Tameka Foster Blindsided By Divorce
JUN 24, 2009 AT 05:47 PM
UGH. I can't imagine how awful that must feel. Tameka Foster had no idea that Usher was planning on filing for divorce. Her best friend is speaking out and says that the couple was struggling, but that Tameka hadn't been told they would actually split.
She didn't know that he was going to file. Of
course, she knew that there were challenges in their relationship and had been
some discord since March and was aware there were some things that needed to be
worked through. But did she know that divorce was imminent? No. It was a total
surprise.
Does this make you feel bad for Tameka? She hasn't had the greatest reputation in the media but now maybe people will see her in a more compassionate light.
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19090 points
wow that sucks
23715 points
Gosh and all that fuss about when they got married, that she was just using him. Seems like a player can never be tamed.---em's
The writers on this site are complete idiots. When are you ever going to call a spade a spade? She went behind his back to get some shady lipo in Brazil almost died leaving a new born and a toddler in the hands of a nanny while her man was trying to pay the bills. If that is not enough for a divorce then I don't know what is. She is a foul individual, she reaps what she sows.
23155 points
Too bad, but doesn't change my opinion of her, still don't like her. I always thought he could have done so much better.
80081 points
yep, I remember reading that when she had complications during her plastic surgery and he rushed to be with her - he had NO IDEA that she was having it done. That's pretty secretive and I don't blame him for not letting her know right away that he was going to file.
29835 points
I can't believe it was a "total surprise" if they have been living apart for a year
No! She blindsided him first. She made him believe her hype, that happen to be lies. My ex - boyfriend is going through a similar situation. I think he's embarrassed that he was side-wiped by a woman pretending to love him for him, and instead just loved the hype and the money. I think men with money ( a lot of it) hide the truth from people like this, in fear they'll be taken to the cleaners , especially if children are involved. Which seem to be the problem with both the men I mentioned. I feel bad for my friend. He really doesn't want to date again after this or have a girl-friend, just open flings , but with close connections. I keep telling him Women aren't made that way. Once they have time to reflect and find better people to be around their great loves and real loves ( money is not the connect) they will be right again.
I believe you manifest and you give what you've been giving. THIS IS HER'S.
515 points
Not saying she's perfect. But he knew this when he married her and knocked her up TWICE. Eveyone told him. Even his mother okay. But once again just as in the case of him and Chilli he's gonna come out of this smelling like a rose. Women always get ALL THE BLAME.
1235 points
He should have listened to MaMa. My eyes may not be, but my heart, mind, and soul are colorblind.
32685 points
I think divorce is something that should be discussed by both partners.
68260 points
Wow that would really stink to be blindsided by something like this. Divorce is something that should be talked about.
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293250 points
I agree that both sides should atleast KNOW about the divorce... sheesh...
5995 points
Major life changes always make a great new album...He's had some pretty passionate hits before but I bet he will outdo himself now. Next comes another album. It is sad, but it is true.
Considering that they'd been separated for months prior to Usher filing for divorce, I really can't see she wouldn't get that divorce was the next step. If things had been working out, then they wouldn't have stayed separated for so long.
5753760 points
Divorce involves two poeple, so yeah, whatever has been done is done and two of them should've talked about divorce , of cause no one likes to hear things like that, but at least partners aren't blinsided by decisions that were made for them.
11990 points
He should have discussed the divorce with her before he did this. She must be shocked. I feel sorry for her.
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149675 points
He should have stayed with Chili.
Let's see. We're only going on her word here. Maybe he told her, uh, oh like 20 times, and she didn't believe him? Then again, maybe she did believe him and this is her way of getting some sympathy.
The media will see her in a more compassionate light IF they think she's telling the truth, which, frankly, I don't see them doing.
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