Cheryl Cole is desperate for a big family. The Girls Aloud star – who is married to soccer star Ashley Cole – is worried she may never become a mother if she doesn’t have a baby soon.
“Having a baby is important to me because I am from a big family. I have friends who have put it off and I don’t want to do that. I feel like all this that I do is just make-believe and at the end of the make-believe I will always have my family. So if I am blessed, I would love a big family. But nobody knows, do they?”
The 26-year-old singer – who has four siblings – added she hasn’t started trying for a baby yet, but will do so before long.
“Preferably sooner rather than later. I’m not pregnant now. The chance would be a fine thing – I haven’t been home! It would never be perfect timing, so I am not trying, I am preventing.”
There really never is a moment in someone’s life where it would be “perfect timing” to have a child. You just have to make the decision and then change your life around that choice. I have friends that are waiting to feel ready or save enough money or travel to X amount of countries. I don’t think it works like that.
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she’s really beautiful.
i love cheryl. shes always so nice on x factor uk =)
Couldn’t be a$$ed reading this, but she looks gorgerous in these photos. But I really don’t like these super low cut tops… looks trashy
don’t like her and I’m getting bored of her being EVERYWHERE here in the UK. She’s common as, but she does look particularly gorgeous in those pictures. Annoyingly so
She is pretty.
I am with you on the necklines. And something about her in this season of the X Factor makes her look a lot older than she really is. Not sure if it is her hair or her thinner eyebrows….
Hate to break it to you Vera but it DOES work like that. Some of us don’t want to be like you always throwing in comments about how you wish you could go to Italy or travel etc. We hear that and we don’t want to be that. Its very important to get what you want out of the way before you have a kid. And having money is crazy important. People who have kids when they are broke are pathetic and selfish.
“People who have kids when they are broke are pathetic and selfish.” What an ignorant thing to say.
I absolutely agree.
Ohh love Cheryl!! She would be such a good mum.
Gorgeous woman.
shes very beautiful
Cheryl is SO gorgeous, and such a sweetheart. I wish her all the best.
Hopefully Ashley’s cheating ways are behind him. Cheryl is lovely.
“I feel like all this that I do is just make-believe and at the end of the make-believe I will always have my family.” Very well said!
It can work that way. My husband and I were married for five years before having a child. We traveled, bought a house and built up a savings before we decided to have a child. If it didn’t work that way, we would have delt with it and still loved the child with all our hearts, but sometimes, yes it is possible to wait until the perfect time to have a child.
Not pathetic or selfish to have kids when “broke” which I guess to the anon. poster above me just means not being able to bounce around the world at a moment’s notice. And to say “you have to get what you want out of the way” as if having children is some kind of prison sentence that means you will never have fun or travel again is absurd. Certainly having kids involves rearranging priorities, but it is really much more about learning not to be so self-absorbed and materialistic – if you think you can only deal with kids that will somehow “fit” into *your* timetables and life plans you will never be ready for kids.
I’m with you on this.