Jennifer Lopez On Marriage

Jennifer Lopez's marriage to Marc Anthony may be her third, but she still doesn't consider herself an expert, she confessed to InStyle.
"I'm still figuring it out as I go along," Lopez tells InStyle
magazine. "How do two totally different people come together and make
one life and say they'll do it forever and ever? I mean, I've tried it.
This is my third time. I don't even think I tried in my other
marriages, which was immature and not knowing better. ... I believe
that in life you learn through experience. I'm old enough to know now
that relationships take work. That it's not an easy thing.""We're always together. ... I respect him so much."
The singer/actress remains inquisitive about love, revealing
that she enjoys reading books on relationships. "It's the never-ending
question -- what is the key to love?"
If you do come across the answer, Jennifer, will you let us know or make a movie about it? LOL
What do you do to make your relationship work?
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149675 points
"What do you do to make your relationship work?" I'm single ;O)
Shocking!
19090 points
lol good for you donnaj!:P But for the miserable people (lol), me and my 5 year realtionshiop, it involves Ton of compromise, Throw your ego out the window, and when you forgive each other - forgive! Dont bring it up in an argument some sh1t that happened years ago. my bf has the best memory, I hate that. he'd be like remember that cr@p you did yesterday? and I'm like - "b1tch that was years ago" lmao let it go
775 points
For JLo, she strikes me as high maintenance and an "all about me" personality, maybe that is why it has worked out with Marc, he has adored her for years before they were married.
To be fair, she has grounded since she had kids.
162245 points
well there's a lot of things that helps a relationship work. i think some of those are communication and respect....
26235 points
I'm surprised to hear Jennifer admit she didn't try to work on her other marriages. Anyway, I think you have to both compromise and never stop trying. I'm not a pro at all. I've only been married a bit over 8 yrs. When I see relatives going on 50 yrs together, I feel like a guppy.
You can't go by what she says. She is full of BS. She says what she wants people to hear when she is in front of the camera. She is a fake. God only knows what her marriage is like behind closed doors.
8495 points
...and you say this because you know her so well, right? Give me a break.
5754100 points
still figuring it out myself :-)
I don't Elaine, this is why I said 'GOD ONLY KNOWS WHAT HER MARRIAGE IS LIKE BEHIND CLOSED DOORS!' However, EVERYBODY knows that she is one person in front of the camera and another in real life. Haven't you noticed the put on 'vamp look' she does with her face when she is being photographed? If that's not fake what is???
8495 points
I was referring to the first part of your comments. For all anybody knows, she might be the exact same person in front of the camera as she is in real life. That's my point - that NOBODY knows.
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