I kind of know what she's talking about. I'm as ugly as sin. I know it and everyone knows it and if you saw me you would know it. Then there's my best friend. I'm not gay but he is so beautiful to look at, so brilliant. It's like the sun is always shining on him. He actually likes me for me and I can't stand him for that. I guess I'm his frenemy. I don't want to see anything bad happen to him, but I kind of do, but don't but do but don't. Anyway, I guess I'm jealous of him because I know if I were in his shoes I wouldn't be seen with a guy like me. I would be too much of a chump. So I guess I know what it's like to be a frenemy. Whoa, lot of rambling but I had to get it out.

I see her point. I have a friend who, she's such a sweetheart, but she's always having something amazing happen to her. To top it off she's a tiny little size 2, and a really pretty girl. She's as sweet as can be, and never did me wrong. But, anyway, every time she calls to share her new and exciting news, I cringe... in the back of my head, I want something to go wrong for her. Seems like everything always goes so smooth and perfect for her, I am jelous!... but she's such a good friend, I feel bad even thinking it.

I have had my share of Frenemys'. i had no clue they really did see me the same way I saw us. like sisters, pals,amigos. friends are like family. they answer to her very public statement, is , you don't bring yourself to wish or hope that something bad or equally awful to happen to your worst enemy. Yes, taking the high road maybe hard , because we are human, but really think about KARMA and "what goes around, comes back around". When you bring your mind set that is very low, it's very easy to keep going there when someone make you mad or hurts you to the core. But , i believe you have that type of mind set incorporated in your dna ( which everyone is capable of everything and anything) . what stands out the most , is that , the person who inflicts that part of themselves as readily and easily, hence GWYN is a mean person and clearly doesn't see it within THEMself, She has a quite smug attitude. H3LL THE BITISH DIDN'T LIKE HER. she is know for being a MAJOR SNOB AND A B1TCH. she has been loner and a solo traveler most of her life. her father pepped her up as she grew and gave her the stars and she ran with it like she's the sh1t. As that saying goes , "you are the company you keep"; her BFFs are MADONNA AND STELLA MC CARTHY; those women are know for being kattie b1tches .hello!most people are unhappy and jeaslous of anyone that is happier and much more foutunate then themselves.

this is so passive-aggressive! you know she knew that everyone would be buzzing, guessing who it is. and this is a manipulative dig at this "frenemy". talk about NOT taking the high road, she is totally gossiping by pretending not to.

so she's trying to take the "high road" by making herself out to be this amazing individual who is so pensive and always thinking about how she can improve, meanwhile we can all try to guess who this other person is, who isn't nearly as perfect as Gwenyth. Why would anyone want to be her friend?? she is SOOOOO self-righteous!!

Poor Gwyn - I feel for her (and, yes, I know not many do). Guess what? I made the same mistake, too - only last week! I was self-righteous, passive-aggressive and attacked and ripped into my own "frenemy." Nothing like pointing the finger at someone to know that as soon as you do, 3 fingers are pointing right back at you! I guess you could say, I held up a mirror - and saw only myself. I apologised, but you know the damage has been done!

The thing is, GOOP is Gwyn's and she can blog about whatever she wants - the haters and nay-sayers don't have to read any of it, or respond. Gwyn just wants to share, but I can understand how an act of (public) humility can be easily misconstrued into something else, something less generous and self-effacing. I admire her courage in pushing on with GOOP, making her mistakes in public, and reaching out into the real world where she knows she has just as many haters as fans. It takes a brave celebrity to step outside his/her own little bubble to face critics and still do what he / she wants to do.

I can relate to what Gwyneth says but it could be anyone she's talking about, for example, maybe this happened when she was five years old! It's total nonsense trying to figure out who her frenemy was.

Winona is a Scorpio so everything fits. Venemous, narcissistic and dangerous.