Vince Vaughn provided his opinion about why a marriage may fail:
"I know that men marry women hoping that they will not change, and women marry men hoping that they will change and inevitably, everyone’s disappointed."
Hmmm... do you think that's true?
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7465 points
Yep, I think he is right.
17580 points
I think so too.
100965 points
I think it's true. Some women get married thinking they're going to solve whatever problems there are in the relationship by getting married and men just don't have a clue what they're getting into! LOL
I guess that's why I'm still single...
I'm not looking to change a man...I want him to already be right for me.
14030 points
wow, isn't he a romantic?
2519320 points
So, didn't he just propose? So he can't wait to be disappointed...hmmmmm
45286 points
Generally, he's exactly right. This is why so many people end up dissatisfied and divorced. We all say & do the right things in new relationships, sometimes compromising (or totally giving up) who we are and what we want. We SHOULD be upfront and honest about ourselves and our expectations. There's no such thing as "perfect" but I honestly believe you can find someone who'll love you for exactly who you are, and vice versa.
100965 points
ABSOLUTELY.
ITA with this and what Vince said. I have heard some crazy reasons for divorces (people lying about wanting kids or not wanting them, not being honest about where they want to live/work, etc..) as well as the typical reasons (cheating, "growing apart") and almost all of them involve a lack of honesty on some level or someone just gives up trying.
I love Vince Vaughn !
super cul
133025 points
Blah, boys boys boys. Boys will be boys. No one can change anyone. I am so over boys and relationships with them.
2519320 points
So, you're going girl?
133025 points
hahah, no :P I'll just go with myself.
2519320 points
That works and far less drama! BOB, the battery operated boyfriend is very reliable! ;)
7465 points
I do like this quote but I'm sure he borrowed it from someone. Also I think I used to do this early in my relationship, re: my husband, and once I stopped doing it, I was so much happier! And so was he probably, LOL
9420 points
That may be true for those who have a difficult time accepting who they are with. Not for those who actually want their relationship to work.
yeah I do. Vince pretty much nailed it.
390 points
Absolutely. Thank GOD my mom taught me that you should not seek to change ANYBODY, but only improve yourself with the hopes of positively affecting others. I love my sig. other just the way he is.
Is he trying to pass that off as an original statement? It's an old joke. I heard it at least 10 years ago.
No, he isn't. I remember he used that same quote when he was promoting The Break-up. Said it was an old saying or something along those lines.
You know what they say, men are are like carpet, you lay them right the first time, you can walk on them for life.
2519320 points
LOL
3460 points
I wish.. My husband acts more like a women and wishes to change me... blah blah blah. I am so over it
98300 points
LOL !! love that quote ! not realistic but still very funny !
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Its all a game. Men NEVER want to get married. EVER. They just do it cuz they get pressured from the woman which is WRONG. Then pressure from the parents which is WRONG. They also dont want kids but they get pressured from the woman as usual. All this pressure without anyone ever bothering to ask the man what he actually WANTS. No wonder they are always running around behind your backs.
That's not true. I have plenty of male friends that are more into the concept of marriage than I am. And my boyfriend talks about having children all the time when I am SO far from even thinking about that.
You need to take your issues to a therapist rather than a gossip site.
Ladies maybe you should all let this sink in real deep. Men dont want what you want so instead of pressuring him into marriage, kids and an awful life in the bubrs how about finding someone who actually wants that??
129675 points
Speak for yourself, schmuck.
129675 points
People are constantly evolving and wishing for stagnance is completely unrealistic and so is trying to change someone. Unless two people are willing to grow together, hold on and offer support, it will never work out. Just my take on relationships.
93685 points
completely agree.
52515 points
Agree too.
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