent this from reoccurring whether he and her work it out or Chris dates someone else. At this point, noone knows what actually happened because neither Chris or Rihanna have spoken on it. I’m sure one day they will, probably not the right time for either of them…

  30. Anonymous says

    THen pull over, even if your in the middle of the freeway, you can contain her arms from the wheel, it only takes a few seconds to pull over. then get out, or have her get out, and call a third party to come pick her up and help calm her. that is NO excuse to beat a anyone, especially a woman, and is even MORE dangerous when driving to react like that. and the police report already showed that she DIDNT attack him, o your claim is false, and that she saw him texting something and called him out on it, he then tried to push her out of the car to no avail, so beat her and choked her unconscious and bit her. now when in that did the car appear to be in danger of crashing because of her actions?

    it still baffles and shocks me that females especially are willing to stand up for chris, or even just say rihanna is at fault, rather than back an abused woman.

  31. YAYI says

    Rihanna don’t care at all about what any one has to say she clearly made her choice and when she took him back, Ophah is just trying to send her point a cross and talk about it one more time since she has talked about it before on her show… i respect other people’s opinion but bottom line is that Oprah don’t need any body to get any ratings period. yesss “she’s full of her self sometimes” but Rihanna should be thankfull that she has people trying to get on her and make her see what she obviously can’t see for her self, but the reality is that she is a grown a** woman and no one is going to make her open her eyes but her self.

  32. MOISÉS IBRAHIM says

    OPUS DEI SPIRITUAL TERRORISM AND CULTURE OF TORTURE.
    OPUS DEI is an EPEDEMIC SECT that INFECTS like INSECT PLAGUES and cause CHRONICAL MENTAL DISEASES at all AGES. I have experienced OPUS DEI as a SUPERNUMERARY MEMBER and as an EDUCATOR at the elitist school COLEGIO RETAMAR in MADRID for THIRTY THREE YEARS. I feel proud that I have come from an ARABIC CULTURE and I have been born at a MOSLEM FAMILY. Tale stories tellers talk too much about CULTURE CRASHES to take you the MODERN CRUSADES and the TECHNOLICAL HOLOCAUSTS. The presence of OPUS DEI at ABU GHRAIB and GAZA AUSCHWITZ in mind, heart, soul and body say atrocities, cruelties, genocides, war crimes and ethnic cleansings. It is quite obvious that THE WAY of OPUS DEI WAY takes you to 999 WAYS of ASSAULTS on REASON. I WRITE and DOCUMENT say that OPUS DEI makes assaults on PUBLIC TREASURY, HEALTH SECURITY, STATE SUBVENTIONS, MADRID COMMUNITY, PROPER EMPLOYEES, MANAGE LORD BLACK MONEY and CONTROL ILLEGAL FOUNDATIONS. That means that OPUS DEI is identified with SPIRITUAL TERRORISM on different FIELDS of the LOVELY STAGE of LIFE.
    OPUS DEI is an IMPERIAL POWER to enrich the rich and impoverish the poor. PAIN is LOVED and GAIN is DEVOTED. Thanks life that has given me too much learn at the OPUS DEI. You should live and learn, touch and feel, do and learn, preserve and perfect, struggle and win. LIFE is a little TREASURE and a sweet MELODY where NATURE without BUSHES and HUMAN BODY without REMOTE CONTROLLERS are the ESSENCE of CREATIVITY, the ROOTS of LOVE which is the HUMAN UNIVERSAL LANGUAGE and JUSTICE that is the POOR BREAD. LOVE and JUSTICE take you PEACE at personal and collective LEVELS. OPUS DEI ENTERS to KILL and strangle your FREEDOM of EXPRESSION. I have been KIDNAPPED and an ATTEMPT of HOMOCIDE was carried on against my CONSACRED LIFE, by the MEDICAL and SPIRITUAL TERRORIST, SANTIAGO ESCRIVÁ DE BALAGUER, who is the NEPHEW of the SUPPOSED OPUS DEI SAINT, JOSÉ MARÍA ESCRIVÁ DE BALAGUER. SANTIAGO was also at my orders as a learner at COLEGIO RETAMAR in MADRID when was ELEVEN.
    That is the OPUS DEI CALL TO HOLINESS. My CALL to HOLINESS is based that I have educated TWO GENERATIONS from the ones who come from FASCISM, CHURCH SLAVERY, ARISTOCRACY, NOBILITY, HIGHNESS and ROYALTY. I feel honoured and dignified that I have entered the history of SPAIN from the WIDE GATE. It is great to see that the ones who I have educated are controlling the sublimity of the political, economical and religious powers. Threats have never made me frightened. DEATH with DIGNITY is much better than being HEARTLESS and SOULESS. The SUPPORT of the OPUSDEIST SPANISH FASCIST POLICE, the BUSHITLERIST SPANISH JUDGES and the COMMUNICATION ARMAMENT of BIN LADENIST “TELEFÓNICA DE ESPAÑA” have strengthened my FAITH in JUSTICE, which overcomes the most SOPHISTISTICATED ARMAMENTS. ASK BUSHITLER, IF YOU DO NOT BELIEVE ME.
    Be LOVE, have LOVE, give LOVE, adore LOVE, venerate LOVE, devote LOVE, think LOVE, share LOVE, support LOVE, teach LOVE, educate LOVE, preach LOVE, evangelize LOVE and love LOVE. Make LOVE with LOVE, not wars with LOVE and not assaults on reason with LOVE. CHRIST has been born in a CAVE at a small village called BETHLEHEM where he had no room to lie his head, next to his HOLY MOTHER, VIRGIN MARY. Later on, he shared time with sinners and prostitutes and that shows that he was LIBERAL and SOCIABLE. FUHRER RATZINGER BIN BUSHITLER and OPUS DEI BIN FUHERER RATZINGER have been born to DEVOUR the POOR BREAD to make WHEELS of MILLS for the ALTARS that are made of GOLD and DIAMONDS.
    MOISÉS IBRAHIM. EX OPUS DEI SUPERNUMERARY AND EX EDUCATOR AT ELITIST SCHOOL, COLEGIO RETAMAR IN MADRID, FOR THIRTY THREE YEARS, A BUNKER OF ASSAULTS ON REASON. I WRITE AND DOCUMENTS SPEAK.

  33. MOISÉS IBRAHIM says

    COLEGIO RETAMAR: A SHAME ON OPUS DEI SPIRITUAL TERRORISM, CATHOLIC TRIBALISM, CHRISTIAN TALIBANISM AND VATICAN JIHADISM.
    FREEDOM is a word abused by OPUS DEI and VATICAN PLANET.Now it is destined for epic ignominy, in attempt to impose spiritual terror, authority, opression, slavery and totalitarism. OPUS DEI looks for POWER and WEALTH. OPUS DEI FREEDOMS are about the HUMILIATION of the POOR who work hard to achieve their FUNDAMENTAL HUMAN RIGHTS. The IMBECILE OPUS DEI is a DISGRACE for WORLDWIDE UNIVERSAL CHURCH. The ESCRIVA´S MOVEMENT has been born with a MASK of FREEDOM and it has brought the actual SPIRITUAL TERRORISM and MODERN CRUSADES. The ESCRIVA´S FOLLOWERS are MASTERPIECES at the BRAINWASHES that cause CHRONICAL MENTAL DISEASES. They are PRIESTS in INVISIBLE CASSOCKS, BURKHAS and HIJABS for the ASSAULTS on REASO, PUBLIC TREASURY, HEALTH SECURITY, STATE SUBVENTIONS, PROPER EMPLOYEES, MANAGEMENT OF LORD BLACK MONEY, CONTROL OF ILLEGAL FOUNDATIONS and CONSIGNMENT of SAVIOUR COLOURFUL MONEY to the ROMAN AUTHORITIES. The POOR BREAD is DEVOURED to make WHEELS of MILLS for the ALTARS that are are made of GOLD and DIAMONDS. CHRIST has been born in a CAVE in BETHLELEM next to his HOLY MOTHER where he could not find a ROOM to lie his HEAD, so he detests the the VATICAN IMPERIAL PLANET and the OPUS DEI LUSTFUL. ILLEGAL FOUNDATIONS stands as the CALL to HOLINESS and the WORK SANCTIFICATION. OPUS DEI has lost its SOUL, HONOUR and DIGNITY and it has no PLACE in the TECHNOLIGAL ERA. TECHNOLOGY has made MAN GOD and WOMAN GODDESS, so SOCIETIES need EARTHLY REALITIES. MEDIEVAL DOGMAS, PAPACY BONUS and the REMOTE BODY CONTROLLERS are out of DATE and they have gone with WIND. People do indeed have the power to change and stop OPUS DEI ABUSES. People in solidarity wield power, but this power must be used wisely. I feel proud to say that I WRITE and DOCUMENTS speak to seal the MOUTHS with all the RUBBISH and the TRASH they store inside and hide under their TONGUES and I even press on their NOSES until they SWALLOW it and EXPLODE like CLUSTY BOMBS in favour of the POOR who have to WATER to DRINK and FOOD to EAT. BEATITUDES have been turned into INSTRUMENTS to ENRICH the RICH and IMPOVERISH the POOR. OPUS DEI looks forward to having “PAX IN AETERNUM” withour achieving “PAX IN TERRA”. “PAX IN AETERNUM” has become an OLD FASHIONED SECRET GREETING.
    FREEDOM for OPUS DEI means , the humiliation at checkpoint on the outskirts of the capital of Irak. The American soldiers who may be members of OPUS DEI HOLY SUPREME MAFIA, demanded to search a handbag of a lady. Suddenly one of the soldiers pointed his gun towards her chest. He pointed the LASTE sight directly in the middle of her chest, then he pointed to his PENIS and said “COME HERE, BITCH, I AM GOING TO FUCK YOU”. I really understand that he meant he was going to FUCK HIS OWN MOTHER AND HIS PROPER DAMNED GOD.
    MOISÉS IBRAHIM: EX OPUS DEI HOLY SUPREME MAFIA SUPERNUMERARY AND EX EDUCATOR AT THE ELITIST SCHOOL, COLEGIO RETAMAR IN MADRID FOR THIRTY THREE YEARS, A BUNKER OF ASSAULTS ON REASON, HEALTH SECURITY, PUBLIC SUBVENTIONS, MADRID COMMUNITY, DEAL WITH LORD BLACK MONEY, ILLEGAL FOUNDATIONS AND THE CONSIGNMENT OF COLOURFUL MONEY TO THE ROMAN AUTHORITIES. DOCUMENTS SPEAK AND I WRITE.

  34. MOISÉS IBRAHIM says

    COLEGIO RETAMAR : SANTIAGO ESCRIVÁ DE BALAGUER A MEDICAL AND A SPIRITUAL TERRORIST IDENTIFIED WITH THE CULTURE OF TORTURE.
    SANTIAGO ESCRIVÁ DE BALAGUER is the NEPHEW of the SUPPOSED SAINT who founded the HOLY SUPREME MAFIA OF OPUS DEI and who was the MARQUIS of PERALTA. He spent some years at my orders as a LEARNER at the distinguished school COLEGIO RETAMAR in MADRID. He was eleven when he showed a ROSARY that his UNCLE has given him to continue his TEACHINGS. The mentioned LEARNER has become a DOCTOR and WORKS for ADESLAS in MADRID. I have spent my professional life on EDUCATION for THIRTY THREE YEARS, but under STRANGE and ILLEGAL CIRCUMSTANCES I was FORCED to have my PRE RETIREMENT at acceptable ECONOMICAL CONDITIONS, but UNHUMAN STATUS and IMMORAL PROCEDURES, by the actual GENERAL DIRECTOR of the mentioned ELITIST SCHOOL, JOSE LUIS ALIER. LORD BLACK MONEY and ILLEGAL FOUNDATIONS are TWO WAYS of the 999 WAYS of the HOLY SUPREME MAFIA of OPUS DEI. I have been handed by the SHERRIF thirty seven thousand EUROS in SAVIOUR COLOURFUL MONEY and then continue having HOLIDAYS for five years with FULL PAYMENTS. GOD CHRIST differes than GOD MONEY. You see that OPUS DEI works for both GODS. POORNESS does not make the GOOD. POWER makes the GOOD for OPUS DEI and the VATICAN PLANET which is controlled and governed the followers of who was the MARQUIS de PERALTA. MONEY is a mean of CHANGE, but for OPUS DEI is a mean of POWER to change the WORLD.
    I have been born FREE to have FREEDOM on the LOVELY STAGE of LIVE. I have never punished my students on their FREEDOM of THOUGHTS, but OPUS DEI has done all its best to PERSECUTE me on different fields of LIFE. It has been a MODERN CRUSADE and an OPUSDEIST HOLOCAUST, but I have never been FRIGHTENED to give up before the THREATS and INTIMIDATIONS. OPUSDEISM has been SUPPORTED by the SPANISH FASCIST POLICE and BUSHITLERIST JUDGES for a lot of YEARS. I was alone before the DANGER, but JUSTICE was on my SIDE and it has been ENTIRE STRENGTH. BIN LADENIST TELEFÓNICA de ESPAÑA has put all its COMMUNICATION ARMAMENTS at the SERVICE of the OPUS DEI HOLOCAUST. I have been KIDNAPPED at HOME in the DARKNESS and five means COMMUNICATIOS at home have been CUT OFF. SANTIAGO has made SATANIC use of my LONELINESS and PLANNED an attempt of HOMICIDE to give end to my CONSACRED LIFE. He has sent DOCTOR SUÁREZ to my HOUSE on his OWN BLOODY RISK, whithout my KNOWLEDGE and without a PERMISSION of ADESLAS. I have been informed at that moment about everything related the HOMICIDE ATTEMPT. The FASCIST SPANISH POLICE and the BUSHITLERIST JUDGES have KEPT their ARMS in CROSS, praying the THREE HAIL MARY and OUR FATHER IN HEAVEN to SANCTIFY their ACT of MURDER.
    It is a great SHAME on the CHRIST that OPUS DEI has CLONED. The WOODEN CROSS that OPUS DEI is used to put on the WHATEVER CHRIST they WISH and WHENEVER they WANT. CHURCH SCANDALS have rocked the VATICAN IMPERIAL PLANET, due to the ECCLESIASTIC MARRIAGE between the MEDIEVALIZED POLISH PAPACY and the FOLLOWERS of who was the MARQUIS of PERALTA. That TITLE has been bought and the SAINTLINESS has been FINANCED until ETERNITY. RATZINGER BIN BUSHITLER has given WAY of the 999 WAYS of the WAY to the DEVILS to enter and share the CONTROL of the VATICAN PENTAGONAL PLANET. The VATICAN and the OPUS DEI WALLS are not so THICK any more and DIRTY CLOTHES are WASHED everywhere. YOU needn´t wash your clothes in “CASA” in INVISIBLE CASSOCKS, unseen BURKHAS and BLACK JIJABS. DOGMAS, PAPACY BONUS, REMOTE BODY CONTROLLERS, CHURCH SLAVERY, ILLED PURITY, OPPRESSION, RANCID NEURONS have gone with the WIND. LIBERALISM is a question of SURVIVAL. The SAME SEX MARRIAGE is on the WAY and on everywhere NEEDS. The TECHNOLOGIAL ERA requires EARTHLY REALITIES and not TALES STORIES TELLERS. TECHNOLOGY has over the OMNIPOTENCE of GOD and those WARRIOR MONKS who HIDE in their INVISIBLE CASSOCKS to carry on the ASSAULTS on REASON, PUBLIC TREASURY, HEALTH SECURITY, PUBLIC SUBVENTIONS, MADRID COMMUNITY, PROPER EMPLYEES, POOR NATIONS, FREEDOM of THOUGHTS, FREEDOM of CHOICE, HUMAN JUSTICE, WORLDWIDE DOCTRINES, HONOUR, DIGNITY and HUMAN RIGHTS. My CONSCIENCE directs me to LOVE which is the HUMAN UNIVERSAL LANGUAGE, JUSTICH that is the POOR FOOD and PEACE which is the FRUIT of thy LOVE and JUSTICE. SANTIAGO ESCRIVÁ DE BALAGUER has been identified with SPIRITUAL and MEDICAL TERRORISM. ACTIONS speak much LOUDER than WORKS and the BARKING of STRAY DOGS. KIDNAPPING and HOMICIDE TRIALS should have been LEARNT at the ESCRIVA´S. They are HEARTLESS and SOULESS. The TEACHINGS of OPUS DEI are WELL KNOWN for JUSTICE and LAWS. When the FORCE of POWER overcomes the POWER of JUSTICE, there will be NO LOVE, NO CONCEPTS, NO PRECEPTS, NO IDEOLOGY, NO THEOLOGY, NO ISLAM, NO CHRIST AND NO CHRISTIANITY.
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    VICARIO/VICARIOPUSDAY/DON MOISÉS/MOISÉS IBRAHIM:
    EX SUPERNUMERARIO DE LA SANTA SUPREMA MAFIA DEL OPUS DEI Y EX EDUCADOR DEL ILUSTRE COLEGIO RETAMAR EN MADRID DURANTE TREINTA Y TRES AÑOS, BUNKER, CUARTEL Y FORTALEZA DE LOS ASALTOS A LA RAZÓN, TRAICIÓN A CRISTO Y A LA HUMANIDAD. UNA INSTITUCIÓN EDUCATIVA DONDE HA EDUCADO A LOS PROCEDENTES DEL FASCISMO, LA ESCLAVITUD DE LA IGLESIA, LOS GRANDEZAS DE ESPAÑA, LA ARISTOCRACIA, LA NOBLEZA, LA ALTEZA Y CON SUMO HONOR LA REALEZA. GUARDO RESPETO Y ADMIRACIÓN A TODOS AQUELLOS QUE PASARON POR AULAS, TALES COMO LOS ILUSTRES, SÁNCHEZ BELLA, NAVARRO RUBIO, LÓPEZ BRAVO, ADOLFO SUÁREZ, ALEJANDRO AGAG, CANÓVAS DEL CASTILLO, MASÓLIVER, KINDELÁN, KOLPOWITZ, BOTÍN, URQUIJO, QUESADA, BANÚS, DEL CASTILLO, OREJA, CARLOS SAÍNZ, Y SIGUE SUMANDO DURANTE TREINTA Y TRES AÑOS DE HISTORIA QUE ME HA PERMITIDO ENTRAR EN LA HISTORIA DE ESPAÑA POR LA PUERTA GRANDE Y DIGNA. LAS OBRAS ACREDICAN LO QUE SOMOS. LAS OBRAS SON AMORES Y NO BUENAS RAZONES, NO LADRIDOS DE PERROS CALLEJEROS QUE VAN VAGABUNDEANDO POR LAS CALLES EN BUSCA DE LOS RESTOS QUE DISPERSAN SUS HERMANOS LOS PERROS

  35. MOISÉS IBRAHIM says

    COLEGIO RETAMAR; LA IGLESIA DEL OPUS DEI, LA MUJER Y LA MISOGINIA.
    La supremacía de la sexualidad feminina le viene al OPUS DEI de la CATÓLICA TADICIÓN MARIANA que se fundamenta en la PUREZA ENFERMIZA que ocasiona TRANSTORNOS y PETRTURBACIONES en la VIDA INTERIOR y la VIDA EXTERIOR en las distintas ETAPAS. Los ADOLESENTES que recluta el OPUS DEI y les acuartela en sus BUNKERS, CUARTETES y FORTALEZAS, a la larga vuelve a sus HOGARES PATERNOS con enfermedades CRÓNICAS. El derecho a la intimidad y privacidad no me permite exponer ante la opinión pública la identidad de seres humanos que han padecido la persecución incesante de perseverar en la VOCACIÓN en \\\\\\\”CASA\\\\\\\”. La larga trayectoria de treinta y tres años de haber estado al servicio de una doctrina CLONADA OPUSDEÍSTA, como SUPERNUMERARIO y EDUCADOR, me permite aportar testimonios personales y documentales sobre la SANTA SUPREMA del OPUS DE, fundada por el que fué un MARQUÉS de PERALTA que evidenció ser instructor del TERRORÍSMO ESPIRITUAL para alzar el PODER y la GLORIA \\\\\\\”DIOS OBRA\\\\\\\”.
    La tradición católica del concepto aberrante del sexo se consagraba en el OPUS DEI a grandes escalas que se encarnan como un insulto a la intelegencia humana. La doctrina OPUSDEÍSTA me ha confirmado durante los cursos de instrucción a la que me ha sometido, que el sexo feminino es el PORTADOR de PECADO y el ORIGEN del MAL. Tertuliano hasta san AGUSTÍN han coincido con los conceotos tan aberrantes que deshonran la FEMINIDAD de la MUJER.
    La historia del CRISTIANÍSMO no traiciona la visión de una IGLESIA MISOGINICA a las demás RELIGIONES. La culpa fué de EVA cuya perfección tenía que residir en su ASEXUALIDAD. El SEXIMO, el MACHÍSMO y la deshonra de la DIGNIDAD de la MUJER se ha radicalizado en la HERENCIA del que fué MARQUÉS de PERALTA y ha escrito CAMINO en plena GUERRA CIVIL ESPAÑOLA en un ambiente empregrando conel FASCISMO ABERRANTE. El FUNDADOR del OPUS DEI y digo FUNDIDOR de los DERECHOS HUMANOS INTEGRALES ha hecho llamamientos en CAMINO a la VIRILIDAD, el CAUDILLÍSMO, la LUCHA, la CRUZADA, la GUERRA, que le esemeja a SAN PAPBLO, el PADRE de la VIOLENCIA CRISTIANA, que afirmaba que \\\\\\\”SIN EL DERRAMAMIENTO DE SANGRE NO EXISTE PERDÓN\\\\\\\” y habla de la \\\\\\\”CONSAGRACIÓN DE LAS VIRGENES\\\\\\\”. Este concepto ha servido después como elemento de la doctrina cristiana sobre la VIOLENCIA COMO MEDIO DE REDENCIÓN DE LOS PECADOS, desde la INQUISICIÓN hasta la aprobación de la pena de muerte y hasta la ADMISIÓN DE LA GUERRA.
    Los tres PILARES de la CHARLA FRATENA en el OPUS DEI son la FE, PUREZA y VOCACIÓN\\\\\\\”. La FE te lleva a la PUREZA ENFERMIZA que transtorna las NEURONAS y la VOCACIÓN te mantiene dehuir caminando a CIEGAS, en un CAMINO de 999 CAMINOS que te ENCAMINAN a TODO VALE LA PENA EN EL SERVICIO DE DIOS, con todos los medios de la ILEGALIDAD e INMORALIDAD.Las MONJAS uelen enclaustrarse para SERVIR A DIOS, pero los SUPERNUMERARIOS y NUMERARIOS del OPUS DEI se van en medio del mundo como si fueran CASTRADOS por la suma ASLERGIA que tienen a las MUJERES. Tenía la costumbre a lo largo de mi vida por el OPUS DEI, alegar que tengo alergia a las mujeres como una forma indirecta para reprochar actitudes medievales.
    El ejercicio del poder con la que la IGLESIA ha sometido a la conciencia, la autonomía y a la emancipación femininas ha superado el entendemiento humano al paso de los siglos y hasta la era de la tecnología que ha hecho del HOMBRE DIOS y la MUJER DIOSA. La INQUISICIÓN practicó ese poder e incluso vigilaba las lecturas que resultaban aptas para ilustrar la cultura del género femenino. La mujer no debía leer la biblia para no caerse en las tentaciones. El OPUS DEI se servió de la DOCTRINA de la IGLESIA y la ha adaptado a su estilo RADICALISTA para completar lo que no ha hecho la IGLESIA. No me puedo imaginar de haber pasado más de tres decádas bajo el PODER IMPERIAL del OPUS DEI, sometido a las LECTURAS BASURA que degeneran las NEURONAS HUMANAS y causan ENFERMEDADES GRAVES.
    La PULPERÍA de DIOS estrecha sus TENTACÚLOS en todos los ESCENARIOS de la VIDA. El OPUS DEI resulta una SECTA EPEDEMICA que infecta como las PLAGAS de los INSECTOS y produce enfermedad CRÓNICAS que requien Ttratamientos a lo largo de la vida. BUSHITLER evangelizaba la presencia de CRISTO en el PLANETA PENTÁGONO que le encaminaba hacia la GUERRA CATOLICISTA SANTA con el lema FASCISTA \\\\\\\”CONMIGO O CONTRA MÍ\\\\\\\”. El OPUS DEI no tiene PEDIGREE PROPIO y se va arrastrando como un PERRO FALDERO en busca de los PDERES IMPERIALES. El POBRE ahoga el mal con la abundancia del BIEN, pero la IDEOLOGÍA del OPUS DEI se reduce a \\\\\\\”PARA HACER EL BIEN HACE FALTA SER PODEROSO\\\\\\\”.
    Consideo UNA CRUZADA UNIVERSAL la que patenta el GUERRERO ALEMÁN, RATZINGER BIN BUSHITLER con el PODER IMPERIAL del OPUS DEI. La IGLESIA requiere REFORMISTAS de la ERA TECNOLÓGICA para poner orden DOCTRINTRINAL que se ajusta a las necesidad de la IGLESIA UNIVERSAL CRISTIANA. La HERENCIA del que fué MARQUÉS de PERALTA que ha pasado la mayor parte de su vida como MONJE (GUERRERO) y SOLDADO (GUERRERISTA) no puede patentar la CRISTIANIDAD como PATRIMONIO del OPUSDEÍSMO.
    El esplendor de la verdad radica en que los OPUSISTS se halagan por ser SEXISTAS, MACHISTAS y atentan contra la DIGNIDAD de la MUJER. La SUMA TEOLOGÍA OPUSDEÍSTA se remonta a las EDADES MEDIEVALES. La SANTIDAD en el OPUS DEI va a ser propocionada con la CANTIDAD y CUALIDAD de los ASALTOS a la RAZÓN, el TERRORÍSMO ESPIRITUAL, los INTENTOS de HOMICIDIO, el MANEJO del DINERO NEGRO, el CONTROL de las FUNDACIONES ILEGALES, y la MISOGINIA DENIGRANTE. El instrumento ideológico de la doctrina sexual del OPUS DEI construye su sólia construcción moral sobre los cimientos de una inamovible misoginia. La mujer para OPUS DEI se encarna como el CENTRO y la RAÍZ de los PECADOS de los HOMBRES. Además, el HOMBRE no puede estar a solas con una MUJER en una SALA de PRECEPTUACIÓN ESCOLAR, sino ha de estar la puerta ABIERTA para impedir la INVASIÓN de los DIABLOS. El HOMBRE para el OPUSDEISM es el signo del PODER y la GLORIA SEÑOR, pero la MUJER es la que patenta SEXUALIDAD FEMININA PRECAMINOSA, REPUDIABLE, CONDENABLE Y PECADORA.
    OPUS DEI significa OBRA de DIOS en LATÍN. CASA sustutye a OPUS DEI en la OBRA. PITAR quiere decir hacerte de la OBRA. Cuando YO he PITADO recibido unos cursos de INSTRUCCIÓN sobre el ESPÍRITU Y RÉGIMEN INTERNO de la OBRA, predicados por un SACERDOTE. El que era entonces PADRE JOAQUÍN me adoctrinaba en que la MUJERES que llevan PANTALONES y montan BICICLA están dadas a utilizar estos medios como INSTRUMENTOS de MASTURBACIÓN. El mismo PREDUCADOR y EDUCADOR SECERDOTAL lanzaba su voz en una cierta ocasión como un ANIMAL SILVESTRE a una ILUSTRE DAMA (SEÑORA BERTODANO) madre de unos alumnos en el ILUSTRE COLEGIO RETAMAR, cuando abrió la puerta de la CAPELLA de la INSTITUCIÓN EDUCATIVA para asistir a un CURSO de RETIRO MENSUAL de MUJERES, diciendo como una FIERA \\\\\\\”ESE HOMBRE QUE ACABA DE ABRIR LA PUERTA DE LA CAPELLA EN JEANS, QUE CIERRE LA PUERTA DE NUEVA Y SE MARCHE POR DONDE HAYA VENIDO\\\\\\\”. No puedo explicar el ESCÁNDALO MONUMENTA que se armó en las afueras de la CAPPELLA con posterioridad al SUCESO. Este acontecimiento se ha quedad incrustado en la HISTORIA del ILUSTRE COLEGIO RETAMAR como una PÁGINA DESHONROSA, DENIGRANTE, SEXISTA, MACHISTA que atenta contra la DIGNIDAD de la MUJER.
    MOISÉS IBRAHIM. EX SUPERNUMERARIO de la SANTA SUPREMA MAFIA del OPUS DEI y EX EDUCADOR del ILUSTRE COLEGIO RETAMAR en MADRID durante TREINTA y TRES AÑOS, BUNKER, CUARTEN, FORTALEZA de los ASALTOS a la RAZÓN, las ARCAS PÚBLICAS, la SEGURIDAD SOCIAL, las SUBVENCIONES PÚBLICAS, la COMUNIDAD de MADRID, el MANEJO de LORD BLACK MONEY, el CONTROL de FUNDACIONES ILEGALES y el ENVío de SAVIOUR COLOURFUL MONEY a las AUTORIDADES ROMANAS. PAX IN AETERNUM ha de ser acompañado con PAX IN TERRA. EL PAN de LOS POBRES no puede seguir DEVORADO para FABRICAR RUEDAS MOLINOS para los ALTARES del que fué MARQUÉS de PERALTA. PAX IN AETERNUM ha ser acompañada con PAX IN TERRA

  36. MOISÉS IBRAHIM says

    COLEGIO RETAMAR: LA VIDA OCULTA ENMASCADA DE UN NUMERARIO DEL OPUS DEI.
    El ESCRITO siguiente REVELA el HOLOCAUSTO de la que fué un día mi MUJER, cometido por el que fué su MARIDO enmascarado de NUMERARIO DEL OPUS DEI durante unas DECENAS de AÑOS y del que tuvo SIETE HIJOS en una DECENA DE AÑOS, un RECORD PARA UNA MUJER sometida a VEJACIONES, aunque haya sido SUPERNUMERARIA de la OBRA del EX MARQUIS de PERALTA. La TRUCULENTA y TURBADORA de la IGLESIA CATÓLICA ha aceptado a TRÁMITE para la NULIDAD del MATRIMONIO de la ESTIMADA DAMA que he ESCRITO y CONFECCIONADO YO, según los DATOS SUMINISTRADOS, mientras la DEMANDA de la NULIDAD de mi MATRIMONIO, por ser de ORIGÉN y CULTURA ÁRABIGA fué RECHAZADO por los MALHECHORES, ENEMIGOS del AMOR AMOR que es el IDIOMA UNIVERSAL, la JUSTICIA que es el ALIMENTO de los SERES HUMANOS y la PAZ que PROCEDE de AMBOS. El ESCRITO MÍO fué REDACTADO Y CORREGIDO por el GRAN TEOLÓGO del OPUS DEI: DON LUIS CARRIÓN, que me había confirado STETENTA VECES SIETE que mi MATRIMONIO SERÍA NULO A TODAS LAS LUCES, LAS LUCES DE LA NATURALEZA y la RAZÓN. TODOS A APOSTATAR Y ABRAZAR LA RELIGÓN ISLAMICA que APORTA SALAM en los CUERPOS, CORAZONES y ALMAS.
    En presencia de DIOS Todopoderoso, creador del cielo y tierra, comienzo a narrar los episodios de mi relación o vínculo con el que era mi marido según el Derecho Canónico y no lo es según el Derecho Civil, por su propia voluntad interesada y turbulenta a pesar de su vocación religiosa.
    Había conocido al que era mi marido en la Santa Misa cuando tenía dieciseis años. Me ha había confesado ser agregado del del Opus Dei, renunció a sus compromisos contraídos al comenzar nuestra relación dos años después, mateniéndose como supernumerario. Tuvimos un noviazgo que duró dieciocho meses. Ya tenía veinte años y el veintinueve ya que era nueve años mayor al celebrar el Sacramento del Matrimonio el catorce de Septiembre de 1968, en Madrid.
    Yo me casé desconociendo lo que almaceba en su mente y lo que escondía dentro. Tuve siete hijos en diez años, o sea que yo recién cumplidos los treinta y dos años ya tenía esa gran responsabilidad. Después la relación transurrió de una manera extraña, sospechosa e irregular. Desde los inicios de la relaciónno se preocupaba en crear un hogar luminoso y alegre como profesaba y predicaba. La vocación que acababa de abandonar, le convirtió en un irresponsable ante los fines y compromisos matrimoniales. Era una persona extraña, innatural, obsesivo y pretendió adueñarse de una relación mecanizada sin el cumplimiento de los fines del matrimonio. Yo empezaba a percibir la complejidad y obstáculos de asimilar la aceptación y el consentimiento de las obligaciones matrimoniales por su anterior vocación al celibato. Se me ha quedado patente su carencia de vocación matrimonial por su gran obsesión, ceguera, desentendimiento, radicalización y esquizofrenia. ActuALMENTE ESTÁ SOMETIDO A TRATAMIENTO PSIQUIÁTRICO CON EL dR. pOVEDA DE aGUSTÍN.
    En ciertas ocasiones habiendo reuniones familiares o de amigos anandonaba el hogar para hacer la visita al Santísimo, hecho que a mis familiares les resultaba insólito. Igualmente cumplía con sus cuestiones religiosas afectando de una manera evidente al entorno familiar, desatendiendo sus obligaciones familiares de ayuda en momentos puntuales conmigo hermanos, primos y algunos amigos cercanos a los dos. Seguía con la mentalidad anterior al matrimonio, es decir, de agregado durante todos los años que duró nuestro matrimonio. Tales hechos acreditan los transtornos graves que se traducían en su incapacidad psíquica generalizada.
    Se le ha consulato recientemente por medio de un sacerdote amigo suyo sobre su futura colaboración de mi demanda de la nulidad del matrimonio y a la que no opuso reparos, no teniendo inconveniente en testificar exclusivamente por escrito.
    JEB, fué el autor de la demanda de divorcio. El hecho de solicitar el divorcio civil, ha puesto a prueba la carencia evidente del consentimiento explícito de cumplir los fines del matrimonio y estas andaduras tan inauditas, contradicen su creencia religiosa. Tal hecho confirma su obsesión y convencimiento por el celibato y no el consentimiento del Sacramento del Matrimonio. El divorcio fué concedido en Majadhona a doce de Marzo de 2001.
    La demanda de separación formulada a petición mía y concedida en Majadahonda, a veinticinco de Abril de 1991. Las manifestaciones de ambas partes revelan que me tenís anulada y me consideraba como un objeto en una relación mecanizada e inhumanizada por su convicción religiosa, abundando la tirantez y desafección en las relaciones personales de los conyuges, que hacía infeliz e intolerable la convivencia e imposibilitaba el cumplimiento de los deberes de respeto humano, dignidad personal, derechos conyugales, ayuda mútua y socorro. Todo radicaba en la enfermedad ps´quica que iba arrastrando y que dificultaba el consentimiento y sus posteriores compromisos.
    El hecho de que el padre de mis hijos era miembro del Opus Dei antes del enlace y siendo miembro supernumerario a continuación, fué la circunstancia que ha determinado la radicalización de su postura obsesiva ante la vida y de sus creencias, incompatible con mi visión, a pesar de que yo también fuí miembro supernumeraria durante catorce años. Estas divergencias no sólo se planteaban en un plano ideológico, sino que trascendían a cuestiones fundamentales de la vida conyugal, imposibilitando la existencia de unas relaciones normales.
    Yo como esposa venía siendo objeto de recriminaciones, vejaciones y ofensas por el hecho de tener un hijo cada año de matrimonio, siendo acusada por mi marido de “incumplir mis deberes de esposa y madre de familia”, única y exclusivamente por ese hecho. Tenía que salir con mi hijo pequeño recién nacido ante cualquier necesidad o circunstancia, llevando a los demás hermanos cogidos con correas al cochecito del pequeño. Su padre no se preocucapaba y no había manera de conseguir ese soñado hogar cristiano, luminoso y alegro, que se predica en el Opus Dei cada semana. La vida en común era insostenible por el contínuo y sútil reproche de mi esposo y por la falta de respeto a mi dignidad personal y humana. Yo había sido acusada incesántemente, psícologica y moralmente y sin tener en cuenta el número de hijos que ya tenía y la situación económica familiar mediocre, que dificultaba e imposibilitaba sufragar los gastos del hogar y las necesidades de mis siete hijos, considerándome como un mero objeto reproductor, acorde con la ideología obsesiva de él y sin que por otro lado, él me prestase ninguna ayuda en el cuidado de los niños o el hogar.
    Los hechos narrados, evidencian que no me consideraba como una esposa, sino como una mujer objeto o mujer esclava, por no haber tenido como anteriormente digo un hijo por cada año de nuestro matrimonio. Por otro lado, en varias ocasiones me acusó perturbadamente de ser yo la que le hacía caer en la TENTACIÓN, y ser la responsable de “HACERLE PECAR”. NO PODÍA ACERCAME A ÉL EN EL PROPIO LECHO CONYUGAL POR CONSIDERAR LA RELACIÓN ENTRE UN OBJETO Y UN SER, ENTRE UNA PECADORA Y UN CREYENTE, LLEGANDO INCLUSO A VULNERAR MI DIGNIDAD HUMANA Y PERSONAL DICIÉNDOME EN MOMENTOS DE INTIMIDAD “ME ESTÁS PROSTITUYENDO”. No había proyecto en común de crear un hogar cristiano a pesar de sus creencias tan obsesivas, radicales, insólitas, extrañas y perturbadas. Mi esposo me ofendía diciéndome que “estaba endemoniada” por solicitar un derecho de justicia que me pertenece, insulto y afrenta hecha con intención de ofender y vejar , cono ciendo mi ideología católica y siendo también como he dicho anteriormente miembro supernumeraria del OPUS DEI. Asimismo decía a mis hijos que rezasen por mi porque “me estabavolviendo loca”. Yo como madre, me preocupaba de hacer la vida feliz a mis hijos, y llevarles algunos días a la playa, aprovechando una vivienda de mis padres, mientras que él decia textualmente “SI LLEVAS A LOS HIJOS A LA PLAYA LO QUE HACES ES CORROMPERLOS POR TODO LO QUE SE VE” y además esto sucedió hace muchos años.
    Una tensión más que pone de relieve hasta que punto es extremado el posicionamiento de mi esposo ante la vida, llegando al punto de tener a los hijos psicológicamente mediatizados, impidiéndoles ver la realidad actual y prohibiéndoles llevar un desarrollo y vida normales hasta el grado de causar enfermedades a algunos de sus hijos, y sin prestarles las atenciones debids y si tomar las medidas oportunas o precauciones. Tales hechos prueban las perturbaciones y dificultades de desarrollo mentales, normales y naturales de que tenía que haber sido cabeza de familia. Yo no daba más de si para atender a los siete hijos y que no recibía ninguna ayuda para atenderles a ellos ni a las tareas del hogar por una tercera persona, ni por mi propio esposo que estaba cegado y encerrado en su primitiva vocación o creencia que no ha abandonado a lo largo de todos los años de matrimonio.
    La vocación de agregado la llevaba y escondía durante veintitrés años que duró nuestro matrimonio y las circunstancias vividas testimonian tal hecho doloroso. Mi marido estaba todo el día fuera de casa, saliendo de ésta a las sieteb de la mañana y regresando habitualmente a las diez de la noche, cuando los niños estaban ya durmiendo, dado que, además de su jornada normal de trabajo, todos los días tenía que hacer sus ORACIONES, MISA, REUNIONES EN LA OBRA, APOSTOLADO, RETIROS Y CONVIVENCIAS, siendo escasa su estancia en el hogar y sus relaciones con los hijos, tanto es asi, que no siquiera me acompañaba al pediatra cuando los niños eran pequeños o ante hechos puntuales graves que sucedían con los hijos, dadas las ocupaciones religiosas tan exageradas y obsesivas. El padre mantenía una actitud descrimanatoria respeto a nuestros hijos en función de su AFINIDAD O NO AL OPUS DEI.
    La conducta vejatoria de mi esposo hacia mi, se iba acentuando cada día más, llegando hasta el extremo de que en reiteradas ocasion es, en presencia de algunos de los hijos no me mostraba el mínimo respeto cuando en ocasuiones le decía que no había dinero para hacer la compra, a la cual contestaba que yo “ESTABA A LA SOPA BOBA” que él ganaba el dinero y yo solo me preoc upaba de gastarlo. Las perturbaciones eran reiteradas y la esquizofrenia se apoderaba de sus propiedades y capacidades mentales y lo único que reinaba en su mente era la obsesión al celibato. Todo lo expuesto pone de relieve la cantidad de vejaciones de las que he sido objeto, así como de las presiones psicológicas y morales que he padecido durante toda la relación o emparejamiento porr no llamarlo matrimonio, así como la negación de la que se ha sido objeto del desarrollo de mi propia personalidad y de mi convivencia, no sólo en el matrimonio, sino en el círculo de amistades y familiar más amplio, que supone una afrenta para mi dignidad que se hizo patente en mi vida conyugal, actitud de desprecio y en deshacerse él de su complejo vocacional primitivo, evidenciando una patente ruptura de la vida de pareja o matrimonial que pone en duda la validación del matrimonio y la imosibilidad de proseguir nuestra vida en común, así como una violación grave y reiterada de los deberes conyugales de respeto, dignidad, procreación, afectividad, amor, ayuda y socorro, que evidencian la falta de eficacia, autenticidad y consentimiento explícito del Sacramento del Matrimonio.
    Obra en mi poder una carta de mi hija LM dirigida a su padre con fecha diecinueve de Octubre de 1992, cuando tenía trece años, manifestando en la misma la crueldad del padre motivada por su enfermedad psíquica, Aulde en su carta al distanciamiento, falta de cariño y comunicación del padre por ser una persona cerrada, Asimismo reprocha al padre su rencor, odio y sus intentos de quitar toda la pensión a sus hijos. Hace hincapié también al sufrimiento del hermano más pequeño.
    Mi marido ha pleiteado conmigo durante once años, haciendo todo al revés, cegado por el odio y la revancha como si fuera yo la autora de arrebatarle su PRIMITIVA VOCACIÓN. Los trámites judiciales de sus demandas y apelaciones constantes, no hacían más que dañar mis intereses económicos y dificultar alimentar a mis hijos. La actitud ensombrecida suya de pleitear y apelar todas las sentencias dictadas por los jueces y tribunales, demuestran que es un indivíduo conflictivo y carece de dominio y equilibrio. Ha solicitado en repetidas ocasiones ante los jueces la no concesión de la vivienda a mi y a mis hijos, alegando que los hijos son mayores, pero sabiendo que no tenían y siguen sin tener recursos económicos. Igualmente ha pretendido retetidamente privar a mis hijos de la pensión acordada por los jueces, alegando que han terminado sus estudios y ser independientes, cuando era contrario a la verdad.
    Me sentía anulada integralmente por mi marido. Me daba cuenta al paso de los años que no había consentido el Sacramento del Matrimonio plenamente, debido a las circunstancias que atrevesaba en el ambiente familiar cotidiano y las particularidades que rodeaban mi matrimonio. YO ERA MENOR DE EDAD CUANDO EMPZEBA A CONOCER AL QUE IBA A SER MI MARIDO. La relación de noviazgo se inició a los dieciocho años, viéndonos escasamente durante el mismo que duró dieciocho meses. Tenía necesidad de abandonar el domicilio paterno y conseguir la INDEPENDENCIA PERSONAL.
    Las actas de pruebas testificales prueban que los siete hijos de mi matrimonio con él, menores y mayores de edad, optaron por permanecer y residir conmigo por el distanciamiento, desatendimiento, y desentendimiento por parte de su padre. No se interesaba por los asuntos generales de los hijos que había traído a este mundo. Yo me encontraba sola ante el destino y me interesaba como madre por los problemas escolares y sociales, cuestiones de bienestar y accidentes graves que han sufrido. Hago mención al accidente grave sufrido por el quinto de mis hijos, J, el día dos de Octubre de 1978. Fué un accidente con rotura de cráneo por dos sitios, son de suma gravedad y comunicándome los médicos que hasta pasadas cuarenta y ocho horas, no podrían decirme si el niño viviría. Esto ocurrió a la una de la tarde y hasta casi las diez de la noche no hubo forma de contactar con su padre. Esto indica la falta de negligencia de sus deberes como padre. En una ocasión, agredió a su hijo, EJ, agarrándole del cuello y dejándole señales. Tal hecho ocurrió delante de los demás hermanos ocasionando una situación entre los más pequeños de angustia y llantos. La situación economica era precaria y nuestros hijos iban al COLEGIO RETAMAR, OBRA CORPORATIVA DEL OPUS DEI Y COLEGIO DE ÉLITE, so afán por mantener a los niños en el mismo, nos producía un gasto que no podía soportar nuestra económia. Yo en numerosas ocasiones le había planteado el cambiarles de colegio, pero él seguía insistiendo en que continuaran, manteniendo por lo tanto su criterio erróneo motivado por sus convicciones anteriores al matrimonio. En una ocasión me presenté en el Banco de Comercio donde teníamos una cuenta conjunta y me encontré con la sorpresa que había cancelado dicha cuenta sin mi conocimiento y si poder así cubrir las necesidades de mis hijos, Yo desempeñaba trabajos esprádicos humildes para sufragar las carencias y los gastos de la HIPOTECA de la VIVIENDA, apoderándose en una ocasión del DINERO que había ahorrado para este FIN.
    FIRMADO,
    J C R
    NOTA: La relación matrimonial de la que la señora había salido como “VIRGEN” según sus alegaciones, a pesar de haber tenido siete hijos, había mantenido una relación amorosa con un individuo durante varios, que le había enseñado ver las estrellas y contar los astros. Años más adelante, abandonó tal nido amoroso y acudió a mi nido, donde tuvimos una relación íntima durante un año, que la CAPELLANERÍA del ELISTISTA COLEGIO RETAMAR conocía y consentía, junto con el agrado de sus HIJOS que eran la mayoría alumnos míos. El Hijo mayor no compartía que la MADRE se anidara en los BRAZOS de un HERMANO SUYO de la OBRA, EX PROFESOR SUYO y COMPAÑERO de PROFESIÓN. Éste sabía los COMETIDOS de su MADRE, ya que se AUSENTABA de su HOGAR y COMPARTÍA LECHO conmigo durante la mayoría de los días. La VERDAD que la relación con el HIJO MAYOR (JM) era TENSA en el COLEGIO RETAMAR y no cruzabámos la PALABRA, salvo para pronunciar “BUENOS DÍAS”. Por respeto al COMPAÑERO AGREGADO DEL OPUS DEI y EX ALUMNO tenía que abandonar la CASA de su MADRE por la noche antes de su llegada, según sus INDICACIONES.
    Al cabo de un año, ambos PROTAGONISTAS del NIDO decidimos casarnos ante unas CIRCUNSTANCIAS ANORMALES. Yo era SUPERNUMERARIO del OPUS DEI y EDUCADOR del ILUSTRE COLEGIO RETAMAR en SOMOSAGUAS de POZUELO de ALCORCÓN. Estaba perseguido humanamente, profesionalmente, y psíquicamente por la OBRA del EX MARQUÉS de PERALTA. Tenía el HORARIO más CARGADO entre los VEITITRES PROFESORES y ADJUDICABAN el ENCARGO de VIGILAR el COMEDOR de los CHAVALES por PRIMERA VEZ al FINAL de los TIEMPOS. Me he marchado de VACACIONES de VERANO al Norte de España con la que iba a ser mi MUJER a la VUELTA, después de haber puesto mis PLANES en conocimientos de la JERARQUIA CLERICAL de la RESIDENCIA del COLEGIO RETAMAR (DON LUIS CARRIÓN).
    El PULSO está ya ECHADO y a la vuelta de VACIONES me preguntó mi DIRECTOR ESPIRITUAL (JULIO GALLEGO CODES) si me había ACOSTADO con la FUTURA ESPOSA durante las VACACIONES. Alli he negado a responder a tales preguntas tontas y por su parte se ha puesto furioso como un huracán “estamos en presencia del PADRE y tienes que contestar”. No contesto “YA QUE NO TENGO FE Y NO SOY DE LA OBRA” he replicado. Me respondió “PUÉS VAS A ADULTERAR” y por mi parte le respondí “NO VOY A ADULTERAR SINO LA IGLESIA HA ADULTERADO CONMIGO”. Acto seguido, me levanté y me he marchado. TODO ESTABA ESCRITO.
    Hemos contraído MATRIMONIO en pleno centro del AYUNTAMIENTO de POZUELO, sede de las ANDADURAS del OPUS DEI. Nos ha casado el CONCEJAL de EDUCACIÓN y según me dijo la NOVIA que éste es un SUPERNUMERARIO del OPUS DEI. La PROVIDENCIA ha jugado un papel MAGISTAL y DIVINO que un HERMANO mío me había CASADO. Han asistido a la boda todos los HIJOS de la NOVIA, salvo el JIJO AGREGADO, EX ALUMNO y COMPAÑERO. El PADRE de la NOVIA nos honró con su PRESENCIA a pesar de ser SUPERNUMERARIO del OPUS DEI. La NOTICIA se prpagó por todos los LARES de POZUELO. DON MOISÉS ERA UNA NOTICIA SIN PRECEDENTES EN LA HISTORIA DEL OPUS DEI.
    Al cabo de unas semanas, me comunicó mi DIRECTOR ESPIRITUAL que el DIRECTOR GENERAL del COLEGIO RETAMAR va a PROCEDER a mi JUBILACIÓN ANTICIPADA, pero sin perder una PERRA. JOSÉ LUIS ALIER, ACTUAL DIRECTOR GENERAL del COLEGIO RETAMAR, me empezaba a ADOCTRINAR en la MENTIRA ante mis COMPAÑEROS, hasta el grado de venir a buscarme al DESPACHO para custodiarme hasta su despacho para NEGOCIAR. En resumidas cuentas, cuminó su pretensión económica en pagarme TREINTA y SIETE MIL EUROS en LORD BLACK MONEY, pactar DISPENARME de unas CLASES LECTIVAS que me obligaba la LEY a IMPSARTIR, durante los CINDO AÑOS VENIDEROS. PACTAR CON LOS DIABLOS NUNCA CONDUCE A BUEN PUERTO.
    MOISÉS IBRAHIM: EX SUPERNUMERARIO DEL OPUS DEI Y EX EDUCADOR DEL ILUSTRE COLEGIO RETAMAR EN MADRID DURANTE TREINTA Y TRES AÑOS, SEDE Y BUNKER DE LOS ASALTOS A LA RAZÓN, LAS ARCAS PÚBLICAS, LA SEGURIDAD SOCIAL, LAS SUBVENCIONES PÚBLICAS, LA COMUNIDAD DE MADRID, LOS PROPIOS EMPLEADOS, EL MANEJO DE LORD BLACK MONEY, EL CONTROL DE FUNDACIONES ILEGALES Y EL ENVÍO DE DINERO MULTICOLOR A LAS AUTORIDADES ROMANAS. NUNCA HABRÁ “PAX IN AETERNUM” SIN HABER “PAX IN TERRA”.

  37. says

    A final de 2009, trabajaban para la sanidad privada unas 340.000 personas, sin que se hubieran registrado pérdidas de trabajo. Los médicos siguen siendo el grupo más representativo, pues 96.000 http://www.sanidadprivada.es ejercen en la sanidad privada. Y las enfermeras, el segundo colectivo en número, ssanion las que manifiestan un mayor descontento con sus condiciones salariales y laborales con respecto a la sanidad pública.

  38. Mr. Rain says

    Okay, first off, this is getting blown up way too much. Now, I know Chris was wrong in what he did to Rihanna, but you guys are acting like this type of sh*t doesn’t happen that often. It happens all the time. The only good thing that may come out of this incident is maybe an increased awareness about abuse.

  39. Anonymous says

    I think it’s crazy that ppl are making such a huge deal about it just because they are stars, its like ok any given day women (and men) are being abused but just because its Rihanna and Chris Brown we all have to feel horrible and be so sympathetic towards them. Rihanna is grown and I am positive that there are things we don’t know about their relationship and what happened that night, so if she wants to go back, let her. What Chris Brown did was wrong, ok I get that…sure it was horrible…but it happens so much! And on top of that, saying that Rihanna is a role model for girls and she’s making it seem ok blah blah WOW, that’s what PARENTS are for! If ppl are worried that their daughters will be negatively impacted by her “example” then talk to your kids….and if there are ppl out there crazy enough to go “oh, well Rihanna went back to Chris Brown after he hit her….so its ok” then ummm, they need help with their decision making skills or something. Lastly, Oprah has no right to say that Chris Brown will hit Rihanna again….its not her business and its not her place to jump to that conclusion, everyone is different and I personally don’t think it is ever right for a man to hit a woman, but I also think that ppl can change and to say that you are shining such a horrible light on a young boy….everyone is saying that Rihanna is young and impressionable…ok …Chris Brown is younger than she is! Teens are stupid, they make mistakes….we should either leave them alone or encourage them both to get counseling …but don’t attack either of them for being stupid and don’t go predicting the future actions of Chris Brown. For Oprah to be so old and wise she should know that words affect teens and saying something like that does not help at all…

  40. Ron says

    Now check this out. (Read the news article on the link below) Everyone is bad mouthing Chris Brown and the media has already found him guilty and ready to hang him, the media is not saying anything about how crazy Rihanna is. It has even been reported that Rihanna hit her brother in the head with a wine bottle just because he did not agree with her.

    Now read this news article…

    http://msn.foxsports.com/nfl/story/9316384/Hayes-stabbed-in-head,-neck-by-girlfriend?MSNHPHCP&GT1=39002

  41. Ron says

    Now check this out. (Read the news article on the link below) Everyone is bad mouthing Chris Brown and the media has already found him guilty and ready to hang him, the media is not saying anything about how crazy Rihanna is. It has even been reported that Rihanna hit her brother in the head with a wine bottle just because he did not agree with her.

    Now read this news article…

    http://msn.foxsports.com/nfl/story/9316384/Hayes-stabbed-in-head,-neck-by-girlfriend?MSNHPHCP&GT1=39002

  42. ViVS says

    Common, stop thinkin of the money for a second! gee u ppl are so ashh!
    We are human beings, and we feel; it destroys me personally to see the domestic violence statistics, plus all the women that get killed by their partners daily! she cares and is a good thing that she’s doing this show, she’s got followers and they could listen to her, that show could really help a lot of women and girls out there.. so just stop thinking of the moment for a sec! give it a breaak!

  43. Anonymous says

    rihanna got what she deserved not saying that chris was right on hitting her, oprah mind ur own damn business and try getting ur rating a different way.

  44. Fairness says

    Maybe everyone should hold off on such strong judgement until all the facts are known.

  45. Anonymous says

    I was married only 2 weeks and my husband promise to hit me.I listen to him and sooner I was alone I got a few of my close and left him.It was the best decision of my life. even though I was alone in the country and not know the language I was not let a man to have control of my life.

  46. Anonymous says

    You Americans need to get a life. At the end of the day Rhi is still rich and you all are still broke. They are both young and they both will go through a lot more shit before they grow old. Stop acting as though your lives are perfect. Time to move on to someone else’s life now and leave those two alone.

  47. says

    I just know when I was 19, 20, 21, I did things that I now regret. Hopefully, this whole incident was such a rude awakening for both of them, it’ll never happen again. It’s just that I have a hard time with Oprah labeling Chris Brown as a perpetual abuser. That is so NEGATIVE. Most judges in a court of law would give someone that age another chance to get themselves together, provided they’ve demonstrated responsibility. It seems Chris has done this, and he and Rihanna are trying desperately to get on with their young lives. I just think Oprah should carry on with business as usual, and not try to be Rihanna’s adviser. All the celebrities need to let Rihanna seek private counseling.

  48. says

    If you have never been in an abusive or violent relationship, then it is not fair to criticize those who have, or assume you know anything substantial about abuse. I was once that girl who said I would never put up with that either….until I met ex! I can’t even say for sure that I ever loved him, but he put a fear in me that I cannot begin to describe to you. One of his favorite threats was that if I ever went to the cops & told them the things he was doing to me that I would be taking his life, and therefore he would have to take mine. He also liked to describe to me how he would kill me if I ever told, and threatened to hurt my family. If & when I stood up to him, there were always consequences, if I refused to do what he said he would sit me in a chair for hours & not let me leave it until I agreed to do what he said, while screaming & spitting in my face. He was downright psycho & how was I to tell which threats he would carry out? I felt it wasn’t fair to have the people I loved pay for my mistakes, so I just let it go on for a year and a half. Finally, after being completely broken down with little hope of surviving this nightmare, I started praying again. Shortly after that I was laying in bed one night & it was like someone tapped me on the shoulder & said “he’s asleep, let go!” I snuck out & went to my parents house, shortly thereafter he fled the state. Come to find out, the piece of crap was a drug informant & on probation. He later ended up getting picked up by the FBI for other drug crimes & unfortunately his girlfriend at the time (who thought he was a salesman) went down with him (on conspiracy charges). This is just a tiny fraction of the story, does anyone care to criticize me based on the little I have told you??? I think people who have been abused are critical enough of themselves without having peope give them their 2 cents worth. As for Oprah, I think it was wrong of her to publicly call attention to this incident, it is a very personal & private matter & quite frankly, none of her business!!! On the other hand, it is important to make people aware, & I think we need to be tougher on the abusers. My ex will probably be released from prison & not be sent back to the state in which I have charges filed against him because it isn’t a “big enough deal” to pay the cost of sending him back!

  49. says

    Can anyone making comments please refrain from referring to “black” celebrities/famous personalities as apes or monkeys. That’s the last name that should be used, especially after the New York Post cartoon incident. Let’s just obliterate it completely.

  50. Anonymous says

    This is not a black or white issue. It’s an issue everyone should be aware of because it happens to a variety of women. Ozzy Osbourne used to beat his wife. Paris Hilton got knocked upside her head by that backstreet boy singer she dated and the list goes on. And the ignorant fool who called P-diddy a monkey is just a baffoon themself with these comments – an albino monkey.

  51. Anonymous says

    Unfortunately the only thing that either one of their parties is interested in is MONEY. Their reps are trying to save their careers because the largest part of their fame came from them being and performing together. Many of these celeb relationships come with a contract and who knows ….Rihanna may be keeping her end of the deal in the contract to date him for x amount of time.

    Either way it unfortunately makes for great publicity to have him as a spokes person as a former abuser and her as a former victim to do some charity event and raise millions of dollars of which their pockets will benefit, meanwhile we will all still be sitting here discussing our disgust.

  52. veronica says

    Yeah, Oprah, I’m sure Rihanna really appreciates you exploiting her situation for your own ratings benefit. If Oprah really cared she would pick up the phone and talk to Rihanna privately then do this show without using Rihanna as her spotlight. Wtf ever happened to Oprah, she used to have some dignity.

  53. chocolateraisins says

    I agree with Oprah. It IS her business. Every time a woman is hurt by a man, it affects every woman in the world. Abuse needs to stop. SO many women go back to the men who hurt them.

  54. Anonymous says

    As a black woman, I see there is an unfortunate difference in the way some of us view the Rianna/Chris situation than others. Its almost like we believe … “well, if she hit him first”.. or that she might have said or done something to MAKE him attack her. There is STILL no excuse for a man to hit a woman. He usually has more upper body strength and more powerful arms/fists. The most any man should do is restrain the woman by pinning down her hands & arms. If they were in a moving car, he should have pulled over & ordered her to get out. With the way she looked, he took some time to beat on her – plus (supposedly) make threats to do worse! Sadly, all this media attention, & maybe added guilty feelings from those who say “we don’t really know what happened”, may have added pressure to her going back to him. I say BE STRONG RIANNA. He’s likely to do it again, especially if he feels he’s gotten away with it this time. Next time you might no be so lucky – if you can call the way you looked lucky.

  55. NCR says

    I’m happy to see at least someone is taking action in order to teach kids that this situation is a no, no. Rihanna is not saying anything to her fans, if anything by keeping quiet and going back with the person who hit her is showing her fans that it is okay to forgive and go back with the person who hit you. Como on …has anyone seen the pictures. Please keep that in mind because Miss O is only trying to pass on a message because no one is.

  56. Anonymous says

    If I were a man, there is no way I would let anyone, even a woman, get away with hitting me all in my face, especially if I was driving at the time. There is such a thing as “battered-man” syndrome as well….there are men who put up with women beating on them and never retaliate nor report it because they are ashamed. I make no excuses for women who think they can start a fight and get away with it because they are the “weaker sex”. If any woman thinks she is strong enough to start something with my son I hope he would be strong enough to restrain himself however, because as most of these comments show, he would always be wrong….but she would have to deal with me.

  57. Survivor says

    Dear Chocolatraisins: And until the survivor makes the decision (not be forced, tempted, cajoled, persuaded, etc) to leave, it doesn’t matter what anyone thinks.

    My family pleaded with me and it meant nothing until I had a moment of clarity and made the decision. Every time they made me out to be a helpless victim and him a monster, it only reinforced my fantasies about being some misunderstood, star-crossed lovers. The best thing people can do for Rihanna or any one being abused is to help them become empowered to make her own tough choices. No amount of shaming, villifying, etc is going to make a person honor their own life more than they honor the relationship that’s causing harm. There can be a boomerang effect that causes the survivor to pity the one who hurt them.

    No one is discussing the “culture” of abuse. I talked to a teen girl that boasted, “I love to fight; boy, girl, it doesn’t matter.” I talked an adult woman who said (almost exactly) the same thing. People are conditioned to think one way or another. Unfortunately, Fenty and Brown share the same sentiment about conflict resolution.

  58. Anonymous says

    Survivor, I must say that your response is the most educated and sensible one so far, and please, at 19/20/21 years old, how many of us made wise life-changing decisions? At the end of the day, the decision is theirs to make. So can we all get back to our boring lives and leave these very rich people alone to work out theirs? How many of us could survive the scrutiny if the shoe was on our foot?

  59. FromFL says

    I never in a million years tought Chris Brown would be that kind of guy. Since this event happend I cannot listen to any of his songs on my ipod I just skip them over, all his love songs and saying how he love girls and he sees them in this wonderful kind of way. To me it is all just fake. That guy needs to go to prision he is lucky his damn ass is famous. Guys that beat up girls and take advantage of their strenght should go to a boot camp. GUYS USING VIOLENCE DOES NOT MAKES YOU ANY STRONGER IT JUST MAKES YOU WEAKER AND STUPID BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT SMART ENOUGH TO WALK OUT FROM A SITUTIATION. If I were Rihanna I would never forgive him, and I would never ever would want to be near him or talk to him. My best wishes for Rihanna.<3

  60. Survivor says

    Dear Anonymous, All of us were foolish at 19-21 – At that age I was marrying a guy because he looked amazing is Levi’s w/ no shirt. We were a beautiful pair. The pressure we place on celebrities to live out our own perfect-world fantasies is really unfair. And they are supposed to do it in front of cameras no less. We cannot do it ourselves, why do we expect them to? Chris Brown isn’t perfect. The guy can sing, dance and has a cute toothy grin. Other than that he’s just a guy. Rihanna is beautiful but that doesn’t preclude her from being the psycho girlfriend from hell. Geez. If anyone is giving advice they should tell them that each is of more value than the passion they feel as a couple. Heck, if Whitney Houston can leave Bobby, there is hope for anybody. But change doesn’t happen a moment before the survivor decides he/she has had enough.

    You’re right about us getting back to our boring lives, but I’d bet many of our lives are as jacked up as Fenty and Brown… perhaps its not abuse, but we’ve all got something we could put our energy into rather than deriding two teens for not acting more grown up. They are a girl and a boy, not our shining examples of anything.

  61. Anonymous says

    I agree with Oprah. When I was 15 I was with an 18 year old guy who was extremely abusive repeatedly. Anything abusive you name it, he tried it. It wasn’t till he assaulted me and I ended up throwing him down the stairs, ran into his kitchen and picked up the phone to call my mom did he stop. He ended up breaking the phone and threatened to kill me. I’m glad Rihanna called the police and escaped from the car.But she shouldn’t let Chris Brown back into her life. She was lucky she made it out alive. The worst thing about guys like Chris Brown is once they start they will keep repeating this behavior to others. She needs to sue Chris for every penny he’s worth, get that court course reappealed, and make sure his scrawny ass ends up in jail. She also needs counseling and rehab therapy to get over him.
    But please let Rihanna recoup without the tv cameras. She’s probablly grieved that she lost the man she thought he was. She still loves him but she needs to flee fast.

  62. Anonymous says

    Once again, very well said, Survivor…I am sure you are a psychologist. Most Americans aren’t as smart as you are….and by the way, I am from Barbados, Rhianna’s country of birth.

  63. Anonymous says

    yes it is wrong to hit someone regardless what the situation is. and i understand Oprah is caring but at the same time it is none of her business what if going on in either persons life. i understand if she wants to do that topic and all means it might be good but at the same time i dont think she or anyone would want it to be cause because of there situation and calling every rihannas i dont think that should of been said and it may be just me thinking that but still. and to one of the commenters its not your place to say who got what deserved. because she was jealous of a text or whatever is normal and some couples do fight about that point being it got to far and chris resorted to violent actions that should of never been tooken place in the beganing. i just dont think its right either to be pin-pointed and basically know your the reason the shows taking place, if you want to do a show like that then do it because it didnt only happen to her but its a serious problem that alot of young girls are being tooken place in. and if you think its so serious then Oprah should of done the topic already or thought of it on her own not because the situation between chris browna and riahanna.

  64. Liberal says

    seems its all about Chris beating Rihanna,has anybody looked at the other side of the story to see why and how all this happened.???Who hit who 1st and why(forget the text).Coming to think of it,has anybody asked themselves why Rihanna chose to go out with a younger boyfriend(sugar girlfriend,isn`t she??).
    I`m disapointed with Miss Winfrey(even tho am stil a big fan)coz she`s looking at one side of the story and making comments without putting so much thought into the whole story.I`m not taking any sides but people fight,make up and move on happily.Let us not forget the need for forgiveness.
    Its wrong to make comments based on personal experiences,its never the same for everyone.

  65. Anonymous says

    Ummmmmm…..Ok, first off, let’s start by saying that this Rihanna uproar is getting ridiculous. Sure, Chris Brown hit her. Sure, what Chris Brown did was messed up on so many levels. But let’s not forget three things here.
    1) If this was your average women, any girl off the street, would the media be MAKING such a big deal about this? No, of course not. Let’s not forget about the little man here. Everybody should matter, and I don’t think starlets should get better treatment above say, doctors or police officers, army personelle or firefighters. They SAVE LIVES. The Help people, they fight for us. So, if they of all aren’t getting special treatment, then neither should they. It’s her private life.
    2) We can’t prove that Oprah does actually care about Rihanna. Maybe she does, but maybe she doesn’t. And we also can’t prove that she does what she does just to help people. We aren’t her. Can we honestly say with 100% certainty that she would be doing this still today if she didn’t make as much money as she does? Honestly? Money changes people. She might, she might be one of the few that genuinely cares. But all in all we shouldn’t depend on it.
    3) Rihanna is allowing this to happen to herself. She’s letting him back in her life. Someone needs to stop patting her on the back and tell her what for in the most gentle yet firm way possible TO HER FACE. She has a reputation to uphold, people look up to her. She is a rolemodel. If they don’t talk to her, her manager, record label, SOMEONE NEEDS to sit down with her and remind her that she is being watched.
    And I completely disagree that the African American entertainment industry should be speaking up on this. I think the entertainment industry IN GENERAL should be. I don’t think they should decide who cares depending on what the color of your skin is. I bet there are people that care that no one’s bothering to interview, talk to them. Hear what they have to say.

  66. Anonymous says

    Remember people Oprah was abused in the past and was abused by her boyfriend at one point.

    This would make this subject personal for ur I would think

  67. Anonymous says

    This isn’t being explored by the media.
    Only after the facts when there killed.Woman,kids and children!!

    How many woman and children need to die?
    Did you know that mothers have to share custody we there abusers!

    The family courts are putting children right back in dangers way.
    Why because a mother tried to get help for there abused children and self.
    The Family court judges are not listening.Think this isn’t happening!
    Think again!
    http://www.angelfury.org
    http://www.stopfamilyviolence.org
    The judges need to be held accounatble for what there doing to our kids!
    Media wouldn’t cover this issue.
    I’m so shocked that media isn’t telling the real story.
    I know our lives our in danger from this alone.

  68. Anonymous says

    who cares? black white green yellow has nothing to do with abuse. come on people anyone that is an abuser needs to step up admit they have some type of control problem and get help. anyone that continues to be a victim needs to get counceling and if they are not in the situation that they can do that on there own then family, friends whomever should step in and give resources to them. stop placing blame on anyone..first step of recovering is admitting the problem and moving forward. any person of any situation has to want the help to get the help needed….lets move on keep it off the t.v., internet and lets talk about real world issues….how about turning this into a positive web site and give our service guys the respect and thanks for serving our country….this is a real topic to discuss and be conerned about….

  69. Jann says

    Lol, Oprah doesn’t need ratings. Oprah doesn’t even need her show. That was a dumb comment…lol What she is doing is probably hoping Rihanna will watch it and wake up. Not only her but the women out there living in abusive relationships. I don’t understand people who take DV lightly. Even a slap is not to be taken lightly. And it goes both ways – man or woman. I am not a huge Oprah fan, but if she can use herself as a platform to get the word out, then more power to her.

  70. Gisela says

    Sister how are you going to let a man hit you like that? how are you going to let that man rip your soul and hurt your heart? sister how are you going to let him bruise your spirit and damage your heart? If you don’t love YOU sister, nobody will…If you let him disrespect your face, your body and then lay down with him for sex? where is the love? your face may heal girl, but your are bruise, wounded and damaged…I guarantee you one thing; you will never be the same…….you will never be the same……. ask yourself girl, how can a butterfly fly with broken wings?

  71. Ron says

    Now check this out. (Read the news article on the link below) Everyone is bad mouthing Chris Brown and the media has already found him guilty and ready to hang him, the media is not saying anything about how crazy Rihanna is. It has even been reported that Rihanna hit her brother in the head with a wine bottle just because he did not agree with her.

    Now read this news article…

    http://msn.foxsports.com/nfl/story/9316384/Hayes-stabbed-in-head,-neck-by-girlfriend?MSNHPHCP&GT1=39002

  72. Anonymous says

    Oprah will have her ratings with or without this Chris Brown, Rihanna incident. Why do we not believe that another human being can be compassionate about someone other than themselves. Oprah has proved time and again that she genuinely cares for others and she is only telling her the truth. It is so horrible what he did to her, not only hitting her, but choking her until she was almost unconscious. If this is the first case of his abuse, I can’t imagine what else he has in store for her. I can only hope that since he is in the spotlight, he will really seek help and this want happen again. But who knows noone, not even Rihanna. Therefore, she should get out. We can only pray for her saftey and the saftey of all women experiencing domestic abuse, and let us stop being so negative. No one deserves to be abused. Not a child, woman, or a man!

  73. Anonymous says

    Any and all shows need ratings, that how they stay on the air. If they don’t need ratings – then they are no longer on the air.

    btw – Did anyone find their way past the hole in YOUR brain?

  74. suffy_78 says

    Love how you call her Lady O. But you are right…. She KNOWS what she is talking about and beter hear from her before any other so called expert.

  75. Anonymous says

    I honestly repect ur comment dats so true. If Rihanna goes bk which i heard n is very distrub bout it, the next time ppl r goin to take it for granted but hey who am i to say. For the respect of ur self n being a role model not for me but for the other generations Rihanna should show some kind of sense becoz we Caribbean ppl dont stick up for nonsense its a pity.

  76. Anonymous says

    why does diddy have to be a monkey? yeah what he did was wrong but after all it was riri choice to go back after he embrassed her pubicly. she must learn and seek GOD for help and wisdom –jk

  77. Anonymous says

    “she doesn’t own Chris anything. They don’t have kids together or a marriage. Rhianna is not like some women who don’t have any resources; some of these women have to stay with their abusers. ”
    That reminds me of an insane episode of COPS when a brother came to his sister’s rescue, she was being beaten by her boyfriend – the loving brothers comment to the camera’s “No man gonna beat my sister, not lest he’s married to her” – I’m glad I didn’t win that biological lottery!
    VICTIMS SHOULD GET OUT as soon as possible – AND TAKE THE KIDS if there are any. Children or a marriage license are not reasons to stay. They are not even a half-way decent excuse. There are shelters available for women with no income or other means of support.

  78. Anonymous says

    Don’t call people names, it is not right. You just call Didi monkey! That by itself prove how abuse you can be, you are not difference from Chirs B.
    Thank you,

  79. Anonymous says

    O is right, but she is not saying anything that has not been said before. It bothers me that more black entertainers are not speaking out about this. Usher said something and took it back; I heard that John Legend spoke against what Chris did and stood by what he said. The black entertainment industry has stood quiet. P Diddly or Puff Daddy or whatever that monkey is calling himself is actually encouraging them to get together! she doesn’t own Chris anything. They don’t have kids together or a marriage. Rhianna is not like some women who don’t have any resources; some of these women have to stay with their abusers. This is sending the message to young girls that look up to her. Is OK to stay if he beats you; Is not! and love is not suppose to hurt!

  80. Anonymous says

    I was also in a physically abusive relationship at 16 and it was my FIRST real bf so I didnt think anything when he started telling me what to wear, who I was allowed to talk to, and that I was NEVER to go to a party without him and if I disobeyed these rules, it began as him punching my face & arm while calling me stupid-and YES I TOOK HIM BACK. Over a year, I had fractured wrists and broken nose FROM HIM. My parents didnt want to see AND when the day came that my parents came home to find me laying on the floor of our patio after being thrown by that f*cker THROUGH OUR GLASS SCREEN DOOR and me unconscious THEN the police were called. I still have an active restraining order against him because he keeps trying to find out where we moved to and what my contact information is. LADIES PLEASE PLEASE DO NOT EVER LET THIS HAPPEN TO YOU OR ANYONE. F*CK anything anyone says. It will be hard to leave him but I can promise that it will end with you DEAD by his hand. He will NEVER stop beating you after the first time you allow it and forgive him. In fact, he will only beat you MORE and eventually either kill you in a fit of anger or beat you so badly one night that you’ll commit suicide just to escape. I am FOREVER grateful I even survived. DONT LET THIS SH*T HAPPEN TO YOU. *keepin it real*

  81. Anonymous says

    Whoever agrees with CB is probably an abuser himself. THAT SH*T IS NEVER OKAY. EVER. And with her behind in the spotlight, she NEEDS to be reppin a good example to younger kids. YES because she is famous and that is part of the responsibility that comes with that. And if she continues to make these terribly uninformed decisions, she AND a gazillion young girls will end up six feet under. because guess what, an abuser NEVER STOPS once he is forgiven. IT ONLY ESCALATES. I should know after being in and barely surviving what was a beating and tossing through a glass door. WAKE UP. IT CANT AND WONT END. unless SHE ends it by leaving. WAKE THE F*CK UP RIRI.

  82. Anonymous says

    chris n ri ri are young kids and i am not sayin that chris was right in hittine but for the love of it all leave these kids alone its like they cannot breathe without some news or blog site talking about how horrible chris is and how stupid rihanna is for taking him we don’t know there relationship and we will never know it

  83. missmarnip says

    hm, i’m biased. i can believe that oprah does honestly care about rihanna and the d.v. subject in general. but everyone also wants to have a piece of this scandal and turns it into tv ratings (= money).

  84. Audrey Ann says

    Do u know anything about Lady O. Check out her history. The lady knows first hand what she is talking about. And like many regular women out there she can’t believe that Rihanna is taking this shit from him and knows how many young girls are looking at Rihanna’s very public actions of silence and “forgiveness” and NOW think that d.v. is o.k. Lady O knows that he will hit her again and that next time it could mean her death.

  85. Anonymous says

    Are you serious with that comment… I dont think Oprah needs the ratings or the money. Hers is one of the few shows that cares about giving information and bringing awareness to women.

  86. Wilby66 says

    Oprah, is trying to save the RiRi’s life, if RiRi won’t listnen to reason. Atleast “O” can try and save another woman’s life. O doesn’t do these type of show’s for “Ratings.” To quote O, “if I wanted Ratings. I have Brad Pitt on as a Guest!”

    Monkey! Really… Only by hiding behind the internet would you get away with a comment like that.

  87. Anonymous says

    OMG keep it Real America. I’m a 32year old female and you people need to do your research and stop being so biased. Rhianna Snapped and went hoof on Chris B. That is no excuse for him to get beyond out of control to cause visible abuse to her. Yes a man is naturally stronger than a Woman. Wow.. I pray for this entire situation. The Celebs and media are running with this. Rhianna should step up and be honest. Women are bitter and spitfeul when a man cheats on them or break their hearts, especially young women at the age of 19. Granted that doesn’t give anyone any excuse to use violence. This is a Real issue, some real Stuff and people need to be Honest instead of taking a picture and running with it. View the DJ Clue interview CB had on youtube in 2008 a few months ago. DJ Clue asked CB has Rhi snapped on him yet, Clue went on to say he know how Island women are because he’s from the Islands. He asked CB has he experienced Rhi pulling out a pot or pan. CB said “no we don’t fight, none of that stuff, I just ignore her when she talks mess”. Wow people Please be fair about this. Violence is never the answer even when Females initiate it. As for Oprah how in the heck does she know everything? She has no kids and is an experienced parent, she’s never been married and knows about marriage, now she knows about Domestic Violence. Hos does Oprah have so many testimonies when she haven’t been through this herself. Oprah is ok, but she’s out of her lane. Also the media and other celebs are out of their lane also. I hear Rhi may loose endorsements too if she continues her relationship with CB. Wow, they are both adults, forget what people think. Man this topic is ticking me off, no one knows anything and everyone is going off of emotions and what the police wrote down. Not Rhianna. The police wrote the Affidavit, it was in the police writing, they went off of what Rhianna said and she was pissed and upset, emotional, etc when making her statements. She’s young and was pd off that she caught her man. Wake up America review all the facts, stop passing Judgment and be fair in this. Women abuse too. Rhianna and CB, LOOK TO GOD FOR DIRECTION, NOT OPRAH, NOR THE WORLD. WHEN ITS ALL SAID AND DONE OPRAH AND NO ONE ELSE HAS AUTHORITY OVER YOU ALL. ONLY GOD, DON’T LOOK TO PLEASE PEOPLE, LOOK TO HONOR GOD AND LOVE HIS WAY. PRAY AND ASK FOR FORGIVENESS AND KEEP IT MOVING, RHIANNA AND CB ANSWERS TO GOD AND GOD ONLY. Keep making music and too heck with everyone, like how everyone forgot about MichaelPhelps, Kobe Bryant, R Kelly, The New York Govenor who solict prostitutes, The Man in New York who robbed people out of Millions and Billions and the drug dealing rappers that music is in rotation. They will forget about you Alls issues when something major takes the spotlight. People are so Fake!!! I’m Glad I face God on judgment day not Oprah and the rest of this Wanna be perfect World…. People act life their lives are spotless…

  88. Anonymous says

    People are finally waking up to Oprah,,seeing who she really is,,,she will need the ratings ,,,soon,,
    No one should be abused in any relationship,man or woman.

  89. Anonymous says

    Does no one else think that people can change?

    i think if hes hit you once it doesn’t always mean he will do it again you can get counselling go to rehab and just grow up and mature as a person and that can change you. people grow and change all the time peoples views and attitudes change.
    Maybe rihanna and chis brown aren’t right for each other so maybe they should seperate or at least have a break from each other. But i believe Chris can change if he wants to. he has seen all the damage it has done to his family his career and rihanna and am sure he is very embarassed and ashamed therefor he won’t do it again.

  90. Anonymous says

    I think they are both stupid him for beating her and her for going back to someone that would do that. As for those who think that what he did is ok I think you need your head examined because you are just as stupid. If he had killed her we would not even be having these conversations instead everyone would be pissed that he acually killed her. That is something that is very likely to happen should he decide to do it again.

  91. Anonymous says

    Rihanna once hit her brother in the face with a glass bottle.

    The ‘Umbrella’ singer, who has two younger brothers, used to have fierce physical fights with her siblings.

    Rihanna told Complex magazine: “We used to fight and when I say fight, I don’t mean arguments, I mean physically fight. I hit the older one in his face with a glass bottle. My mom was pretty upset.”

    Ever hear her song breaking dishes she’s all about the fighting. She also needs help not only Chris Brown. And are you saying that there is no help for Chris Brown, I believe in the power to chainge our destiny by faith and turning over everything to God. People who don’t have faith in God will always have no hope.

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  93. Anonymous says

    Wow Oprah finally talks about domestic abuse that’s been going on for hundreds of years. She finally gives a damn cuz its a black woman celebrity. “for all the Rhianna’s out there” she says. Like that bitch was the first. Definitely not the last.

  94. J says

    O was praising Chris “after” he beat R, then she flipped & praised R. Her ratings have dropped & getting either one of these 2 would be a big ratings bonanza! Flip/Flop-Flip/Flop-Flip/Flop-Flip/Flop Ask her why she praised him (other then he visited her school-yeah, that makes it A-OK).

  95. J says

    O praised CB after he beat R (he visited her school), then she praised R. She wants either one or both on her show for a ratings bonanza – her ratings have dropped BIG TIME!

  96. Anonymous says

    He may not be a Monkey. But he is definately a Jackass! Yes, more people in the spotlight and everywhere should be speaking up about this. Never, Never, Never is it ok for anyone under any circumstances to stay in a abusive relationship. Yes, the circumstances are harder for some, but life is full of difficult situations, if we all just excepted everything bad that happened to us and never did anything about it, we would have no Oprahs, Obamas, or anyone else who has ever been through adversities. Also domestic violence does not discriminate, not only should black americans be speaking out against, but all americans should be stepping up and speaking out.

  97. Anonymous says

    Rihanna, is an intelligent young lady. Educated at one of Barbados’s Highest Schools. It’s sad that she had to be involved, in this mess. I am sure she will think this all though, when she has sometime, to think for herself. I personally think, she is still in shock. I can assure you, she will do the right thing, in the end. Give it time. God bless you Rihanna!!! We love you.

  98. Anonymous says

    Diddy provided a place for Chris & his mom to go chill (so he thought). Thought Chris needed a priviate location to let thinks die down a little. Dont blow things out like that.

    ReRe I believe threw the first blow, maybe they both need help. Yes Yes Chris you should have never hit the woman back. GO SEEK HELP both of you are too young to deal with stuff like that.

    Oprah, do you ever think Chris can get the help he needs and be a good guy/man?

  99. Anonymous says

    What in the world are you talking about? It doesn’t matter WHAT the circumstances were!! There is ABSOLUTELY NO reason that would justify what Chris did to Rhiana!!! No one else can control whether Rhiana takes him back or not-that’s for sure. But do you know how many women die each DAY due to domestic violence from their significant other? I don’t care how much I loved someone there is no way that I would take them back after doing something like that to me. Besides what kind of message is she sending to all the young girls who are her fans? And this is not the first show Oprah has done on domestic violence! you must either be an abuser or an abusee that just can’t see the truth anymore. And I hope you get the help you need before you either kill or are killed all in the name of what you call “love”. O is right LOVE does not hurt physically. Love is not violent. It is patient and kind no matter what! Im praying for you and for them to both get the counseling they need to get healthy. They must both have some pretty severe issues

  100. ito says

    i sincerely doubt rihanna will listen to her…oprah & the hip hop community have a really icey relationship.

  101. Anonymous says

    Oprah is right, Love doesn’t hurt! The stats are also 1 in 4 women have been raped. Startling numbers.

  102. Gee Gee says

    Oprah gets rating with or without the Chris and RiRi story. Oprah is speaking out against abuse in relationships, like she has done on her show many times before. Oprah has said she was in abusive relationships before. BET is also having a show on domestic violence on 106andPark. I think that it was easier for Rhianna to go back to Chris because the hip hop/rap community see nothing wrong with what he did. Chris is not held accountable for what he did, he is laughing it up and jet skiing, like he didn’t do anything wrong. The time is for him to take some time, and show remorse. The way the hip hop/rap community treat the women, rap and sing and call them bitches and hos. What do you expect? where is the respect for their women? After the pictures of RiRi’s busted face came out? she shouldn’t even look at Chris again…EVER!!. what type of woman lets a man do that to her face? disrespect her like that? and then she is going to go back to him?

  103. Anonymous says

    you know what it’s so easy for everyone to say what rihanna should do but who really knows what happened in that car or before that everyone is so quick to say she should leave chris the only reason people are even talking about this is because they are entertainers what about the young girls around the country why are people putting so much attention on these two? If that young lady wants to get back with him that should be her business and yes what the other people were saying was right how come the big O is just now dedicating a show do domestic violence? This is Show business people the entire world is following this story so why wouldn’t she get in on the ratings she may mean well but I bet she also knows that people are gonna tune in and that means more money for her even tho she doesn’t need it. Bottom line is this People should leave Chris and Rihanna alone if they want to get back together let them. Try putting the shoe on the other foot what if it was someone you loved you wouldn’t want people telling you to leave them alone it’s always easy to say what other people should do with their lives when your on the outside looking in. Be safe out there.

  104. Anonymous says

    Good for Oprah! Although she should have said something when it first happened, or personally called Rihanna to reach out to her.

  105. Anonymous says

    No one can make her leave him if she doesn’t want to!!! Just like every other abused person.

  106. Anonymous says

    Omg guys…She isn’t picking on Rihanna. She just using a familar face for us all to relate to. In any case…nothing she did could have made him do that 2 her. Its sad that people are giving negative feedback. Women are actually dying from this. And how can O ruin his Reputation? She didn’t hit her O.o

  107. Anonymous says

    Did everyone see “Its a thin line between love and hate” Glad that wasn’t real. If it was Martin Lawerence would be locked up for doing nothing.

  108. Anonymous says

    Oprah, Your head lines can also read. “If he gives you drug’s once, he will supply you again”

  109. Overit-K says

    I met my hubby in college, we were 20 years old. He had just gotten out of relationship with a beautiful girl that dogged him and everyone knew it. They had an abusive relationship, but I didn’t know that. After dating for a year we went out to a movie and pizza. On the way home I asked him about a female that I saw him talking to after class, I knew she liked him because she was BOLD and talked about him loudly around me. I called her a B&T&H and told him she sleeps with everyone. He hauled off and punched me in my left jaw (while driving). Of course we almost flipped the car until I realized fighting back would do no good. I went to bed without talking to him. I woke up to Breakfast in Bed, 1 Rose and tears with an apology. Fast forward 13 years, after 2 separations and finally taking him back for a 3rd time (we have 2 kids too), it took him 32 days before he showed his ugly head again. I made the kids go to their room as he’s shouting and ranting. I called the cops, my brothers and parents and told them I think I just killed him. By the time everyone arrived, the Butcher knife was stuck in the wall and we were wrestling trying to get it. This man has blamed me his entire adulthood for all his problems. We have been divorced 5 years and he doesn’t have a relationship with his children. He told me as he was leaving in handcuffs, he MARRIED me and expected it last forever and he wouldn’t rest until we were together. Rhi Rhi, if it happens once, it will continue to happen. It doesn’t matter about couseling etc…., he truly has to want to stop taking his insecurities out on women. I forgot to mention he was adopted at 2 weeks…I think that’s his problem. he may have felt rejected by him mom, therefore have no RESPECT for women. Find your inner strength and move on!

  110. Anonymous says

    I don’t know what you all are talking about….Oprah’s ratings have been steadily declining!! Any woman with an ounce of sense could tell Rihanna the same thing….Oprah didn’t invent common sense people!! She thinks she knows all and will even talk over her “experts”…can’t stand the woman! Rihanna is in a situation that she doesn’t have to be in…no kids and she isn’t hurting financially like a lot of abused women with nowhere to go.

  111. mjm says

    I am always glad when anyone does a show about abuse.

    I am one of the lucky ones, I was finally able to get out.

  112. skeptical at best says

    I’m thinking this will be a DV show inspired by the incident as opposed to directly about the incident. But no one cares b/c you either like Oprah or you don’t.

    Clearly this isn’t the first time, so she has gone back before. Unfortunately, like drug addiction, the person has to be ready before they can make a better decision. It’s just sad that some victims never get the chance to make that decision.

    I’ve also thought about the number of people who tell their stories about recovering from a variety of addictions and injuries. But I’ve never heard a former domestic abuser tell their story. And I’ve watched a lot of Maury. lol

  113. Survivor says

    I’m startled at how quickly we’ve created a victim. BOTH Brown and Fenty need help. Who spoke out when these two children were acting out very grown up roles living together and overcommitting? Both grew up in homes where violence was the way to solve conflict. As a survivor I cannot defend Brown, but neither can I dismiss the part the survivor plays in any action. I was the Rihanna in my first marriage so I know. I learned to slap and kick and throw things with the best of them. That behavior followed me into my second marriage. And it was only when my new husband sat me down and calmly said he refused to be in a relationship that involved violence. Period. I had to “unlearn” certain things. So does Fenty and Brown.

    While we’re all ready to ruin a 19 yr old, why hasn’t anyone mentioned Rihanna’s song that talks about this very subject? In “Ima Fight a Man Tonight” Rihanna sings of believing her man is cheating so she wilds out on him and vows to keep swinging, “Until I see police lights.” Irony is a mother. Why is it OK for Fenty to be the victim (I word and state of mind I loathe) and equally OK for her to teach a generation of girls that its OK to fight a man? Sure, we love our celebrities but who is outraged for the millions of girls who will take her advice and initiate the fight?

    Oprah can discuss this for “all the Rihanna’s of the world.” That’s what she does. But the hip hop community is the last to get a say on how to treat women…unless of course she’s getting down of the flo’, shaking what whe got, or gettin’ them dollars. And since when did TMZ justice become the rule of the day?

    I say let due process take it’s course.

  114. Anonymous2 says

    Thank you for this message. I was just released three days ago from the hospital from by BF kicking my head and face in a drunken rage. I “luckily” got away and was found unconscious a few blocks away. We were planning to get married and this was the only incident in which this happened..and as hard as it is to say this, I’m thinking of going back once he gets full counseling and the help he needs. Leaving is a LOT harder than it seems, and I know many of you who have been through this know what i’m talking about. I am saving your post to remind me why I shouldn’t make the decision to stay. Thank you.

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