Taylor Swift is known for singing about when a guy’s “done her wrong” in her music. Now Taylor’s friends are opening up about what they think their pal’s problem is. And they seem to be pointing the finger the ‘We Are Never Ever Getting Back Together‘ singer- NOT her exes. “Friends” said:
“All Taylor wants is to be loved. She’s a prisoner of her work. It takes up all of her time. She overworks relationships. She puts so much pressure on them, it ultimately kills the deal. Then she’s baffled as to why it didn’t work.
“It’s like she’s analyzing love like a scientist, rather than just feeling it. It’s ironic that she is a multimillionaire from singing about love.”
Taylor has said in the past that she’s searching for “the one,” but she’s also admitted she’s carefully not to center her entire life around a guy.
“…the idea of finding another person to share your life with is the most fascinating, beautiful quest you could ever be on in life…
“My advice about guys has to do with how you prioritize them. They can be a part of your life but never let the guy BE your life. They can live in your world, but never make the guy your world.
“Knowing who you are and being independent and strong will be attractive to the right guy. Try too hard to impress a guy or putting him before your friends and family shows you’re not OK with who you are. One of my goals is always to be OK and with who I am aside from love and boys.”
I agree with this! Taylor’s young and working in an industry where you have to strike while you’re hot. No one stays on top forever: she’s smart to focus on her career now. When things slow down (and she’s a little more mature), she can work on balancing her career with her love life.
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