Sandra Bullock Has Found True Happiness
Sandra Bullock has been happily married to Jesse James since 2005. Admittedly, he's not who she though she would end up with. But there came a point in her life when Sandra began to live for herself and not for everyone else around her. Once she let go of these "preconceived notions ", Sandra admits she found pure joy.
"I took my godson to visit his company. I had an image of an obese guy with a handlebar mustache.
"I think most of us are raised with preconceived notions of the choices we're supposed to make. We waste so much time making decisions based on someone else's idea of our happiness – what will make you a good citizen or a good wife or daughter or actress. Nobody says, 'Just be happy – go be a cobbler or go live with goats.' "
The 44-year-old actress also admits she became “bored” of the film industry, leading her to take a lengthy break until she started getting offered roles which excited her.
She added to Glamour magazine:
"I was never the kind of girl who said, 'One day, I am going to be a beautiful bride, and I am going to have a family.' I wanted to work and support myself and make my parents proud.
“All I did was work. I did three or four films a year, and felt like I was on a treadmill. Finally I said, 'Nothing is exciting to me anymore.' So I took six months off, which turned into a year, and said, 'God, I don't miss it.' That's when all kinds of interesting things crossed my path."
I'm so glad Sandra is back at work. She is such a joy to watch on the big screen.
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She is so beautiful and such a class act.
yeeeah i love her!
Love her!
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I'm glad she's back too!
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I absolutely LOVE that first quote about the preconceived notions. It is so true...
Amen! Except my version is a farmer/musician. Fabulous :)
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This woman shines no matter what she does. A true class act.
where?
....................IN THE BASEMENT, folks?
Are you tripping on acid??
32985 points
That douche always has comments that make little to no sense and almost always end in "folks." It's incredibly annoying.
annoying manimal!! right, folks??
32985 points
No, "folks," you are annoying. Gah.
no acid tripping here, folks!
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Love her! She's so normal and down to earth :-)
Captain America is a troll...I know it's not easy, but just ignore him. The more we talk about him, the more he posts. He's a loser.
offensive to trolls!
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Please don't feed the trolls!
As for Sandra, she's luminous! And I, too, had another image of Jesse James before I saw him on The Apprentice a couple of times. He's really a decent, kind man. I'm happy they found each other.
Jesse's ex-wife Janine Lindemulder called into the Howard Stern Show this past March before starting her prison sentence for tax evasion. She says one of her exes turned her in but she wouldn’t say who. She says her ex-husband Jesse James and his new wife, actress Sandra Bullock, wanted nothing to do with her five-year-old daughter for the first three years of her life. Then one day they wanted contact with her daughter and Janine was happy and started making baby books for Jesse. But one day he just snapped and tried to get full custody of her daughter. They settled on joint custody.
The long standing rumor is that both Jesse and Sandra turned in Janine to the IRS. Though Jesse is no stranger to not paying people with his lawyers and former business partners all suing him for conning them and not paying his bills. I had always heard Jesse was violent towards Janine throughout their marriage and while Janine was pregnant with their daughter. He left Janine for Sandra while she was eight months pregnant though Janine says she doesn’t blame Sandra for the breakup. After Jesse left Janine for Sandra, he was claiming their daughter wasn’t his all of a sudden. DNA tests proved differently. Jesse then went on with his new life in Hollywood and wasn’t in contact with Janine or their daughter for the next three years.
My theory is that Sandra, who isn’t getting any younger by Hollywood standards, wanted Jesse to gain full custody of Janine’s daughter. This served two purposes: 1), Publicity for Sandra because she can get the publicity she wants by parading Janine’s daughter on public outings in front of the obvious paparazzi ahead. I’ve seen pictures of where Sandra is looking directly at the cameras and smiling while Janine’s daughter is in full view of them. Did Janine authorize these publicity stunts? And 2), Sandra can’t have children and trying to gain custody of a young child is her way of finally becoming a mother.
Sandra has many times stated in interviews that her husband’s children with his ex-wives and ex-girlfriends are also her children and a part of her family. I’m a part of a stepfamily but my stepfather had custody of me and raised me along with my mother. Sandra has nothing to do with Janine’s daughter except when Jesse has his visitation. Unless you are raising the children and their mothers are not in their lives for whatever reason, then you are not their mother and merely a babysitter. If Sandra had children. I highly doubt she would appreciate her husband’s exes saying her children are also their children now.
If Sandra can’t have children, she can open her home to foster children when there are so many children that need homes. She certainly has the money to do this and can take care of so many needy children. She obviously doesn’t want a happy stable family environment for Janine’s daughter because Janine said in her interview that Jesse and Sandra will not talk to her and she and Sandra have never really sat down to discuss her daughter staying with her while she’s in prison. How was this all arranged and handled? Through lawyers?
Jesse was using Janine’s porn history against her when he was first trying to get custody. But he didn’t have any problems marrying a porn star and getting a porn star pregnant. But when he met a woman more famous and more wealthy than Janine, Jesse and Sandra came to the conclusion that a porn star for a mother was suddenly a problem. Sandra thinks she’s a better mother figure for Janine’s daughter. But Janine has a 17-year-old son and there has never been any issues against Janine as a mother. Unlike Jesse who beat Janine while pregnant, later claimed their daughter wasn’t his, and then later having nothing to do with the child for the first three years of her life. While Sandra was having an affair with a married man who had a pregnant wife at home and has been trying to take a little girl away from her mother and older brother. Despite all of Janine’s flaws, I rather see her raising children than Jesse and Sandra.
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As you said rumor... you can't believe everything you read...
You're a freak...get a life.
There's also a rumor that Sandra is a nice person but we all know she's a homewrecking tramp. The IRS started investigating Janine two years ago. Two years ago is when Jesse and Sandra started filing for custody. Coincidence? Unlike Jesse who doesn't pay his bills and cons his business partners and lawyers. Sandra went after another woman's husband and now wants that woman's daughter. If she thinks Jesse won't do to her what he did to Janine with her, she's dumber than she looks.
Oh, and about getting a life. Sandra should get her own life instead of being fixated on Janine's life and family. Janine's daughter is not Sandra's daughter and will never be a part of her family. Sandra is just a babysitter and has no say in the child's life and future.
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I'm very happy for Sandra
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