John Mayer AGAIN talked about his past high-profile relationships with Jessica Simpson and Jennifer Aniston. This time it was in a Playboy interview. Here’s what he said about his relationship with Jessica:
“Sexually, it was crazy. … It was like napalm. Sexual napalm.”
He also said he still loves Jennifer and part of what went wrong.
“Yes, always [he'll love her]. I’ll always be sorry that it didn’t last. In some ways I wish I could be with her.”
The interviewer asked John if his excessive use of twitter led to their break-up (which has been rumored).
“That wasn’t it, but that was a big difference. The brunt of her success came before TMZ and Twitter. I think she’s still hoping it goes back to 1998. She saw my involvement in technology as courting distraction.”
John even shared his feelings about several African American actresses.
“I always thought Holly Robinson Peete was gorgeous. Every white dude loved Hilary from The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air. And Kerry Washington. She’s superhot … “
Okay, I know part of the “game” in interviews is to say things that will get quoted, but come on. Someone needs to tell John that not only does this NOT help his reputation any, but it just makes him look PATHETIC.
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John Mayer has some kind of phobia, but not sure what it is. Growing up?
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Holly shiz.. you bored me at the first line. What a rant.
and you would think he would stop talking about it. he didnt learn a thing. he loves the attention.
He is absolutely revolting!! All of these women are way out of his league.
I just don’t see what attracts women to him. He’s a loser!
“He needs to shut up”?
Fine if those were tweets but this is from an interview, the main task in an interview is to talk. Especially when it’s an interview with Playboy, he’s bound to be talking about the laddies and sex.
He has never spoken about any of his ex’s in a bad light, he loves woman. So what.
i remember when this website used to just report the stories and not their opinions.
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loL i like another quote that he said hes going to try to get written up in UsWeekly all the time in 2010. That actually made me laugh – it seemed so much more honest then he usually is.
The entire comment that he made about African American women and the use of the N word is entirely inappropriate. His comments about the lovely Kerry Washington are degrading and immature. This web site (INO) tried to display his comments about African American women in a “positive” light, but actually the comments are very negative and tactless. I can’t say that he is racist (still on the fence), all though he makes reference to a notorious KKK member at one point, but it does show his lack of intelligence and class. For the entire interview you should visit the Playboy website. See for yourself…
it’s a gossip blog – not a news site! (and I’ve been reading it for several years – I don’t remember it ever NOT giving opinions)
He is a moron. How disgusting and embarrassing for Jessica Simpson that he talked about her that way. I think the women who’ve slept with him ought to start offering public critiques. Nah, scratch that – he’d LOVE that.
I have also been reading here for years, and used to it not be opinionated.
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oyy. i usually like his random quotes cuz they’re funny but this is just over the top
The dude carries a “murse”…enough said!
I don’t see what made him look pathetic in these quotes. It’s Playboy. They’re going to ask about sexual stuff. He didn’t say anything derogatory about any of the women he spoke up. Jessica is great in the sack, he still loves Jennifer Aniston, and he has crushes on other girls.
He says dumb things, but what’s wrong here?
His playboy ways are finally catching up to him. He had some great girls in the past that were actually the kind of girl you bring home to meet the parents, but of course he screwed those up. He’s going to be a lonely old man. I can’t ever see him getting married. And I think he likes it that way.
I think Jenn has been lucky. She got rid of Brad and John who both seem like major head cases.
I think he looks pathetic because he wont stop talking about the famous women he’s dated. Any freakin interview he does, he makes some reference to them and it seems like he’s doing it only to get publicity. It’s tacky. Agree totally with Vera
I couldn’t agree with you more. He needs to learn to shut up.
John Mayer seems to be taking over where Fred Durst left off. There is nothing worse than a male who kisses and tells.
My God. Does he ever shutup?
He’s stuck at 16 in his head. Only immature guys talk about this stuff.
Enough already, someone needs to shut his mouth.