Jon And Kate Gosselin Birthday Drama?

Earlier today Jon Gosselin shared that he was not sure if he'd go home tomorrow for his girls' (Cara & Mady) 9th birthday.
"As my old self, as an avoider and passive, I want to go home for Cara and Mady — but I don't want to face [Kate]," Jon said.
But he must have changed his mind because he was seen buying a birthday cake at The Cupake Cafe in NYC today. My question is - why would you only buy one cake when you have two daughters celebrating a birthday PLUS you have 8 kids to share that cake? Then again, if you look at the thumbnails - that ONE cake cost $94! Whoa! That must be some amazing cake!
Maybe whether or not he shows up will depend on what kind of backlash (if any) after his appearance tonight on Entertainment Tonight?
What do you think? And what's the most you've ever paid for a cake?
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21915 points
ugh seriously? these two need to stop fighting in public/through the media, and just sit down and work it out for the sake of their kids. the way they're fighting now clearly isn't helping anybody
Why is he buying a cake in NYC when the kids live in PA? Totally a photo op. They are both so awful.
8010 points
Good point!
2240 points
I think I paid a little over $100 for my wedding cake, and it was gorgeous and delicious! The caterer was fabulous! I don't think I would pay that much for a birthday cake though. I couldn't afford it!
2265820 points
He can afford though seeing how he took $230,000 out of a bank account recently.
8590 points
This is a non-story. Stop covering them, and let their family work through the divorce in private. Jon - stop whoring yourself out instead of your kids.
I paid 175 for my babyshower cake. I blame the hormones...
755 points
Don't feel too bad. I just paid $400 for these little mint tins filled with Altoids that are personalized for my sister's baby shower. Ridiculous!
I've got twins, they've their own cake at their birthday, like my 2 other children ;)
2265820 points
Kate is making a homemade chocolate cake so there will be 2 cakes.
132960 points
ahahah are you personal friends with Kate? I don't think so.
129675 points
LMAO!
2265820 points
You are easily amused or did you just want more points?
129675 points
You just can't help yourself, can you? LOL! Fuckin' twit.
93685 points
lol!
2265820 points
U 2
2265820 points
Read it. What's your problem? Wrong side of the bed? Did I offend you? Get a grip. Kate was talking about coping with the twins bday and said she was looking forward to making them a chocolate cake. Geez!
1365 points
He gave an on the street interview to Radaronline for like 10 minutes...he was just spewing all this personal info to the paps like they were his buddies! WHY CANT HE STOP TALKING?? And he was even reading an email from Kate to the camera. THIS is why it wont stop....cause he cannot shut his trap. MAN!!!!!
2265820 points
I think it is time for s serious psych evaluation.
132960 points
Don''t get me wrong, but I love Kate. However; you are OBSESSED with Kate and defend her no matter what. There is no need for this commenter to have a 'psych' evaluation because YOU disagree with him/her. She has a very, VERY vaild point. I used to like you until you began to make those 100x multiple comments on one post about the same thing.
2265820 points
I don't care if you like me or not. I am not the subject of the post. Jon's unstable and a major tool. Someone needs to reign him in. He has major issues. Don't read my posts if you don't like them. No one is holding a gun to your head. You have 30,870 points....who's OBSESSED?
i don't kate is the one to blame for all the fighting.. for all i know it was john who always started the fight and always trying to make kate look bad... This guy seems to blame kate for all of his problems...grow up jon!
he's a douchecicle who can't keep his mouth shut
27500 points
it shouldnt be about how he feels or what he thinks. it should be about the kids.
100720 points
I agree with you. Whatever problems they have, has nothing to do with the kids and they shouldn't suffer for it.
OMG he's such a tool bag!!! Is he going to lug that around the city? I highly doubt he was going back to his apartment, there aren't any paps at his place to chat with! this guy hates tv wants to keep everything private and he's on EVERY SINGLE Celeb show at night giving interview after interview; what is wrong with this person? I can't believe Kate is even letting him come to the party I'd say screw you have your own party for the girls if you want to, how is Kate supposed to celebrate with her kids if he's there? After everything he's said and done in the past few weeks that would be very uncomfortable!!!
P.S Who would buy that kind of cake for a kid? It looks like a cake I'd buy my mom
P.S.S I've bought cakes almost that expensive.. depends on where you live
Kate started it with: "I want a divorce". I suspect Jon stopped being her patsy, and simply didn't want to go on with the show. And maybe just maybe, though Jon's method is a bit mad, there is something to what he's saying. Kate is just too perfect and no one is that perfect. I don't believe a word that's coming out of her mouth. She's an abuser, plain and simple.
14005 points
I can't remember how much, but we spent a lot on my son's first birthday, it was a luau theme, so they made a beautiful island with seashells, palm trees and rubber duckys dressed up as Hawaiians. Fun party!
I truly hate Jon - and I am tired of reading about his family drama EVERYDAY! He claims he is an avoider - he sure isn't even trying to avoid the media!
132960 points
I don't give a shit how much he dislikes Kate -- if he REALLY loves his children, including Cara and Mady, he would go home for their birthday weekend and celebrate it for and with them! What a douchbag of a motherfuck. He 's not passive; he is just a lazy and inconsiderate pussy bitch. Wait, actually he IS passive - he only listens to his lawyers and not himself when any sane human being would KNOW they should go home for their kids' birthdays.
how many divorced parents actually spend events together? all my friends with divorced parents always had two birthday celebrations growing up... two christmases and two thanksgivings.
17580 points
I would have to agree with you on this one.
Something smells bad about this whole thing. I cannot believe that either of their attorneys are allowing them to talk to the media about anything. There is something obviously contrived here.
2265820 points
The judge should put a gag order on the whole thing.
I am sure Kate...or the nanny... has already planned the birthday cake and all.
It's so easy to judge...but Kate seemed to be possessed in the previous seasons of the show...not saying he's right...not saying she's right either.
I feel for the kids...
1340 points
Everything about this guy kills me. he's the quintessential d**chebag
177252 points
He needs to stop being a chicken Sh*t and go home for the girls.
I once bought a 70 birthday cake..Dortoni out in Levittown..YuMNnnn
2195 points
He is the biggest waste of human flesh ever. Why doesn't he just shut up, grow up and take care of his responsibilities like a man instead of chasing the paps around and trying to be on screen every chance he gets and why don't these paps just ignore his ugly butt and force him to just go away
12932 points
He has been all over the tv entertainment shows for the past several days busy trying to defend his actions while throwing Kate under the bus, over and over. It got to me when he started talking about their finances. He is obviously pi$$ed at TLC for being cut out of the show, and that is what is behind this latest tantrum. I haven't heard how he expects the family to live once the show is over and there is no more money coming in--as he seems to avoid responding to those questions.
2895 points
That's a beautiful cake.
3145 points
I'm separated from my husband, but even during the worst parts of our split, I still invited him to each holiday, birthday party, school play, etc. We would put our differences aside for the sake of our kids, and their special days, and that's what grown-ups do, not that Jon and Kate know anything about that!
As far as the cake, I highly doubt it's for his girls if he's buying it in another state.
129675 points
I think whatever needs to be said about these two has already been said. Its all about the kids, and should always be so.
93685 points
that's an ugly cake.
I think that Jon needs to stop making this all about himself. He should have just said Whether Kate and I are getting along, I'm going home to see Cara and Maddy. They're important. It's day, not mine or Kate's.
52515 points
Jon and Kate live for drama they get paid for it---
52515 points
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52515 points
Sorry double post
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