I love getting insight into the male mind! 'The Box' star James Marsden didn't hold back, either, when he sat down with Women's Health Magazine.

What do men find sexy that would surprise most women?

"Two things. First are body parts women are usually not happy with, such as a soft waistline and hips. I like both very much. Women hate when guys touch and pinch them there, but men don’t have curves and the more women embrace them, the sexier it is!

Second: when a sweaty woman is leaving the gym, because it’s similar to the way she might look right after sex. Anything that suggests you in that act [is hot]."

How a woman looks as she leaves the gym is sexy. Yes, this confirms it: men really do have sex on the brain all the time :)

What was James' biggest misconception about marriage?

"That nothing would change. I was with my wife for five years before we got married. At some point, she was ready to take the next step, and I would say, 'I'm committed to you now; nothing's going to change.' But [once you marry] there is a huge difference. It's a different mindset. If you already have a great relationship, it'll only sweeten the deal."

Click on the continue reading link below to find out the secret power James wishes he had.

James Marsden photos by INF

James shared the one secret power he wishes he possessed.

"It would be cool to be invisible, but I'm afraid of what people would say about me if they didn't know I was there. Some things are better left unknown."

Good point! He sounds like a sweet and thoughtful guy :)

If you want to read James' entire interview, check out the November issue of Women's Health Magazine, which is on newsstands now (it's the one with Kristen Bell on the cover: see the thumbnail below).

James' new movie, 'The Box,' opens in theaters this Friday. He co-stars with Cameron Diaz. You can read up on it here.